As a trans woman I agree, sometimes we as trans people overthink things as to whether we are good enough or not. And I’m very gender dysphoric sometimes as well that it comes off as surprising to me when a cis gendered person is attracted to me. 🤔
I am a Pansexual CIS Male. I have been with one trans person and we really got on. I liked them, we gave each other a lot of pleasure. I am still learning about the trans comunity but to me it does not matter what a person is as long as they treat me nice. very interesting video
My boyfriend struggles with dysphoria really badly. I believe he thinks that I will decide he's not good enough for me because he can't give me what he thinks I want. But really, I just want him. It just sucks because we're in a long distance relationship, so I can't reassure him with a simple hug. I just try my best to reaffirm with words that I love him for who he is, not whatever parts he has.
Not all trans men are attracted to heterosexual women or women in general. Some are are in same-gender-loving relationships with males both trans and cisgender.
Well the obvious fix to not feeling anything with a object that isn't you is "THE" surgery, but that isn't reversible , so please just make sure, that is what you want before you make the move. You're lucky to have transitioned in this day and age, just a couple decades ago it was vastly different.
Calling WOMEN cis is gender racism!!!! Stop being a woman hater! There is no such thing as trans! Every cell in your body says you are a woman! Cutting your breasts off won't ever make you a man, hacking ones penis off won't make you a woman either! You need help! You need God! I will pray for you that this emon leaves you and God makes you whole again
I'm a cis woman and I'm bisexual and let me tell you "hetero sex" is so boring. Penis is vagina = meh. I mean sometimes it's okay I guess but it never compares to clit stuff. That's why I love guys who understand most women don't get off from penetration. And when I date girls you also get the dumb question "How do you have sex"
If your dating a trans guy and are serious which me and my man are.. how do you cope or help or just get them to stop thinking suicidal? It eats me alive not being able to help him as much as I want too.
Maybe some people arent curious maybe they just genuinely want to know because they find themself interested in a transman and want to know what to expect! No one ever addresses this
This video made me cry into my dogs fur, haha. I've had these same thoughts with my partner of 4 years now, and I've always had a hard time accepting his answer when he told me his real feelings on the perception of my body. This video really helped me see the things he was saying wasn't just because he's anxious about his loved ones reactions, but because he truly feels love for the whole of me. Thank you so much, man. You have no idea how much I love and care for you.
i very much relate to the dysphoria about prosthetics and it makes me feel comforted that someone else feels the same way. because i felt like i was so alone. i really feel like it’s an inconvenience to me and my partner. and i’m grateful you posted this because i’ve been struggling a lot with dysphoria especially bottom dysphoria and even my trans friends don’t relate to me as much. so i’d like to say thank you
Comment 101! Hey just a little recently kind of out grey ace cis female here – heteroromantic and would totally date a trans man or Nb person! New(ish) to learning about LQBTQ+ terminology but firmly believe we are all whole ♥️
Reminds me of a scene in The L Word where a cishet man asks different cis lesbians what the “ultimate lesbian sex act” is because in his cis/het normative patriarchal mind, of course, the “ultimate sex act” is a penis penetrating a vagina 🙄
You are very inspiring and I appreciate you posting about your feelings and thoughts on being trans, because even though we are quite different, you say things that I supremely jive with. So thank you and I hope you are having a nice day.
My own primal urges tell me I should be penetrating and spreading my seed – it’s torture. I would forgo standing to pee or whatever is deemed “ masculine “ …What I wouldn’t give to feel and connect with her in that way. Sex is how I connect emotionally and in a very primal way – it’s Torture. So thank you Aaron for your words. Acceptance is the only way – like a cis male who’s lost his ability to get an erection.
i feel this so much. im lucky in that i don't get bottom dysphoria very often, and when i do its usually related to my menstration. i feel comfortable having sex with my boyfriend, especially in the moment, because i am a very sensitive person so any stimulation is almost always good stimulation in my case, and i enjoy that i can bring pleasure to another person. but i used to feel almost guilty and like i 'wasn't trans enough' because i don't absolutely hate the parts i was born with, especially because i liked sex so much. and it got worse when i started dating men, because i felt they weren't seeing me as a man because i've done almost nothing to medically transition and i am willing to use my parts during sex. but my boyfriend now, the absolute love of my life, has been the best thing to ever happen to me. i don't know how he does this but when we're together he can almost always tell when im having a hard time without me having to say anything and he's say something validating to me or just simply ask for cuddles and calls me his man and just makes me feel manlier than i've ever felt before, i don't feel incomplete compared to him and having that has helped with my dysphoria a lot.
I'm a cis woman who recently started seeing a trans man and I've spent the last couple of weeks watching as many videos as I can to try and educate myself in a way that I can make my partner as comfortable and feel as valid as possible. I wouldn't trade him or his body or his struggles for anything, but I want to be able to connect with him when he's feeling dysphoric. Thank you so much for your video, it helps me a lot!
My partner who is cis male, he used to love switching genders (role play), but after I got serious about getting on T, top surgery and such, he turned VERY uncomfortable with me. I can't have lower surgery because I can't have any foreign implants due to many physical health issues, so can't even do metoidioplasty or phallo, and it sucks because to me, "attachments" are my only option after 20 surgeries from various medical issues. It makes me sad that I will never feel "complete" as well, and that I am also gay if I wanted to fully transition (found a way to get a real penis compared to implants of any kind to help me function) Thank you for this video, I don't feel so alone in my dysphoria. I haven't been with my partner in over a year, just because he hates what he sees when he looks at me, and it makes me feel that much more inadequate.
This was soooo good. Also as a cis guy, can confirm, dicks are weird. Sometimes I forget that people have sexy bits and my mind gets blown. Maybe it's an ace thing.
I think this is such a healthy, yet very difficult thing to learn, that people will love your 'flaws' and that to them, they aren't flaws at all. I didn't own a pair of shorts for like eight years because I was embarrassed by my hairy legs. But then I realized that I liked guys with hairy legs, so clearly there must be someone else out there who does to… and if I'm going to meet them then I gotta show these babies off! XDD
But seriously, take it from someone who has fallen ridiculously in love… find someone who will love you wholly and completely and won't have you any other way.
Love this video! I don’t have super bad bottom dysphoria but the feeling incomplete part really resonates with me. Side note, I love your nails, you look so aesthetic.
this is the exact reason why i do not want phalloplasty. if i could wake up tomorrow with a functioning, biological male penis, then fucking hell yeah i would. i am super dysphoric, but the bottom surgery that's available right now is not something i would like to have. i told this to my (cis) friend and she understood, that made me relieved that it makes sense to a lot of people.
How do you have sex? You stick a biological penis in a biological vagina, that's the expectation of sex
i wish i had this when i was dating a cis person ,,,
I really really needed this
Its nobody's business!
As a trans woman I agree, sometimes we as trans people overthink things as to whether we are good enough or not. And I’m very gender dysphoric sometimes as well that it comes off as surprising to me when a cis gendered person is attracted to me. 🤔
I FEEL YOU
I am a Pansexual CIS Male. I have been with one trans person and we really got on. I liked them, we gave each other a lot of pleasure. I am still learning about the trans comunity but to me it does not matter what a person is as long as they treat me nice. very interesting video
I really like your shirt
My boyfriend struggles with dysphoria really badly. I believe he thinks that I will decide he's not good enough for me because he can't give me what he thinks I want. But really, I just want him. It just sucks because we're in a long distance relationship, so I can't reassure him with a simple hug. I just try my best to reaffirm with words that I love him for who he is, not whatever parts he has.
I am a cis bottom guy luv to date a trans guy
I’m not even trying to be funny, Aaron but I read the title as “Feeling as a whole trans” I’M SO SORREH!!
Not all trans men are attracted to heterosexual women or women in general. Some are are in same-gender-loving relationships with males both trans and cisgender.
Thanking You. Me myself on the very beginning, Of my the uninformness and blind stadium.. Wish I this video would have been even longer,
this makes total logical sense to me.
Well the obvious fix to not feeling anything with a object that isn't you is "THE" surgery, but that isn't reversible , so please just make sure, that is what you want before you make the move. You're lucky to have transitioned in this day and age, just a couple decades ago it was vastly different.
Calling WOMEN cis is gender racism!!!!
Stop being a woman hater! There is no such thing as trans! Every cell in your body says you are a woman!
Cutting your breasts off won't ever make you a man, hacking ones penis off won't make you a woman either!
You need help!
You need God!
I will pray for you that this emon leaves you and God makes you whole again
Incel men what is your excuse now?
I'm a cis woman and I'm bisexual and let me tell you "hetero sex" is so boring. Penis is vagina = meh. I mean sometimes it's okay I guess but it never compares to clit stuff. That's why I love guys who understand most women don't get off from penetration. And when I date girls you also get the dumb question "How do you have sex"
So you are a glorified lesbian trying to use a strap on and you have questions . While no shit
If your dating a trans guy and are serious which me and my man are.. how do you cope or help or just get them to stop thinking suicidal? It eats me alive not being able to help him as much as I want too.
Maybe some people arent curious maybe they just genuinely want to know because they find themself interested in a transman and want to know what to expect! No one ever addresses this
I’m a gay guy with a trans boyfriend. Most people say “you’re technically straight” but I’m not. Cole is my baby and I love him to bits!
This video made me cry into my dogs fur, haha.
I've had these same thoughts with my partner of 4 years now, and I've always had a hard time accepting his answer when he told me his real feelings on the perception of my body. This video really helped me see the things he was saying wasn't just because he's anxious about his loved ones reactions, but because he truly feels love for the whole of me. Thank you so much, man. You have no idea how much I love and care for you.
me in 2019:
you dont got a kitty, no one wants you in your comuity
i very much relate to the dysphoria about prosthetics and it makes me feel comforted that someone else feels the same way. because i felt like i was so alone. i really feel like it’s an inconvenience to me and my partner. and i’m grateful you posted this because i’ve been struggling a lot with dysphoria especially bottom dysphoria and even my trans friends don’t relate to me as much. so i’d like to say thank you
Comment 101! Hey just a little recently kind of out grey ace cis female here – heteroromantic and would totally date a trans man or Nb person! New(ish) to learning about LQBTQ+ terminology but firmly believe we are all whole ♥️
Awesome insight Aaron. Awesome affirmation too! Neat video.
I love your voice it's so relaxing and calm
Reminds me of a scene in The L Word where a cishet man asks different cis lesbians what the “ultimate lesbian sex act” is because in his cis/het normative patriarchal mind, of course, the “ultimate sex act” is a penis penetrating a vagina 🙄
Aaron is the ultimate package 😘
You are very inspiring and I appreciate you posting about your feelings and thoughts on being trans, because even though we are quite different, you say things that I supremely jive with. So thank you and I hope you are having a nice day.
❤️ thank you Aaron. I completely get this video.
My own primal urges tell me I should be penetrating and spreading my seed – it’s torture. I would forgo standing to pee or whatever is deemed “ masculine “ …What I wouldn’t give to feel and connect with her in that way. Sex is how I connect emotionally and in a very primal way – it’s Torture. So thank you Aaron for your words. Acceptance is the only way – like a cis male who’s lost his ability to get an erection.
i feel this so much. im lucky in that i don't get bottom dysphoria very often, and when i do its usually related to my menstration. i feel comfortable having sex with my boyfriend, especially in the moment, because i am a very sensitive person so any stimulation is almost always good stimulation in my case, and i enjoy that i can bring pleasure to another person. but i used to feel almost guilty and like i 'wasn't trans enough' because i don't absolutely hate the parts i was born with, especially because i liked sex so much. and it got worse when i started dating men, because i felt they weren't seeing me as a man because i've done almost nothing to medically transition and i am willing to use my parts during sex. but my boyfriend now, the absolute love of my life, has been the best thing to ever happen to me. i don't know how he does this but when we're together he can almost always tell when im having a hard time without me having to say anything and he's say something validating to me or just simply ask for cuddles and calls me his man and just makes me feel manlier than i've ever felt before, i don't feel incomplete compared to him and having that has helped with my dysphoria a lot.
I'm a cis woman who recently started seeing a trans man and I've spent the last couple of weeks watching as many videos as I can to try and educate myself in a way that I can make my partner as comfortable and feel as valid as possible. I wouldn't trade him or his body or his struggles for anything, but I want to be able to connect with him when he's feeling dysphoric. Thank you so much for your video, it helps me a lot!
My partner who is cis male, he used to love switching genders (role play), but after I got serious about getting on T, top surgery and such, he turned VERY uncomfortable with me. I can't have lower surgery because I can't have any foreign implants due to many physical health issues, so can't even do metoidioplasty or phallo, and it sucks because to me, "attachments" are my only option after 20 surgeries from various medical issues. It makes me sad that I will never feel "complete" as well, and that I am also gay if I wanted to fully transition (found a way to get a real penis compared to implants of any kind to help me function) Thank you for this video, I don't feel so alone in my dysphoria. I haven't been with my partner in over a year, just because he hates what he sees when he looks at me, and it makes me feel that much more inadequate.
This was soooo good. Also as a cis guy, can confirm, dicks are weird. Sometimes I forget that people have sexy bits and my mind gets blown. Maybe it's an ace thing.
I think this is such a healthy, yet very difficult thing to learn, that people will love your 'flaws' and that to them, they aren't flaws at all. I didn't own a pair of shorts for like eight years because I was embarrassed by my hairy legs. But then I realized that I liked guys with hairy legs, so clearly there must be someone else out there who does to… and if I'm going to meet them then I gotta show these babies off! XDD
But seriously, take it from someone who has fallen ridiculously in love… find someone who will love you wholly and completely and won't have you any other way.
i feel all of this except for my partner is cishet so theres a bit of that
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Love this video! I don’t have super bad bottom dysphoria but the feeling incomplete part really resonates with me. Side note, I love your nails, you look so aesthetic.
Glad to know I'm not the only one
I love this honesty. Keep doing it! A lot of hugs from Argentina!
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What is your hair cut name..
this is the exact reason why i do not want phalloplasty. if i could wake up tomorrow with a functioning, biological male penis, then fucking hell yeah i would. i am super dysphoric, but the bottom surgery that's available right now is not something i would like to have. i told this to my (cis) friend and she understood, that made me relieved that it makes sense to a lot of people.
I like the perspective, it's so important to talk about
jesus fuck this video hit home
I have to use prosthetics 24/7 but I completely understand what you're saying and just damn…. I just really relate so thank you
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Hilarious totally!!!!!!!
Every part I experience