FATHER REVOKED MY $60000 INHERITANCE BECAUSE…
FATHER REVOKED MY $60000 INHERITANCE BECAUSE…
FATHER REVOKED MY $60000 INHERITANCE BECAUSE…is the story of a woman with 3 siblings whose father lived like a dictator by imposing career choices. This in turn robbed his children of fulfillment in life.
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In Germany you can't even fully disinherit ur children. They get what's called a "Pflichtanteil". Basically, they're saying just being on earth makes u eligible. I agree
Ignorance And narcissist closes. Many doors
Very toxic culture in Nigeria or Africa it’s all about money
The dad was a truly narcissist dad it’s very common in African and Nigerian dad they control their kids lives I personally know a Nigerian person that is the same way
Phrankleen is easier said than done.
I swear African parents and causing trauma …..They have destroyed so many lives with their backwoods mentality.
It's ironic that part of this story is my story with my Dad.
You know…I think the worst of it is…deathbed wills and inheritance castigation is it can not be fixed ever again. The expectancy that it can one day all turn around is gone likewise. Death has a way of finalizing what is done as a dark sickness. Once they are dead, they have no way of knowing the change that could bring about the irony of their wicked deeds.
Thanks for the share.
Am a victim too i wanted to be a lawyer but my dad instisted i become a doctor and i didnt do well in science class and i drop out.Am in my 40s now not a doctor and not a lawyer and am soooooo pained.
Narcissist like to marry weak people that they can suppress.
He should reward his Uncle for helping him .
Inheritance??? Go work to build your own empire. Many successful men didn't inherit dime from their father.
Spoiled Brat🙄🙄
Parents should donate majority of their Inheritance to charities except they've kids with disabilities.
The siblings should give them the money. The mother is allowing the husband to control her from the grave. It's the worst thing when the dead has control over the living.
Why would you be under your parents and bring boyfriend home that's shameless yes if you want me get married I would never let my daughter bring boyfriend in front of me what kind of shameless behavior is that you want me get married. But the Christian they don't have no rules and regulation they claim to be Christian they don't follow the ten commandments and they claim Jesus is their lord and savior you are right whatever sin you commit you pay yourself why are they putting people in prison in the US in the western world places like Nigeria no they should not leave them because Jesus died for their sins no sense people can think so stupid I think her father was right I won't give you penny forcing them for their career I think that was wrong but when you come to other things that's the Western culture I'll send it overnight with my friend no that's her some children can adopt evil behavior you stay to your house I'll stay to my house what do you want from outside you have everything at home I don't think anything wrong with that I have twins boy and girl in the US and people used to say please let your children sleep over besides my family my immediate family I will be the hell no we don't do that whatever you got to do do it but sleeping over you will see your child became gay how can I useless behavior that's my opinion take care and stay safe
Great insights, Phrankleen. It's a good thing these social media platforms give us the opportunity to have these conversations publicly. Unfortunately many Parents in the generations before us were ignorant. They didn't do most of the things they did to be mean, they were victims of their conditioning. Most of them 'dictated' their children's career path because they believed they were doing the best for the children. ''Choose a promising career'' which mostly meant 'Doctor, Engineer or Lawyer' so you're not broke and of course something they could boast of as well. It was an egocentric thing for them.
Interestingly, that dictatorship worked out for some of the children, at least career wise but for some others they were traumatised with derailed paths.
Unfortunately, the narcissistic parents were the ones who went the extreme length of 'disowning' their children because they were deemed 'disobedient', 'rebellious' or worse till 'demonic' because the child didn't do as they dictated.
Those who went ahead to make good success of these 'overlooked careers' are massively contributing to the enlightenment of the old school mentality. The generational mindset shift is happening.
Great conversation. Well done
this story hit me as well. I wanted to do apprenticeship in electrical engineering. I was even accepted but my dad want me to go university to study medicine. just like my dad after I stood up to my dad and move out I then became the prodigal son. my younger sister was like now I look more happy and am doing more better than both my elder brother and younger sister. I even support my sister throughout university
African parents like to use the Bible to justify their narcissistic behaviors, forgetting that the same Bible also said “parents do not provoke your children to anger”
Thanks, Phrankleen I love this conversation. I believe you can keep quiet about your gits, if your parents are not supportive.
Very Narcissistic parents. Especially the dad even in death.
Those parents are "dream snatchers!"
U keep speaking rhe truth. Tou are not for the narrow minded and small minded man. U ate on another level. Anyone who can't handle the truth must NOT come to ur channel 👌
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Parents usually want the best for their children. WHY would they want their child to struggle to make a living as an artist which to me is NOT pratical, and only a few can sustain themselves. Once she chose to be an artist, then she should find a way to financially support herself without help. Her father's money was earned by him, therefore he was NOT obligated to past it on to her and her brother who wanted to presued their passions. I am surprise by her reaction to not getting the 60, 000. The brother who was willing to share his inheritance was generous, but it shouldn't be expected maybe she wouldn't be that kind herself. Phranleen your football story is interesting because so many black in U.S.A want to go into sports or be rappers and many neglected academics only to struggle later on.
You sleep on your bed the way you laid it. If it was the father's money he has the right to do whatever he likes with it. If a person is not ready to dance to the tune dictated by the dad then they should be independent and forget about inheritance.
Their father is a financial abuser and is still pulling strings although he is long gone. The other siblings are selfish.
Thanks Davido and Wizkid Parents didn't stop them from Singing, Now they are Billionaires.
Mr Phrankleen, you repeated yourself many time and did not tell us the offense of the children that made their late father to hold these children to accountability.
You should not pretend that that money is theirs. Does the father not have the right to decide what to do with the money he worked or made while alive?
Nigerian parenting has no problems at all. At the social and economic development level of Nigeria, reality is on the side of the classic Nigerian parents. You are pushing a wafer thin narrative that children are free to make their choices. Besides U are impatient to your commenters here and it's uncouth of you.
You are speaking zealously about Western system. In that system Children are supported tiill they die with monies, homes etc. Nigeria is not so.
Look at Asian countries if they are touting what you are espousing here.
On football:
Football remains nuisance when national destinies are to be determined, Stadia is not where decisions are taken. Look at your Liberia ex Football President. Why did he not continue to become UEAFFA Chairman or pursue football and use it to develop Liberia.
What has your Football stars been able to do to uplift Nigeria to next level.
A country with nothing will boast of Football and culture.
China, South Korea, Singapore, Malaysia, Rwanda now are moving up and ahead with Football abi?
Policies and directions are set by leadership.
CHECK THIS.
In less than a decade, India will become, the 2nd largest economy after China not by Football and.music. Japan did.not become what they did thru football and fre falk liberty for children to go al the way they want.
The examples you gave about the father that burnt the book of poems is uncommon and extreme. A demonic father or a crazy illiterate is just what he is. That is NOT common. How did we have the Chinua Achebes, Wale Soyinkas, Elechi Amadi etc.
Happiness like pleasure is not a right. You have to work to earn it and within the right framework.
African culture tho will evolve and so far people like you are kicking and rolling this culture down the hill.
People given to comedy, pleasure and happiness or easy life will lag behind those that give attention to issues of development as a Nation.
If you destroy these parents with some sense of desire to focus on issues they perceive to be more trustworthy, no worry. Soon their generation will pass away and these children will become parents and their children will give them conditions as well.
How can you quarrel with your father for his money after disrespecting him maybe
My parents never hated me bcos I did not become a Doctor as they wanted.
You are not entirely wrong but close observation shows that middle class bred children are often rebellious and very disgraceful to parents in Nigeria. Obedient, meek and.humble kids from humbler backgrounds succeed more in numbers. This is a trend now in Nigeria
After studying what your parents want, the so called 'orih' can still lead you to do what you love.
Our parenting has some downsides but these children in your talk should tell you the whole truth.
Ask them to allow you speak to their mum, other enriched siblings so you can hear from both sides and even seek to get more from relatives
Many rich Nigerian parents have had to sell their real estates and pass them to institutions bcos of undeserving, rebellious or a b using children.
If they are good children, they should respect their fathers last wish. They should be good enough to clean their hearts of the self imposed anguish and bitterness and honor their their mum. They should repent of their issues with their father and love siblings without bad belle.
You cannot be westernized thru and thru
Mr Phrankleen here is espousing Western pholosphy yet talking things like Orih, Universe,, Ifa, Universe, ancient african tribal platforms etc. Very interesting.
We must live within guided liberty or else eat you cake and Waka as Oyinbo dey do.
Children obey and respect your parents so that you will avoid future bitterness and anger and futile hatred for the obedient siblings who get blessed. Being a child comes with obligations just as some of us get punished when.we fail towards children upkeep in the West as children.
Elechi Amadi a Rivers pharmacist but an accomplished novelist. …
I was kicked out of my home at age seventeen as a threat to drop my dream and passion and I never returned back. My best friend's mum took me in, at eighteen I got a one bed flat, two jobs and enrolled on my collage course, eventually went to university.
They said I went wild and way would and run away from home.
I made a point to prove them wrong by becoming a success, the stress nearly killed me, but the joy and fulfilment was my anchor, the money pouring in bought them around but by then I had lot my connection love and respect for them.
Intuition is never never wrong, but we have been taught to ignore it much to our own regret.
You’ve got to make shorter video