Ex Best Friends Share Their Feelings 10 Years Later

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Shan BOODY

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Ex Best Friends Share Their Feelings 10 Years Later


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About SIX years…

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  1. Great point Shan 🤔 I can relate with your past and present view on the value of friendship . I wish I had a friend. And, admitting my desire for true friendship is scary. Thank you for sharing your experience ❤

  2. I remember watching the video of you and Andrea back in 2020 when I was experiencing a lot of shifts in the dynamics of my childhood friendships and feeling kind of sad by the video. I almost felt like It was an example that once lost a friendship can never really be gained again and since then I have consistently gone back to that video as almost a validation of that mindset. on my older friendships. But watching you two now and (an me being older) I just see a wider range of possibilities for my friendships.

  3. My bestfriend and I made up last year after two years of not speaking. I’m a happily married woman and it was so hard for me. My sister and I are locked in again! And I’m so happy

  4. I have been watching your videos for years and didn’t realize how long…until seeing this. I remember the first installment and seeing this evolution gave me all the feels ❤ Friendship can be so beautiful

  5. I don’t think friends could ever really breakup. They might have falling outs, fights, and disagreements but, the love of the friendship will forever remain.

  6. Also Shan I know you went through a rougher couple of years but I feel like you’ve become so much deeper and compassionate and less clinical/logic heavy focused. Heart space come through! ❤

  7. Danielle Bayard Jackson talks about women and friends dynamic and that the pillars of female relationships is support, secrecy, and symmetry. She is a friendship coach and her book is fighting for our friendships.

  8. Damn u we’re so vulnerable to say your needs! I aspire to be that way I love my friendships but I hide a lot from my friends and my man said I need a bestfriend and I literally have avoided that since a bff breakup in high school. Loved this! And where are those earrings from.

  9. I haven’t watch this yet but I remember the first one y’all made and I will be sure to watch this as well! That’s had to have been years ago, look at us grow. Very happy we’re all still here ladies. 💛

  10. Great video! I think people underestimate the power of just sitting down, having a discussion, and asking for what you want from a relationship in general. I can relate to you Shan, it sounds like you have an insecure attachment or an avoidant/dismissive attachment style. It’s something I’ve had to recognize and work through, behaving in the opposite way of how I feel in my relationships. Also, your friend seemed slightly nervous in this video almost like she didn’t want to hurt your feelings. But you all seem to have a beautiful connection. I could feel the love and shared bond through the screen.

  11. Oh man I just had a major falling out with my best friend of 20 years, since 9 years old and I can’t even watch this lol. It’s been a year and it still stings. But ive accepted that we grew apart and the loss of my father and my issues after really affected things. We lived together after that, and everything built up til we blew up. We’re 32 now and I wish her the best. But I’m still hurt and wish we could have a conversation. We were sisters and no one understands how close we were.