DR UMAR states the BLACK CHURCH benefits from SINGLE MOTHERHOOD | Flashback
DR UMAR states the BLACK CHURCH benefits from SINGLE MOTHERHOOD | Flashback
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I don't believe that the black man with the white woman makes a difference. People are people you talking more racism how much yall paying him for coming on here
Do you get paid when speaking at any black. Church if so then your getting paid like a pastor ๐
The main problem with the world todayโฆtoo much talking little action. Everyone got too smart thinking they have the solutions to all problems by talking about it.
Im not marrying some sister waiting on a White Jesus to come surfing out of the clouds..lol hell naw! She MUST See amd recognize the God in her…and me!!!
Preach Dr.Umar. I love this!๐
STOP with the struggle love if a black man isnt self sufficient leave him with his mama he will never get it together
Ladies continue to pick careers over a man and children…. Women all over are saying it's not what it's cracked up to be on top of that not waiting causes many women stress and exhaustion so they never finish. Too much on a woman working school worrying about a husband and kids NOPE but everything else is dead on โค
I am Christian and because of the differences in our reverence for what we deem to honor, I would never ask a womans hand in marriage that don't Honor the God I serve.
I would never tell my daughter to marry outside her beliefs.
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Hardly Initiated have now proven they have a FORM of Godliness because UNEQUALLY YOKED has STATISTICALLY BEEN PROVEN TO FAIL
UMAR WHERE ARE THE MEN who WANT to MARRY?
Umar is a complete racist, most homosexuals are.
Dr umar where is the school man where!!!!
I don't agree we put off college and career until after marriage because stats proves we gotta take care of our men and children. White couples go to college together. We can do the same. Going to college is a privilege and blessing. No need to wait.
Our Paster is President of an HBCU that he revivedโฆโค
I love many of his theories, but I've lived in spaces of life that go against his idealologies. FIrst of all, unequally yoked is not a good mix!! I am a believer in Christ who''s been with a Muslim, Catholic and a Jehovah Witness, and oh my goodness. Smh, I can tell you some stories. No I did not "make" them nor "force" them to do anything, just mere conversation was volatile enough. Also, many black women don't go to college at all and hold down a black man, THEN get picked on later for making bad decisions and not bettering herself. Confusing to hear that black men don't see our efforts. I notice many black men, like him especially, say so much and want even more.
You cannot down a woman for not getting her education, then pick on her later for waiting to have children. Smh I've heard MANY black men placing blame on women who would give them the world. Now he says that women must get it in our heads to date a man who doesn't have it together, when men want us to have ourselves together. Then some man will try to be smart and say "You knew the nigga won't shyt when you met him". Men like that need to make up their minds. So contradictory.
So, women shouldnt hold back on relationships and families to finish school but then down the line, dudes talking about how dumb, slow and uneducated she is. I dated a guy that spoke on his ex wife like that. I agree with his last point on how many men often just want to lay black women down and it is sexual oppression. Then black women end up sexually objectify themselves. Sad cycle in our entire communites. How to get reform?
I'm somewhat agree with Dr. Umar. However, I was with my ex for 14 years. When my ex and I got together we were both in our early 20s. I was going to college at the time and he wasn't. Since I knew college could be a struggle and confusing, I encouraged him to go and provided him my old catalog. I was at this man 2 years and 4 years college graduations. I rode with this man on the highs and lows of life and he was an a**hole that would not listen to me. I have learn to pour more into myself and less into others who are just looking to drain you. You can do all that you can and some people will never appreciate what you do for them no matter what.
No Umar stop it the problem is too many black women date dusties and they keep being dusties. A man at 30 should not still be a dusty. White women do not go after dusties he has to at least work. The white women that go for the bottom feeding dusties are not wanted anyway
He is speaking on this topic from a place of ignorance. He is going off stories he has been told. Every church doesnโt have an agenda to keep black women single. And why would a Christian marry someone that isnโt Christian?? Why would someone Muslim marry someone that isnโt Muslim?? That is a recipe for divorce. Itโs hard enough to stay married with the challenges in life then add something to the mix that you could easily prevent.
Noticed umar doesnโt speak on that school anymoreโฆโฆ.
The Snow Bunnies are doing the job of the Black Woman and Black mother is supposed to. But reap the benifits benefits ๐
Everything Dr. Umar said is true!
Man I think the black church is totally flawed. I wrote about it. Tell me what yall think!
https://lifecodellc.blogspot.com/2024/04/unveiling-truth-black-leaders.html
Eartha Kitt was an transformer from Hollyweird
Religion = elite
Jesus is an elite creation we are dependent of the elite, we eat, we live on the devils continent
He have the reason but dont talk of MLK cause he works for the elite he have a statue…
Then why didn't you start a church.
How can you call out the black church . There is no such thing.. Made up. You probably don't even go to church . What are you threatened by.
This "doctor" is teaching against Biblical doctrine.
The black church was infiltrated a long time ago. Most of the churches are Luciferian.
I swear this dude changed his talking points he used to blame BM for BW behavior
I see Dr Umar finally telling the truth and stop blaming Bm for BW transgressions
Agree so much, so many points made
I went to church only 5 men 20 women something wrong
The black women loves her pastor and she will give all her money and time to
Td jakes has a school to expensive they give u food that government gives them our kids got ill
I past by 20 black churches in my neighborhood nothing is being done to create jobs and help young women and men nothing prostitution ramped and drug trafficking and drug addiction homeless people these churches drive off in luxury cars looking scared of they own ppl
The Church has a problem. There are some good churches but very few. It sets up, or shall I say the Leaders set themselves up to be the only Royal Family in the church. Itโs almost like England with its Monarchy! Thereโs the King, (Pastor), Queen, (First Lady), their Children, (Heirs), Knights and Dame hood, (Deacons and Deaconessโs) and Peasants (No Title and People who Do Not give enough Money)!!!!!!! That pretty much sums up the order of a lot of Churches Today!!!!!!
Sir unless you are a Native American, you are an immigrant, quit spreading hate . My Native American ancestors looking at you , crazy as hell
While I donโt like Umar Johnson and usually disagree with him, he is probably right on this point of the black church benefitting from single motherhood.
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