DR UMAR JOHNSON TALKS LIVE ABOUT BLACK RELATIONSHIPS WITH HARDLY INITIATED
DR UMAR JOHNSON TALKS LIVE ABOUT BLACK RELATIONSHIPS WITH HARDLY INITIATED
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No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his/her skin, or his background or his/her religion, people must learn to hate and if they can learn to hate they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite "Am talking to the Man in the Mirror🤔"
So how is it wrong for a black woman to date out if Umar knows that dark skin women get overlooked? He said it’s such an abomination to sleep with a white man but a lot of dark women get overlooked and unappreciated. 🫠
I believe love is unconditional you don’t have to be African American or the same race all my life I’ve been dogged by black man started with my brother to the mean bully boys in school to my first realationship when I did step out of my race I was appreciated respected showered with love in some instances so to each it’s own thanks for the overall conversation dr uhmar.
All the way 💯
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No disrespect but dark-skinned women are mostly have some psychological thing going on where there either interested in white men or aspire to be white themselves, I am a brownskin brother and have longed for a darksin sister but they never want to date, they also have this weird thing about them where they are super insecure about themselves and there very picky choosy but that's just from my experiences I still like a dark-skinned sister but they wayyyyyyyy more coony that a lighter tone sister 😉 yw
P.s Don't be fooled we like dark-skinned sisters but lightskin sister be sticking up for black men wayyyyy more than dark-skinned sisters, dark skinned sisters hardly ever push black excellence and if they do its mostly about themselves as an individual, take a long look at some dark-skinned people (men and women) and you'll see them not really care about black people coming together as one it's always a black person of a lighter skin tone with the exception of Dr umar.
Umar is absolutely right! Finally, someone who finally admits dark women is overlooked. Doesn't matter how educated, beautiful, mentally stable, respectful of men she will not be first preference
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I agree that damage people always have to have other people…. So what does that suggest about a person who needs two Kings or two Queens ,why isn't one love enough ?🤷🏿💋
Good insight, and great points made, but contradictive at the same time… very opinionated and from personal preferences/value system.
Also, be mindful of not checking statements/comments made by guests that you know are out of pocket/discrimatory…you don't know who's listening/watching.
Know yourself… Who you are, Why you are. Eat the fish and spit out the bones. Great conversation tho.
I wouLd have Loved to be the feminine energy in this room.
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Umar is wrong about what he's saying about what bm should accept from bw that are single mothers i don't have to be a stepdad to influence kids and we should not be doing it when it's not appreciated bw do what they want to and have to deal with the consequences of it unless they're treating the person right
Ll cool I. “Who do you love”
Is there a part 2? This ended abruptly 👀
This is why I would never date a white man I'm woke to that
Dr Umar is truly spitting fire 🔥. The best relationship conversation I have ever heard !!
PREACH DOC! 🎯 💯 I gleaned so much from this discussion. Thank you, sir. 😇
This is deep material. The education continues
No woman wants to be in a polygamous relationship no matter what she says outwardly. No human being would be OK sharing their mate with another person?? It’s super selfish of men to push this idiotic idea stating otherwise. Dr Umar you have no clue what women really want
I’m not traveling anywhere to get a black man God have my black man waiting for me… traveling somewhere else is just another set of problems
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This was an amazing interview, am impressed how dr umar showed up so prepared 🙏🙏🙏 we need this level of professionalism in the black leadership space
I disagree … TOO MANY SISTERS OUT HERE are Dark Skin Supremacists, social media will tell it smh
The ward quiet is a real power full word ok but if we are wrong we just won't you 2 lisen 2 us & we listening 2 you all so ok but it is so true & powerful group of men that are just telling the truth of what is going on with us ok
Hi I am glad 2 know we are getting 2 gather & being inactive about are feeling but it is so real & very yrue 2 me buy I am going 2 lisen & relax 2 hear all of what is being said 2 us but I so glad we are doing this I know men & woman are listening 2 all of this of what is being said 2 us I just happy & smaileing yhat this is going on & it feels so good 2 hear things about what is going on with each other so we say we are talking 2 each other but are we really talk are we just saying some thing but we just need 2 stop from just bean there with each other & start really hearing each other ok & then lisen 2 how each other feel about what each other is saying & how we feel ok raly talk 2 each other ok & conmancate with each other ok I am enjoying it all of what I am hearing it is all so very true ok
It’s wild to say women should consider sharing a man, but men shouldn’t strengthen their discipline to only be with one woman.
I love the fact Dr. Umar picked up his phone to read the comments and engage with people during the interview!
I love the fact Dr. Umar picked up his phone to read the comments and engage with people during the interview!
I'm listening to this as I clean and these young men interviewing Dr. Umar are highly intelligent and well articulate. I appreciate intelligent conversation, I learned so much within these 3 hours.
Wow, he's on point 100% I've been married 10 years and I never looked at him,to lead me or my children. Not proud of my decision,
How are y’all women in the comments ok with Umar making such statements about your private parts? Secondly he is lying about the school.
Sounds African Tswana-Pedi black woman here. The conversation around polygamy was a little too basic and ill-informed. Polygamy is a culture and tradition here, and there are some who follow it. However it is not as simple as saying there aren't enough black men therefore the man should take more than 1 woman. This is the kind of thinking that has landed so many men and women in toxic polygamous setups. Traditionally, polygamy is taken for very specific reasons, e.g. the woman is unable to bear children. (An infertile man leads to different scenarios – topic for another day.) Some may take more wives because they may be a traditional healer with a ruling spirit that may require them to do so (healing gifts are often passed down through generations. The source of the gift may have been a polygamist for instance.) However, the reason Dr Umar has provided, that of there not being enough men, is an irresponsible reason and sets the woman up for emotional and psychological trauma. Traditionally, a man MUST ask his 1st wife for permission before taking another wife. The reasons must be sound, and have little to do with his pleasures and needs as a man and more to do with strengthening the family. Polygamy can be incredibly toxic and dangerous to one's psyche. Watch South African shows like Uthando Nesthembu or Mnakwethu to get a sense of how complicated this concept is. My grandfather was the product of a polygamous marriage. Needless to say he ran away from his village and never looked back.
I thank both you brothers for everything you do 🥇👑👌🏾❤️🌹
Straight up racist. Dr. Fubar
Each response had me taking notes 📝
Thank you Dr. Umar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Whew!
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I love Chocolate or any other woman its not color it's a woman love of her heart for God in the relationship 💗
Dr Umar i love you my brother but, the authority of the word of God say you are dead wrong about your great prejudice for white people for not all white people feel that way but, i feel you have a great dislike prejudice for white people which is not of Christ i pray White people don't keep you out of heaven for it was King Jesus Christ who said love your neighbor as they self not Dr Umar you don't have that authority but, only Jesus shall be my (Matthew 25:32-38) Judge when King Jesus return. not Dr Umar i shall never hate or dislike white people any other color of people but, dislike people actions against or tell people who to love that's not of (King Jesus Christ) me praying the holy Spirit open your eyes to love peoples but, dislike people ways if they're wrong but, still pray for your enemies Matthew 5:44
Brother you talk just like the so call Hebrew Israellite who greatly dislike and are greatly are prejudice of white people and Jesus is the judge not Dr Umar you Don't have the authority to tell people who to love that is personal and not professional what you telling people about who people shall love snd date but, again the i pray the Holy Spirit shall show you correct your great prejudice for your white brother who you see every day praying for you always my brilliant brother God Bless.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
No putting Jesus in your life after hurt but, he doesn't believe in Jesus Christ i feel.🙏🏾
A lot women are arrogant because they make more money and are more educated. They don't respect black men at all. They think they are better than us.
This man is phenomenal. He know what he talk about for real love. I hate him he know what he talk about.
Conditional & unconditional Love, Dr. Umar, YES 🙌🏾 Speaking to my SOUL! LET'S GOOOOOOOO 🖤🔥✊🏾