Don’t Date or Marry a Single Mum // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 76
Don’t Date or Marry a Single Mum // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 76
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Personally I prefer to start my own kingdom than to join one
Yes that can go for both ways I was married to a guy with kids from previous marriage that his ex cheated on him but guess what??they didn’t accepted me at all and I did everything in my power to at least like me accept me but later I learned that hard truth I was naive and dumb not to see it at the beginning I ended divorced him because they did that to break us they did horrible things to me and my ex never accepted they were against me it was hell I rather end up alone
Blame the victims? Is that what you are saying Franklin? How many men in Nigeria who have children somewhere with a woman they could even be married to, are trying to get a NEW mistress preggers? How many Nigerian men have wives at home and make another woman HIS baby mama. You can't have single baby mamas with bastard kids without a MAN'S dick full of semen going into the hapless woman poon tang. It is irresponsible men who create single baby mamas leaving them to care for bastard kids and its stupid women who have babies out of wedlock. If a Nigerian man got a wife why is he not satisfied with his wife, why is pucking around cheating on his wife with another woman. I grew up around married Yoruba Nigerian men who sit around in a parlor boasting about cheating on their wives and how many bastard kids they have. I grew up in the Yoruba part of Nigeria. There was one negro Yoruba (My father's uncle) whose brother died and left the world with a widow and 5 kids and this Yoruba negro (my father's uncle) took his own brother's wife (the widow with 5 kids) and married her and pucked her right in front of the 5 kids. Go figure. This sexual abomination is already normalized and falsely justified by Yoruba culture. The Yoruba NEGRO( my father's uncle) was a deacon in a church but he had a pagan name called Fatunbi he is dead now. Where do you think his soul is HEAVEN or HELL. Are SOME of these men lusting after their own brothers wives and then the brother dies suddenly and the other brothers are fighting over who is gonna marry and puck their brothers widow. This is what's going on in Yoruba area in Nigeria today. THE PUCKERY. Some of these Nigerian men in Yoruba area are sleeping with their own best friends wives and the dude is wondering what the heck is going on. I thought these dude was my homie why is he pucking my wife. That's when it gets scandalous.
My older brother married a woman with 2 kids by 2 different men. He was 25 with no kids. He's 42 now and has 2 daughters with his wife. I was so disappointed. My father (rip) was pissed off. Smh I just don't understand.
the battles are too plenty.
I must say all of this will depend on the situation,,not all single mothers want what happened to them,and don’t make it sound like all single moms are bad🙏🙏🙏
Start your own family and don't be a beta or Boyce Watkins or Steve Harvey
When you're a single Mom, you cannot play hard to get because you are already hard for men to want.
First off everyone is different. My mom married my bonus dad after divorcing my dad and we didn’t have any problem i even have 2 half sisters. Second, IF YOU Are A SELFISH INDIVIDUAL AND IMMATURE, it may not be with for you to date a single mother. Good day 🎉
I know of a woman who had a son from a previous relationship. She handed over all the power of child rearing to her new husband and told her son that that was his dad. Needless to say, I think this guy had emotional and psychological problems. He would beat up the boy so badly – blows and all(physical abuse), he would consistently yell at the boy at times for no reason – verbal abuse , the baby boy was traumatized and psychologically abused on a daily basis but the desperate doormat woman stood there and let it happen. She would also beat him up and tie him up with a rope,pour water on his bed all in the name of "disciplining" him. Long story short the boy contracted diabetes and other comorbidities and died. They say he died from illness the truth is that he died from complications of child abuse. Pediatric diabetes/onset juvenile diabetes research studies show that the illness can manifest from stressful environments children are exposed to. My whole point is this – single women need to prioritize their children above anyone else. Marriage should not even be a priority untIL the child is an independent adult. Men without children have the options of mating with other child free women. Why choose a woman who comes with children unless these men have an ulterior motive like this one did, I don't see the point of choosing a woman with children
NEVER DATE A SINGLE MOM ITS NOT WORTH IT.
Even if she doesn't have kids, the man isn't a priority🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
omg dont date them fullstops… been there -SUICIDAL.. Avoid them like plague
I'm female and when I was very young I choose not to date single men with children. Most spent very little if any time with them. If you are that unconcerned about your own blood then how would you treat me?? Another thing, men come with a lot of baggage as well. Please men stop assuming it's only women, it's people. Lastly I've seen both men and women become the best step parent ever. If that's not you, so be it but don't stop someone's blessing because you're not it.
Can you share your views on a single lady dating a single man with 2 kids?
Dating or marrying a single mom is like helping another man clean up 🧹 his trash 🗑️ makes no long term sense…
Bro, thx
Your argument is very well constructed
It's most of the simps mens who think they can't do better & are lazy & thirsty that are chasing a woman who has already started a family that are going for single mothers
No don't want sloppy single mother's ass leftovers.
He really knows how to articulate. Impressive
I fucking tried marrying one with two kids. I did all I could to accommodate her and her children in our lives but it was never enough. She was always reading mischief. I grew weary and tired. To make it worse she was very lazy even after taking over all her costs and bills she felt it was unfair if I expected her to at least make the house clean and presentable…
I don't mind dating a single mom but she has to be a empty nester. The last person i dated had 4 of her kids still living with her. I should have known better. 2 of them were over 21 & the other 2 were under. A HOT MESS never again…… TOO many people in her business along with matters that she don't get and the house hold was a train wreck for not paying their rent going on vacation along with the smoking and drinking on the weekends. WOW to the WOW.
the worst thing is, nothing bounds u guys. She can just leave u with her kid and then ur alone again, and all ur time u tried building a connection to the kid was in vain.
these women deserve to be punished wiht life. Wome's behavior shouldnt ever be supported
You gain nothing from a single mother but stress and being broke.
it's so mean that the first thing that appears on google when you look for single mum is this 🙁 sometimes you just screw it with the wrong men; are you supposed to remain single forever and never love anybody again? 🙁 breaks my heart honestly, I have no kids but it still does.
on piont……
Love is sacrifice. To love is to will the good of the other.
Hmm, I hear you boss
My step father use to bribe me with ice cream and 5 dollars as a child ever since that me and my brothers loved him and he always been cool.
Women live in a delusional fantasy world today, entitled princesses! And I'll never date another single mom again.. self-centered and useless!
I feel sorry for single mothers. Raising kids is so hard and then if you're left alone by the father you become a pariah. Best thing for women to do is try to not have sex with men to whom you're not married thereby reducing the risk of becoming a single mother. Let him wait for sex until you're married. And all these self-righteous men who are saying they would not want to be step fathers I hope they are not engaging in premarital sex they need to do their part in uplifting the moral structure of society and stem this problem of people having kids outside of marriage.
Before this twos going getting married. Their must get the consent for the kids first.
Men only need women for sex if you think otherwise you’re a fool.
I appreciate you level of honesty and frankness on most subjects. Highly commendable.
I refuse to date a man with children, and if I know the man am dating have children without my knowledge. I will leave the man, and this is why I refuse a man to be with me when I have children and he is not the father. I just don’t believe in that. I believe in starting my Foundation from start.