Do This When You're Socially Overwhelmed
Do This When You're Socially Overwhelmed
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Is that the reason why job/college interviews dont usually go as planned? Bc there is an emotional need and desperation?
Damn, i needed to hear this. I've been too desperate to a girl
Turn to God with all your love and forget about therapy permanently
What if you are not experienced and not desperate, but only anxious about getting into relationship?
I got divorced once. I talk to people at my twerk/work. I don't NEED social interaction but I feel like I NEED to have my resting heart rate slower. I'm 48 and that's weird maybe that I NEED that in my mind since I woke up once a couple months ago and grabbed the thing that is cheap that goes on the fingertip to show a person their heartbeats per minute and I'm 48 and it said 54 and that's not an unhealthy speed. Not even vaguely. STILL SOME people's hearts beat in the 40's when they sleep so I RUN currently like a bat out of hell for like 4 minutes then rest 4 minutes then run again like that again for 4 minutes like 4 times a week. My VO2 Max last time I had it checked like a year ago was 37. That's 37 milliliters of oxygen per kilogram of body mass per minute. At my age that's a tad or somewhat above average but clearly I need it to be higher in order to have a resting heart rate in the 40's and because otherwise it wouldn't have said 54. RIGHT?! I mean I stuck the thing on my fingertip right away when I woke up without time to think about anything so stress wasn't activated at all yet FOR FOOKS SAKE!! 😛
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Can someone send me the link to the whole video?
Oh this is gold
So you need to already have a girlfriend as a pre-requisite, to get a new relationship.
7:24 bro is me when I go shopping 😭😭🤌
ok but like – this doesn't answer the question of what to do – because we are assuming we're already in the desperate state?
So you're telling me that I will never in my life be loved ever? Thank you.
I just love your videos so much 💚 You explain things so well x
What video was this from? Also struggling from lack of social interaction right now.
Kinda like a person whose ravenous, etiquette and etc are out the window
My need is basically that people leave me alone.😂
I wish I just didn’t need social interaction in the first place. That would solve all my problems
Desperacy is always a bad look..
It just sucks that now that I've given up on trying its not getting better at all. Ive been insolated from friends for years now, no steady relationship, nobody reaches out to me.. ever and when I'm at a social gathering I mainly get ignored.
I'm just so sick of being lonely but im also sick of being ostracized.. I'm not even bad looking (According to others, ofcourse I have loads of insecurities). Neither am I anti social, I love hanging out with people and I always try to be welcoming and friendly. Idk I feel like I'm just cursed to be alone in life. Not even my family reaches out to me.
Very true. Desperation is always obvious and off-putting, just be chill.
As if I could decide when to have social interaction with someone without inading their personal space. If only I could force people to have relationsips with me. lol
My point is don’t give up guys! 💋
Being on your own is very important!!! You can still really feel deprived of emotion before thebrealionship…. So when you get back into relationships and that can be very difficult but self-control and logic so you don’t end up in a bad relationship is the best things to do. It’s better than wasting your life. Remember, we don’t have infinite amount of time.!
I’m sooo socially overwhelmed!!! Red flag green flag just ego oh my!!! 😂🤦♀️. People are so NOt transparent fake and never show their bad stuff and just as IF! 😂😂. They are sooo superficial!! Many and I want old fashioned real!!!! How hard is it for men and women to be REAL!!!!??? Add HEALTY to that equation!
hey when you say "full video:" in the description, can you link to the stream VOD? We're looking for the answer on how to remove needs and desperation from the equation.
I need social interaction, when I finally get it I don’t get overwhelmed they do because I just never stop talking or asking questions.
I am disabled and have an extremely hard time getting out of the house. So I’m held back from the social interactions for a different reason. So different outcome.
I have learned not to make a long list in my head about what I need to communicate or I will be manic trying to get through my list. I enjoy the interaction more if I just go with the flow.
Generally desperacy is sabotaging your relationships and every single thing you do. I have a friend who has already been in 3 or 4 relationships, yet all of them ended up with broken heart. At beginning desperacy leads him to strive for affection. As desperacy seems to drop, he seemingly cares less. He "changes" into different person. And that definitelly doesn't help
Lately the content is becoming Andrew taty, idk why.
Not a great title for this short. But what I take his point to be is to treat socializing as icing on the cake. If your goal of social interaction is social interaction, the situation becomes contrived and meaningless.
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Love yassss. So smart man. I wish more people could hear your calls. And you also make me realize I'm not as craxy as I think I am and am in fact quite healthy. Just battling people-pleasing a little bit here and there. Or something with that likeness
So what you are saying is that im thoroughly cooked
love all of these formats of shorts yall are trying.
A year ago?
I am in the relationship and I am already "alone for so long, it hurts". Didn't get what to do with overwhelming.
So do what? I didn't understand the connection with the title.
Wait I’m confused, what’s the “this” I’m supposed to do? 😂
I can get an idea based on his past videos I’ve watched, but it’s not included in the clip lol
The stream chat is so distracted lmao
Okay but what's the answer
Basically, take it easy and shift your focus from what you look like to them, to how they're doing