Children will treat their Parents How they treated them

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1. 5 years no contact

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2. I don't have a good relationship with my neglectful mom. She is old and I do very little to help her. I get triggered around her. Time does not absolve trauma and abuse.

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3. Sooo not true

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4. Not true that we will treat them as they treated us, my mom was a Heroin /alcholic/Narcassist, and she is now 73 with dimentia, my plan is to love her the way she never loved❤and was never truly loved

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5. I have had to have alot of forgiveness for my parents. Even for things they still do. I think they loved me as much as they could, but I didn't feel unconditionally loved as a child. Still don't. Always felt like a burden. I think it's all they had to give. My brother killed himself. I think they suffered enough

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6. Kids are definitiv different ❤

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7. Thank you for parenting does not come with a Book ❤😢🙏🏽

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8. My mum sent me to boarding school at age 5 till 10 and in adulthood I'm no contact. She wasn't around to take care of me and put me in danger waaaay too many times.

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9. 🎯Children will treat their Parents How they treated them

   00:00 🔄 Parents' treatment shapes how children treat them later in life.
   01:07 💡 Children remember how they were treated more than material gifts.
   02:26 🔍 Self-awareness of parental behavior is crucial for understanding children's reactions.
   03:33 💬 Parenting lacks a universal guidebook; learning occurs through nurturing.
   05:09 💭 Reflection on cultural aspects of forgiveness and accountability in parenting.
   08:00 🌍 Cultural influence on parenting practices, particularly in African households.
   10:41 🏡 Importance of parental presence and engagement over material provision.

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