Black Women Love Black Nerds
Black Women Love Black Nerds
The very thing we all ended up running from, is now at our very doorstep. Only problem is – we might have invited it. How do we get it to go away?
00:00 – 04:53 Intro
04:53 – 07:19 Clause
07:20 – 19:40 The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly
19:41 – 31:27 The Glover Effect
31:28 – 42:23 Am I (anti)Black Enough For You?
42:24 – 56:31 You’re Gonna Carry…
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To those reading this and still hung up on it: You’re gonna carry that weight King. Was bullied relentlessly as a child for expressing my nerdiness and operating outside of “how a Black Man is supposed to act”. Went through hell and those hellish experiences will ALWAYS be valid. That being said, the Black Girls / Women in my childhood are not all, or even majority of Black Women – and I’m not going to generalize the Black Women of my future based on the Black Women of my past.
I know it’s hard, but we gotta keep working towards healing from that past, and embracing the love we’re getting now.
No bw don't like me because I'm black
I don't know any black girl that is into anime irl
The only ones i know are just youtube reaction channels
30 years old here. I finally embrace being a black nerd and honestly through time and keeping Him first, i finally found a great black woman when i when I was 22 and she 24. I was into Dragon Ball and introduced her to it (and she never watched anime really). After that, she introduced me to Attack on Titan and just ran away with Anime.
Great black women are out there. Just have to be patient….the one you find most likely won't be a financial burden also.
I dunno: a lot of this video just seems to be saying that, in a black nerdy audience, the men are guilty of cope for ignoring the women.
It kind of sidesteps a couple of dynamics:
– Irrespective of race or subculture: men are visually stimulated. So to the extent that women are ignored, it is awkwardness of presentation.
– Women (as a group) are about as forgiving of social awkwardness as men are of ahem “presentational awkwardness.”
Zooming out, with this in mind: something like misogynoir just seems to me like (socially) awkward men getting dragged by (physically) awkward women for “hating them.”
Cope 😂😂😂😂
Good as video as always, though one harsh lesson I learned during college is that needy black men and nerdy black women are not cut from the same cloth. A common thing I've seen, and yall can roast me all you want as this comes from personal experience and what ive seen is that nerdy black men had a stigma attached to it where nerdy black women typically had it different. You can probably guess where I'm going with this (minus the "smash haircut" allegations), nerdy black men where ostracized from basically everyone versus nerdy black women where typically seen as a unicorn to be a kind of a advanced form of the "exotic woman" from non black male partners. It's definitely gotten better but in my experience with a white partner, there is still ALOT of stigma against interracial dating in some parts of the US, nerdy or not and it's typically aimed at the BM/WW pairing where the BW/WM pairing is celebrated.
This is just a whining behavior, about being unloved, and unliked. Like we all know its bullshit. A lot of these men are just discouraged, and airing out their frustration. Creating relationships is a hard thing, it's not that easy.
BECAUSE THE INTERNET IS "OKAY" I LOVE THAT ALBUM
If you loved Black nerds, you wouldn’t always equate them to Urkel. Other cultures seem to have a lot more respect for the intellectuals in their communities. It’s a whole problem
I love the uniqueness of your content. You defined inspired me
Man, this video really spoke to me in a way most videos like these don't. I'm in high school and so many people i know say i'm not black enough or im white
Pitch perfect narrative. Bravo, sir. Proud.
i loved everything about this video lmao. you are so funny!! ALSO i want to ask if those were clips from your tenkaiichi game play? asking bc if you're a super 17 main i might scream LOL
Why is bro barefoot 🦶 ???
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Everyone’s a nerd about something
I think this perception largely comes from some of us viewing black people as a monolith rather than individuals. If you're not charismatic, athletic or into certain genres of music such as rap/hip hop you could find yourself "othered" or ostracized. The media and culture also play a role in creating this dominant narrative and the lack of grace of given to black people who do not conform to a certain mold that is deemed societally acceptable. There are black people from all walks of life, backgrounds that have diverse interests. It all goes back to checking into our biases and getting to know one another beyond surface level assumptions and sterotypes.
Another banger from Pill
im 15 almost 16. i thought i was the only one that i remembers kingdom hearts idk why like if it was a distant memory
I’m definitely a black nerd/geek but not in the anime or gaming way that most black nerds enjoy…I mainly enjoy talking about with other people and analyzing music and film/tv..I also do martial arts and wanna become a screenwriter/media journalist so I’m definitely a nerd/geek but in a different way than a lot of the people I’ve seen in the comment section..I just need a girl that’s like that also…someone I could watch/listen to those things with and enjoy and talk about with every day..that’s my dream at least🤷🏿♂️
I love a nice nerdy ninja
As a black nerd i can tell you black women have never wanted me but white And Latina women love me so 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
It’s not cuz you’re a nerd it’s cuz by you’re awkward and not good looking. On top of being a nerd that’s a bad combo. At least if you’re fly and have a personality you can pull even if you ain’t the best looking. I was a black nerd growing up and used to be obese and had no swag, I also had black nerd friends that were athletes, guess who got the girls and who didn’t. Now that I’m older I’m still a nerd but I lost weight and look different and have an actual personality developed by my hobbies and life experiences. I have way less problem talking to women now. Another thing that’s not talked about is not every black woman is the same, I had a black female friend that was willing to date me when I was fat, and there were other that weren’t. We can’t judge all women by some.
My personal experience is thst I was a young black femme nerd from the jump (literally since I was like 5) and almost every single nerdy black guy I grew up with said this phrase to me : "I would never date a black woman"
Sometimes it got worse from there, but yeah.
I once met a guy, and shook his hand, and be said that. It was the *first thing he'd ever said to me*, we were at an anime con. He hasn't said hello yet.
So, I know that when these guys say "no one wanted me" they mean the women they were into at the time. I just wish they wouldn't lump me and the other femme blerds I grew up with, in with that. I know this isn't everyone's experience, but I grew up in a black neighborhood in one of the top 5, probably 3, places you think of as being black. I just can't imagine my experience was an outlier, and seeing the comments, I really think a lot of dudes convinced themselves it was "no one" when it was "not the baddies who had different interests."