Black Men, Do You Believe We are Under Pressure While Dating Black Women…? Travis Malloy Answers

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1. from what I see online and hear from other black women yes black men are under pressure to date black women and pressure while dating black women
   its just like he said, and you said it too, you gotta go above and beyond, court them, pay they rent, car note, insurances, groceries, get them a new wig install, nails, clothes, and other gifts…… and what exactly does he get in return? attitudes and masculinity from the woman he doing all this for????
   as a black woman I dont do any of this and dont expect a man to go over board for me. but I see it online all the time and even some of my homegirls do expect men to do this for them. its absurd

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2. hard topic to cover

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3. great video

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4. I agree with what the guy was saying

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5. yes they are pressure to date and while dating BW

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6. Women like that feel they are entitled. I feel like they are insecure &/or miserable 🤷🏽‍♀️ I also want to say they feel like they have to do this so they don’t feel used because of the history of the black woman. Its sad that they/women can’t let go of, that mindset . Just get to know the guy. Fellas, STOP allowing this to happen. Either she likes you & wants to get to know you or she’s using you. Ask her straight up what she would have done if you didn’t come along? 🍷🍿I’ll wait.

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7. Women like that feel they are entitled. I feel like they are insecure &/or miserable 🤷🏽‍♀️ I also want to say they feel like they have to do this so they don’t feel used because of the history of the black woman. Its sad that they/women can’t let go of, that mindset & just get to know the guy. Fellas, STOP allowing this to happen. Either she likes you & wants to get to know you or she’s using you. Ask her straight up what she would have done if you didn’t come along?

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8. Facts dev. I agree pressure to date black women no. Pressure while dating is real.. it’s best to deal with women that got careers and things going because if they don’t got themselves majority of the time their just looking for help not love..

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9. Facts it’s not all there is a pressure with most melanated women go above and beyond. I feel like there needs to be balanced and if the melanated women want extra from men they gotta put in work to earn those perks..

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10. he did a good job with explaining himself

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11. You can tell by how the women was about to respond they wanted to snap but kind of bit their tongue
    Thats the sistahood in full effect ready to defend each other
    She asked, "Define entitled"
    Like wtf, we all know what entitled means don't do that bs

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12. While dating a black woman yes I feel pressured
    To pay her bills, to constantly wow her, etc
    And in return I get the same used up 🐈‍⬛🐈 the last 10+ dudes got for a cheaper price

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