I feel like the guy with the love started attacking the creators sexuality to mask his opinion that made no sense. I was tired of hearing him talk. What does his sexuality have to do with facts?
You’re purposely posting propaganda that’s not true by any means why are you lying to these women and placing the blame on ONE SIDE both sides having blame for the relationship issues between black men and black women feet and posting the one dude like he was the only one you could have put others that were way more informed but good editing 😂 keep doing the devils work
what was that guy even talking about? he didn't even give a proper argument, he just brought up a bunch of irrelevant things, like how does white people having done bad things to black people in the past got anything to do with how hard black men are for black women to date? its irrelevant, that doesn't mean black men arent hard to date for us, and just because men in general have issues, as do women, that still doesnt have relevance to the issues in dating between black men and women, idek why he brought up thre lgbt community, its like he doesnt have anything to say so he just started talking about other topics.
I agree BM are the hardest to date. They want the most for a little, they do not focus on their mental health, they barely value women or see our true value, and they think they have it all because they “fought” hard to get where they are when in reality they are mid compared to their counterparts. Vet properly!!!
I would love to see men’s response to who taught them how to be a good husband and what that entails. Please start asking because if they are meant to lead a family, surely someone taught them how to lead
Genuinely no remorse or cognitive empathy FOR BLACK MEN. Villains are not born, they're created. COME ON PEOPLE, I thought DISNEY/PIXAR told you from jump
😊 The white man has won 🏆. Judging from the comments. Blackmen are S.O.L, and Blackwomen are leaving. Welp, let's see if black people will exist in 500 or so years
i used to dream of black live but the older i got, the more i became attracted to other races of men. black men are no longer an option. i will never date or marry one of them.
This can be easily debunked. Look at the national numbers of vital statistics. This MFKR is lying and how does a homosexual man have the right to say ANYTHING about being a black man?
First of all he’s gay so you can’t expect any better from him. He is has bitter as these black women in the comments. Secondly black women are the biggest enemies of the black men.if it’s one thing social media has shown us is the black women has no good intent towards black men.
Ever since I was a kid have been hearing black women saying black men ain’t 💩.am 47 years old now and it’s still going on and it has only gotten worse.black women takes no accountability for anything that happens in their lives.if y’all go out and make your bad decisions and have ten baby daddies it’s the black men fault.
Now the older generation of black women has gotten bitter and has successfully mislead the younger generation of black girls by telling them they don’t need any man and successfully destroy the black family.in todays dating market it’s like black women want black men to pay them just to get to know them.
So because black men has gotten fed up and decided to stop taking 💩 all of a sudden we are the hardest to be with.am a black man from London and all my mate marry white women and who has travelled to the Philippines to marry their Filipina’s ladies are all in happy successful marriages and relationships.
The problem with people who loves to point fingers is not once will they look in the mirror and said maybe am the problem.because they been lying to themselves for so long that they start to believe your own lies. Because social media is like a church and everyone with a platform has their own congregation. They could come on their platform and say the most stupidest things and there will always be people who’s gonna agree.
But the sad reality is black women has exposed they nasty attitudes on social media for the world to see and I don’t know if they noticed other race of men are also watching you that’s why men ain’t lining up to marry you or been in a relationship with you so no wonder your so bitter
The black men I have encountered so far are very hypersexual and sexually aggressive towards me. I'm a lesbian black woman and not only do they aggressively offer me sex even though I've let them know my sexuality, they also say homophobic remarks towards me because I'm not attracted to men. It infuriates me!
15:28 if said a whole bunch of nothing but I wanna sound smart was a person 🙄 naker shut up 🤣 he laided out all the reasons why yall are hard to date ….and he’s a dating coach for women …doesn’t matter if he’s bi , gay or not ….anyone can be smart and look up statistics 🙄 shut up 😑😑😑 and it’s observant 😑🤡
Girl everytime that last man mispronounced the word "Observant"….My brain zoned out on him. He said ALLLLL that to say that it's not just black men it's all people….which is a falsity. And he also said he wasn't going to take a dig at that man because he wasn't a "Mean/Rude Boy"…..but then turned around and attempted to STILL take a dig at his sexuality…..chile….🤦🏿♀️😮💨✋🏿I cannot.
Mr observative needs to hush. Bc he clearly missing alot. That said i dont believe in generalizations. And yes hes right ppl in general are hard to date. Thats true.
The 3rd response lost me. He managed to shift the blame by saying that “there’s something REALLY going on with women” while the observation made about dating black man (in general) he refuted 100%. The nerve of him self claiming he’s impartial, and not biased lol
At this point BM, there’s no point in arguing. Just find someone who doesn’t blame you for their own poor choices. The comments literally support anything as long as it blames BM. The sad part is the BM who are married to the ladies who agree with this rhetoric do nothing to counter the narrative just agree to go along to get along smdh.
Why is it taking him so long to say that BW didn't attack you, but they attacked the other guy when you both seem effeminate. I said it in one sentence, it's not that hard. And that's easy. The guy in your example was attacking women, so some women attacked him back with homophobia. This guy wasn't attacking women, so women had no reason to attack him. It's not rocket science.
Ladies, stop listening to sassy men for an advice on men, black men especially. These zesty fruity coaches are playing both sides : while they are telling BW to date outside, they wanna keep BM for themselves. They are not here to help BM heal, create mentorship and men support groups, they are only spying women to discourage BW from BM. These same BM they are dating on the low, one of the reason many relationships with BW Don't work. Ladies, stop being naïve: open your eyes and be very careful with these gays giving you advices on your dating life. Because they are NOT your friends but your competition!
I dont think someone's dating history is so relevant. Often many people will lack commitment in their 20s but be ready in their 30s for example. To assume they can't committ because they haven't had a serious long relationship is a mistake imo. It's more important to find out what they're looking for now in their life.
The guy speaking is black but not a man 😂
I feel like the guy with the love started attacking the creators sexuality to mask his opinion that made no sense. I was tired of hearing him talk. What does his sexuality have to do with facts?
You’re purposely posting propaganda that’s not true by any means why are you lying to these women and placing the blame on ONE SIDE both sides having blame for the relationship issues between black men and black women feet and posting the one dude like he was the only one you could have put others that were way more informed but good editing 😂 keep doing the devils work
what was that guy even talking about? he didn't even give a proper argument, he just brought up a bunch of irrelevant things, like how does white people having done bad things to black people in the past got anything to do with how hard black men are for black women to date? its irrelevant, that doesn't mean black men arent hard to date for us, and just because men in general have issues, as do women, that still doesnt have relevance to the issues in dating between black men and women, idek why he brought up thre lgbt community, its like he doesnt have anything to say so he just started talking about other topics.
As someone who has dated different races of men, I can easily say I would NEVER date another BM.
I agree BM are the hardest to date. They want the most for a little, they do not focus on their mental health, they barely value women or see our true value, and they think they have it all because they “fought” hard to get where they are when in reality they are mid compared to their counterparts. Vet properly!!!
Yall letting gay dudes tell you about bm, ur cooked lmao
Black men are a mirror to black women.
When you only date black men it makes sense to speak on black men. This man ain't makin sense.
Great response brotha! Keep a calm and objective mind.
I would love to see men’s response to who taught them how to be a good husband and what that entails. Please start asking because if they are meant to lead a family, surely someone taught them how to lead
Genuinely no remorse or cognitive empathy FOR BLACK MEN. Villains are not born, they're created. COME ON PEOPLE, I thought DISNEY/PIXAR told you from jump
😊 The white man has won 🏆. Judging from the comments. Blackmen are S.O.L, and Blackwomen are leaving. Welp, let's see if black people will exist in 500 or so years
The very 1st young women is a very beautiful smart young women. She hit on every point without condemning anyone.
Black women please dont let this man fool u
i used to dream of black live but the older i got, the more i became attracted to other races of men. black men are no longer an option. i will never date or marry one of them.
😂
Black men are the least likely to tolerate you cheating on them. That's why the divorce rate is higher.
I’m ready to date a Caucasian man now. I’m a black lady.
This can be easily debunked. Look at the national numbers of vital statistics. This MFKR is lying and how does a homosexual man have the right to say ANYTHING about being a black man?
First of all he’s gay so you can’t expect any better from him. He is has bitter as these black women in the comments.
Secondly black women are the biggest enemies of the black men.if it’s one thing social media has shown us is the black women has no good intent towards black men.
Ever since I was a kid have been hearing black women saying black men ain’t 💩.am 47 years old now and it’s still going on and it has only gotten worse.black women takes no accountability for anything that happens in their lives.if y’all go out and make your bad decisions and have ten baby daddies it’s the black men fault.
Now the older generation of black women has gotten bitter and has successfully mislead the younger generation of black girls by telling them they don’t need any man and successfully destroy the black family.in todays dating market it’s like black women want black men to pay them just to get to know them.
So because black men has gotten fed up and decided to stop taking 💩 all of a sudden we are the hardest to be with.am a black man from London and all my mate marry white women and who has travelled to the Philippines to marry their Filipina’s ladies are all in happy successful marriages and relationships.
The problem with people who loves to point fingers is not once will they look in the mirror and said maybe am the problem.because they been lying to themselves for so long that they start to believe your own lies. Because social media is like a church and everyone with a platform has their own congregation. They could come on their platform and say the most stupidest things and there will always be people who’s gonna agree.
But the sad reality is black women has exposed they nasty attitudes on social media for the world to see and I don’t know if they noticed other race of men are also watching you that’s why men ain’t lining up to marry you or been in a relationship with you so no wonder your so bitter
The black men I have encountered so far are very hypersexual and sexually aggressive towards me. I'm a lesbian black woman and not only do they aggressively offer me sex even though I've let them know my sexuality, they also say homophobic remarks towards me because I'm not attracted to men. It infuriates me!
1. Lack of willful self-awareness.
2. Lack of intentional appreciation.
3. Tend to want to date, and marry while being emotionally unhealed.
4. Weren't raised on love, but struggle. Tends to want to perpetuate that struggle in relationships.
5. Not enough to go around.
6.Lack of emotional intelligence, and social behavior, at times.
7. Lack of financial stability, at times.
What was that dread head talking about?!?!?
15:28 if said a whole bunch of nothing but I wanna sound smart was a person 🙄 naker shut up 🤣 he laided out all the reasons why yall are hard to date ….and he’s a dating coach for women …doesn’t matter if he’s bi , gay or not ….anyone can be smart and look up statistics 🙄 shut up 😑😑😑 and it’s observant 😑🤡
“Observative” he’s trying to sound so smart… lol😂 he means observant. So back to the dating coach’s point on education… 😂
That black man that stitched the video missed the point and audience aimed to… outside of saying a whole lot of nothing
Girl everytime that last man mispronounced the word "Observant"….My brain zoned out on him. He said ALLLLL that to say that it's not just black men it's all people….which is a falsity. And he also said he wasn't going to take a dig at that man because he wasn't a "Mean/Rude Boy"…..but then turned around and attempted to STILL take a dig at his sexuality…..chile….🤦🏿♀️😮💨✋🏿I cannot.
Dude with Dreads just wanted air time.. waste
Mr observative needs to hush. Bc he clearly missing alot. That said i dont believe in generalizations. And yes hes right ppl in general are hard to date. Thats true.
The money thing isn’t true Black men make slightly more money than black women
The mindset of black men today.
If you earn more money than all the black men you date, you're dating Pookie and Ray Ray. Periodt!
I had a gay blk man tell me this also. He said they’re rude dismissive and don’t want to wine and dine me.
I fell asleep of loc guy. 😴😴
Yeah and black women are the hardest to date now what 😂
This is bs you talking bout gay men 😂 y'all bitter women so desperate. Go get some counseling 😂
The 3rd response lost me. He managed to shift the blame by saying that “there’s something REALLY going on with women” while the observation made about dating black man (in general) he refuted 100%. The nerve of him self claiming he’s impartial, and not biased lol
At this point BM, there’s no point in arguing. Just find someone who doesn’t blame you for their own poor choices. The comments literally support anything as long as it blames BM. The sad part is the BM who are married to the ladies who agree with this rhetoric do nothing to counter the narrative just agree to go along to get along smdh.
Why is it taking him so long to say that BW didn't attack you, but they attacked the other guy when you both seem effeminate. I said it in one sentence, it's not that hard. And that's easy. The guy in your example was attacking women, so some women attacked him back with homophobia. This guy wasn't attacking women, so women had no reason to attack him. It's not rocket science.
Ladies, stop listening to sassy men for an advice on men, black men especially.
These zesty fruity coaches are playing both sides : while they are telling BW to date outside, they wanna keep BM for themselves.
They are not here to help BM heal, create mentorship and men support groups, they are only spying women to discourage BW from BM. These same BM they are dating on the low, one of the reason many relationships with BW Don't work.
Ladies, stop being naïve: open your eyes and be very careful with these gays giving you advices on your dating life. Because they are NOT your friends but your competition!
BM have too much baggage to deal with and they're very problematic
I found Japanese men are very respectful and have their life together well. Other Asian men tend to be a catch as well.
I dont think someone's dating history is so relevant. Often many people will lack commitment in their 20s but be ready in their 30s for example. To assume they can't committ because they haven't had a serious long relationship is a mistake imo. It's more important to find out what they're looking for now in their life.
How could a MAN who doesn’t date MEN stop speaking for women.
Save your opinion. It’s not needed. You can show understanding & empathy without agreeing.
Chile… A conquered group so obsessed with submission & control in the domestic but don’t have the ambition anywhere else. Husssssh
I 💯 agree.