Be Discerning: 10 Sneaky Clues He’s Playing You || Red Flags To Watch Out For 🚩
Be Discerning: 10 Sneaky Clues He’s Playing You || Red Flags To Watch Out For 🚩
Let’s talk about 10 subtle signs a man is a walking red flag! These are lessons from my recent dating experience.
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00:00 – 00:39 – Intro
00:39 – 02:38 – Number 1
02:38 – 04:48 – Number 2
04:48 – 07:47 – Number 3
07:47 – 11:01 – Number 4
11:01 – 14:37 – Number 5
14:37 – 18:30 – Number 6
18:30 – 20:12 – Number 7
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Red flag is comparing you to his mom and sisters. No woman can ever satisfy him or be good enough unless she does what his mom or sisters do
Substance abuse, whether it’s drugs like marijuana or cocaine or alcohol, can be a significant red flag in a relationship. If someone consistently needs to be under the influence while spending time with you whether it’s to “set a vibe,” for intimacy, or just to hang out it raises concerns. Why can’t they be sober when you’re together, especially if you’re trying to build a meaningful connection? Inviting you over to get to know each other, only to use substances, signals a lack of authenticity or emotional availability. It’s even more troubling if they ask you to procure(buy) drugs for them that’s a red flag in itself.
Another red flag is when a man is willing to take your money but never reciprocates. Or even ask for help period in anyway. If he lets you spend on him or cater to him without ever taking you out or doing anything thoughtful in return, it shows a lack of respect and balance in the relationship. A man who expects you to give while giving nothing back is a clear warning sign. And this is financially and especially emotionally because it your time, care and energy your giving without them offering that same energy in return.
I agree, that’s a major red flag. When someone talks negatively about their current partner or ex especially using disrespectful or harsh language it reveals more about their character than the person they’re criticizing. It shows a lack of respect, immaturity, and unresolved emotions.
If they’re so upset or bitter, it often indicates they haven’t moved on or taken accountability for their part in those relationships. It also raises concerns about how they might speak about you if things don’t go their way in the future.
I like the third point
MEN in GENERAL ARE DECEIVING AND LYING AS THEY WANT TO GET “ marry “ with a SLAVE AND NOT AN EQUAL . BE VERY CAREFUL ! YOU WILL END UP DEAD .
My red flag
He told me he will only marry me if I agree to be a good wife.
He wants to be with me because he is the best person for me.
He doesn't want to spend millions on a woman and she will come and be acting as if they are of the same level.
Most marriages work because the woman wants it to work.
He wants a woman that will be submissive to him.
If I want more podcast he can send me more and I will realize that women are nothing.
Hmmm plenty things I can't even remember.
Like seriously telling me women are servants…. well I don't know what that will make me look like when I marry him.
Someone should advice me oooo. Even though I'm not with him but I still like him…. but his words and actions make me uncomfortable. Seriously.
Ayyy you are looking so pretty and radiant 🥰💕
Every single point mentioned is so true. Now I wish I had seen this video b4 then, but I guess we learn everyday.
Met Mr. Wu 5 months ago .He's still here we meet once a week because of my work schedule and long hours.,buuuuuuttttttt Mr.Wu speaks positively and he's very particularly over things and encourages me with ambitions ,helps a lot t 25:00 oo
The question is, whenever we're together, his love is 1000%. The moment he leaves, he doesn't communicate much, and it takes a while to respond. He's said he has no wife. Do you think he's honest? He rarely calls, too, but texts very few hours?He plans for our future together. Honestly, I'm never at peace, n he's constantly in my thoughts, and it's stressing me out .I prayed for a good-hearted man, which is him, but my intuitions are not giving me peace
It's so confusing. Need your guidance
We need to hold man accountability of their stability
Taking his phone with him when he is just going too the kitchen 😂 after receiving 5 text messages back too back, so i wait until he is snoring and open the phone because the dumbass gave me his password 😂 and its text like hey long time no see you know whom this is? Or hey i just called you text me back! So i open it up and reply i was eating my ladies 😻 when you called or text , hahaha they say fk off and that they will now block me, aka him 😂 and i delete my messages too them 😂 so when he sneaks and responds the next day it wont go through becausshthey have now blocked him😂 you cant play a playa
Mr Woo has Narcissistic personality disorder that’s unfortunately the summary of it all ‼️advice: pls Run
Thank you so much for sharing this. ❤
I'm so glad you touched on channeling anger- this kind of energy in a healthy and powerful way! It's so true.
Good evening ma, please i haven't gotten an answer to my question yet
Is this man name donald? Lol he sound familiar
I've had same experience in a relationship, when the relationship was still tender he was all loving and caring and sweet young man but after like a month our communication started fading and he's easily annoyed over things unnecessarily when I spoke to him about it he apologises and then offers me a monetary gift, at that time I thought it was just a gesture but when repeated the same thing after ignoring me for two weeks plus without calling or texting with the explanation that he was busy , I got so irritated that I had to make him understand that am not going to be bought over with money anymore, he left and never returned
This was so educational . Ladies all she is saying is true
When your gut feelings is telling you something ain’t right? Trust it . Something definitely ain’t right. I use it all the time and pray about . Using my Intuition never fails me.
When your gut feelings is telling you something ain’t right? Trust it . Something definitely ain’t right. I use it all the time and pray about . Using my Intuition never fails me.
Men men men think we are stupid. They think we will just junp accepting them when they say they want to marry us just within first time of communicating, not knowing a single thing about us. Then after weeks their true colours start to pop up. I am a very patient person and always choose singleness over counterfeits. Not this time 😅
he said, if we are joking and i say that i will hit you now , what will i do
Such people are always fast they dont have patience in anything
#9. Been there. I was not feeling peace in that relationship; In my gut, when I prayed, my body just told me no. And I was right. Started asking me for money, was jealous of what I had going on, started monitoring where I went/who I talked to. When I broke up with him, the most hurtful thing he said is that I’m acting as if I’m all that and that I should humble myself, I’m not that pretty to be acting like I am. No guy is going to go for this (abstaining), etc. Words I didn’t expect from a man who wanted to marry me.
The Bible speaks on divorce. They want to cheat and keep their wives so they say they don't believe in divorce. You don't have to believe in something that exists.
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I agree with all the advice you gave. When my head started spinning, I knew that something wasn't right and I walked away, but then he chased me and it was the same thing again. Trust your instincts this time girl, best decision I left him on read and let his feelings hurt while I am at peace. No contact from me, and he continued to message me, so I left him on read. Even though I had the option to block him
You’re a good content creators, precise, specific and great examples!!
The church story made me laugh 😂
Men! men! will always find a way to embarrass us
It's just me healing from all these red flags
I thank God that I was able to notice earlier and stop the mess I was in✌️❤💃
Another huge red flad is, without being asked, him telling about how much he paid for the things he owns (house, car, watches, curtains, furniture, car wheels, etc etc etc), how much money he spent on trips with his sisters/brothers/children, how much he spent on his divorce(s) and any other luxurious stuff he can afford.
He sent me the movie "war room" like you mean i should be on my feet praying for you while you cheat with your two eyes opened?
Mine knew that every Monday I go to his place, transport is mine and leaves the house open whenever I go but this time I asked is the house open? With aloud voice Nop ! I went before reaching my instinct told to first call him phone number off on WhatsApp on text him said I first take photo where I was took photo the guy said I'm lying, I came back home heart broken my relief was to broke him no access is calling but I'm down
Ayanime, let's go shopping tomorrow. That's on me.😂
Beautiful. Learnt a lot. Thank you
The few african men that I briefly dated were like this. This man told me Day ✌🏽 of us meeting. "My parents got married within 1 week of them meeting each other" sir what are you telling me that for? 😂 if you want somebody to drop a bag on you get you an african man they are not selfish. But if you want to date someone not for play play Go with God 😭 you're welcome
Thank you for sharing. I witnessed most of these signs in my previous relationship.
Met a guy the first month he told me he wanted to marry me, what????
Always talks bad about the ex, as if he was a Saint.
Many relatives told me there is something fishy about him but I did not listen.
Even my intuition was telling me, it's not a good direction but I kept insisting.
Always presure me for sex, Humm.
Thank God after some prayers and fasting God gave me the grace to end everything. It was not easy but God made it easy for me.
Ah ah ahhh I met such a guy from the jump he says let's get married let's get married I ran for dear life
Been talking with a guy for 4 months now consistently….he told me he really likes me but he is not ready to get into a relationship right now but he is willing to see where things go…..i dont know how to respond to this….i like him but maybe i should withdraw myself….
you met a narcissssiiiittt.lol
Gosh…you just totally nailed it with this one.
I have been a victim of Mr….. moving too fast, He was a divorcee with three kids, and I barely knew him, lets say a month and he started with the marriage talk and my mind was not at peace with him. Plus he refused to share what caused their divorce, I told him I cannot continue coz I might still make same mistake his ex made or even worst
Best video in the internet ❤
More red flag when he mentions the price tags of things he owns or wears… and when I asked him to help replace my 58k perfume, he says "later" 😂 it's been 2 months… he never brought it up… neither did I. ( always saying "ego adiro", but would rather lodge me in a hotel than take me to his place🤦♀️
It's like some of these men think women are dump asf
Another one is when he talks more about sex-scapades … says he is a bad boy , and when it comes to doing the hing, oga comes in less than a minute! Like wtf!!😂
Plus he keeps saying "let's born together" ( let's have babies together 🤣)
Not to mention he has 2 little boys and a woman he did traditional marriage with , but hey are "having issues".
I don't call, he does the calling, I've stopped picking When he gets the hint , he will stop calling 😂😂
Been there