Ask me to Cook one more time and this will happen

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Ask me to Cook one more time and this will happen


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  1. The fact that one saves oneself for marriage doesn't mean one cannot educate one self about sex. Infact you can have an amazing sex life , We live in the information age where information about sex and sex education is everywhere. just educate yourself and talk about it even before marriage…discuss discuss discuss…talk talk talk about it.

  2. Cooking is not a habit. Its a skill that can be learned by anyone at any age…You learn new skills at the workplace to stay on top of your job..why cant you learn new skills at home to stay on top of that job as well?
    Marriages are just as dynamic as your job…You don't use the same exact skills at work as when you started 20yrs ago. Why do you think it is any different in your personal life?

  3. Please stopped speaking your language, this is confusing the hell out of some of us , especially when we’re enjoying the conversation the most. Thanks.

  4. Bro, forget about some of these African women in the West. The moment they get to the West… That's when they start bringing in those Western cultures into their relationships and homes. They should continue and very soon all of them will single with broken homes and kids going to jails which they don't see and care anyway.

  5. If someone cannot learn and grow in any aspect of their life they are not worth anyone’s time. Many people do things when they are young that they let go as they develop. If I like to smoke or drink before I have my children I know that once they come things can change. I will cook but I am damned if I will ever wash a plate. He better know how to wash up so every time I enter the kitchen the sink or dishwasher is clean and clear. I will wash up when he cooks…..😂😂😂😂😂

  6. The reality is that the guy ia a very lazy man because in the western world, the workload is usually too much for women. So, all husbands should try as much as they can to help with cooking occasionally. There shouldn't be any excuse atall because the women are not slaves. If is in Africa, you can get house helps but in the western world, you do virtually everything on your own and you'ld still have to pay some bills.

  7. Although it's over 400 years we were separated from the continent the customs never vanishes. Your topics transcends to Caribbean people too. I wonder if it's really customs or innate.

  8. Cooking is one of my requirements . If a guy can't cook. I won"t bother with him. If he treats a stranger disrespectful that's a no no. If he gets angry in traffic or at situations out of his control that's a giveaway he will be abusive.
    It seems the guy may have health issues and it's causing his inability to maintain an erac… it could also be that the husband is no longer attracted to her because she might be belittling him and he feels less than. You get more flies with honey than vinegar

  9. I want to comment on that libido matter. a lot of women think the man is having a problem and going floppy, yin mu let me be honest with you, he has lost interest in you sexually. when a man is not attracted to his partner anymore that is a normal and natural thing to always happen, yes to go floppy on you, you have lost your je ne se qua If you don't believe, bring a woman he has an interest in front of him and see him rise and stay hard right in front of you and watch him ride her like a space cowboy for hours.

    My advice to women, stay in shape, all this I have had 3 children excuse if a lot of nonsense, stay fresh, never take a man for granted thinking ooh for one day or 1 week I will just relax shebi I have been married to him for 10 years i can look anyhow, mentality. A man wants you to always be trilling him and always looking beautiful and gorgeous. I know it's hard ladies but when he chased you at the beginning dated you married you it was these things that you were still doing to attract him that made him do it as you wanted. but as soon as the kids come, life hits, some of you lose yourselves. even common do your hair you will stop taking care of yourself you will stop dressing nice smelling nice and you expect him the man to still be interested when you are smelling of grinding pepper you just ground. There are hot mamas out there that are doing all these things….so please believe me you stay in shape dress more attractive do your hair smell nice and see if your hubby will not take you anytime he sees you

  10. Some time the women spend too much time on the internet
    Go away to a university for studying. The man working all day the working all night on computer
    OK this interrupt you
    Shut down sex timing

  11. I love this , I thing both of them don’t have compassion for each other cause when you love same one and been together for sametimes you would know when they other person is tired and the religious stuff as mess up a lot of things
    I am just so grateful that I am married to a Man just be him looking at me he knows I am tired
    I fall for my husband because off his cooking Nigerian food, now our children eat Nigerian Congolaisse food

  12. @Phrankleen, you are right once again. A lot of African men were not taught how to cook . All we were taught was to make money available in the home. I learnt my cooking in Japan when I travelled there. It took me months of eating only bread and snacks until someone taught me how to cook Egusi. Yet, I do not know much about it even now. So, for a woman who has more experience from childhood to say that I must cook or share it which she learnt in her childhood is nonsense because I would do all that I know I can do better than her without involving her. I can help her out in the kitchen but the cooking is hard ooo. If a lady doesn't want to engage in it, better do not accept my friendship or proposal. Therefore, one should choose his or her partner carefully. Discuss these matters prior to proposal and acceptance.

  13. For any woman in the diaspora who works and is struggling to get their man to do more around the house and not seeing change, my practical advice is to change tactics. Stop trying to get him to do more chores and ask him to step up financially. That is, contribute more than you or better still take care of ALL the bills! That way, you can use your salary however you see fit to make your daily life easier eg: outsource some of the chores like cleaning, weekend getaway breaks, pamper treatments for yourself…etc. Let's see how that works out for the men in the diaspora who are too "African" to get themselves a glass of water!

    I recently heard that in Islam, women are not obligated to contribute financially to the household expenditures and it is supposed to be the man's sole responsibility. Yet Christianese people are doing more and more to keep women oppressed by twisting the Bible! 😠

  14. Two observations: 1) If we are going to succeed in doing away with this toxic aspect of patriarchy, then we need to stop using the phrase: 'help out the woman' around the house/kitchen… because it continues to suggest that house chores are the woman's sole responsibility. We should be using the phrase 'share household responsibilities'. The phrase 'helping out' is even more annoying where the woman works too and in some cases contributes more financially. After all, when a woman pays some or most of the bills we rarely say she is 'helping out the man'! Having said that, each household should have a conversation as to what works for them. The issue in my experience is that, resentment sets in when one party (usually the woman) feels that they are doing way more than the other.

    2. When a man can't get it up in the bedroom or last long, it is amazing how our culture easily sympathises with him and say it could be health, stress…etc. Whereas a woman is expected to be always ready and in the mood but if she struggles in the bedroom she is seen as being unreasonable. Even when she has a clear medical issue, zero sympathy! Such double standard!!!🙄

  15. Weed and depression/stress must be contributing to her mans lack in the bedroom.
    Men should participate in the home especially for those living abroad.

    Also Parents need to step up and encourage kids to cook etc nothing wrong with that, gosh!!

  16. Men, i'll let you in on a secrete. Us women find it sexy as heck when you guys do the simplest things around the house. Heck when i watch my man cook or clean, best believe niagra falls just opened between my legs. I watch him as i drool. 😂😂😂😂 Baby i will jump him the moment he is done. Save your sex lives

  17. Tory…As the Yoruba proverb goes, some situations don't require voodoo or sacrifice. They should separate and let the chips fall where they may, then he will get sense…I don't agree with you Phrankleen because their environment changed, if they are still in 9ja, then you'd be right. So, just like when you were in 9ja u didn't speak with a British accent like u now do, u acquired it in the UK to fit better into that society, so also the guy needs to learn to help out. Like most people adapt he should adapt too. But he won't bcos she's still talking, that's the African way. When they split garri, bruh will receive sense…I've seen it happen many times…

  18. But he can learn how to cook, the man can follow some exemple from youtube. Let says the husband is not intérested to assister his wife.

  19. I’m sure the issue is deeper than just cooking and bedroom. I think he doesn’t help with anything in the home except paying bills that’s why the woman is hating cooking for a guy who doesn’t help with house chores.

  20. I and my brothers can compete with my sisters in the kitchen because my grandparents and parents made it a rule that in their house, one of us must always be in the kitchen when my grandmom or mother was in the kitchen, if we are at home. Over time, we learnt and progressed from preparing the items to actual cooking!

  21. You hit it on the head….trying to change people after marrying them is total rubbish. Also most ladies wants their men to westernise in the domestic aspect while picking all bills as African men do. They want to pick and choose. Men should learn to help domestically abs women should also agree to share financial responsibilities. It’s most likely the issue is the bedroom department

  22. I will advice the lady not to leave her Husband simply because he cannot cook or he is a weed smoker.
    The problem is not the man. The greatest problem is the Lady because she knew who the man was before getting married to him, if truely her love was geniue for her husband from the begining, cooking should not be the problem for divorcing him. Do not leave your husband because you ask him to cook and he refused, becareful of karma.

  23. Bros, i like what you are doing but your energi is too lousy. Please try and calm down your lousy voice energy. Is like you have problem of breathing. Bros am not trying to insult you Sir, is just what i feel from you.

  24. The problem in this complaint is the man refusing to change in their current environment which is different from Nigeria setting. The environment may be affecting the man. The man has to work on his African beliefs he just had to adjust and assist the woman.
    Both couples need to find other ways to enjoy sex apart from in and out. To much I am the man

  25. They could perhaps try the method below:
    The woman should write down all the tasks that needs done to keep the home running(every single task). Then they should sit down together and decide who would take charge of what. The man does not necessarily have to cook to be very helpful around the home. She can let him choose the tasks he wants to take charge of and they can negotiate to get a good balance. Provided the couple are willing to work together and have genuine consideration for one another, it should be seen as each person leading different aspect of the household to make living together enjoyable for both parties.