After my father took the life of my mother, I became so empty and started attracting abusive men|LNN

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After my father took the life of my mother, I became so empty and started attracting abusive men|LNN


For Charlotte Kavata, knowing her father took the life of her mother was something she would have to live with all her life but she was not prepared for how much this would ruin her future relationships with other men.

On this episode of LNS, Rebuilding series, she walks us through her life’s journey after losing her mother, future…

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  1. Good morning team LNN!

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  2. The man, Enock, was heaven sent to bring you into the beautiful you that you were all along. GOD blessed you and now you have a beautiful angel, your daughter, who is a living depiction of who Enock was. God bless you Kavs and God bless you Lynn for this platform where healing comes from sharing our ordeals.

  3. Charlotte, you are just as beautiful as your mother Betty – she would be so, so proud to see who you are today💝. I still remember your mum's tragic incidence and her long stay in hosi in a coma – I never got to know the inner details I have now heard from you. As journalists then, we even went to see her in hosi – this story shook us for long – I have just shared this with a few of those I remember who followed up on it. Around the same time, another man in Kibera cut the throat of his wife, a mother of 8 I think. She was the key breadwinner, doing Mama Fua and he had lost his job – hopefully, you can find a child from that incident too one day and interview.💔 I mentioned Charlotte's mum's story in an article 'Union Made in Hell' that later won an my award though mine was reviewing GBV among elite women, often ignored. I never got to know what happened to you Charlotte and sometimes wondered – now I know and I am glad you have done well for yourself, despite your challenges. Thank you very, very much Lynn Ngugi for airing this. Keep doing this – we love you Lynn💝

  4. Enock I believe had a premonition about his death and he left you with a piece of himself that you will always have when he goes. He was the best chapter of your life and looking at that baby gal should always remind you ,you deserve nothing but the best. His family buried his body but you walk with his soul in your gal. He has never left you and his legacy will live on through your daughter. God works in mysterious ways.

  5. Her story has made me cry as it is so similar with mine….being an orphan and a single mum at the same time is harder then people really understand…as we all know it takes a village to raise kids and being an orphan.. well….its you and your kids alone…and the worst is meeting a man who is not forthcoming and only adds to your emotional wounds…as a single mum of 2 and an orphan,I have decided to concentrate on my and my kids' wellbeing for now…some days are hard but God has always come through for us……one day at a time

  6. She is a star but she needs to discover it. She needs help to help keep her emotions in check…. she needs to think more with her head not her heart

  7. Am so sorry to mention this, waluhya hio ni tabia yenu kupokonya dota in laws mali mume akifariki plus kuwa abandon punde mume akifa miwache. Stop it.. nimeolewa Western for 25 yrs najua tabia zenu esp wen the wife comes from another tribe. Huo ni ushamba..chanukeni. Mwenye kurusha mdomo arushe bt thats the reality.

  8. I'm so sorry. Tho' she looks calm and collected, she must have faced alot in her young life. And God has saved her. She is strong. I just love her strength and grace. The husband's family Ptho!!!kwani what tribe is that?