A Caring Man is a Simpleton ? // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 65
A Caring Man is a Simpleton ? // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 65
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A loving and caring man is a treasure, precious and rare. He is strong enough to give, and and secure enough to take. That's what life and relationships is about – negotiation with your partner so that you can deal with the obstacles that Life will throw in your way. Communication and emotional intelligence are needed and these are skills that have to learned. That's what you do in relationships, and it isn't easy, but you live and learn. If one starts relationships with the end in mind – happiness, security, and legacy – one will not fall into the trap of being demanding and pushy. You will choose your battles wisely, and grow together, and prosper.
MGTOW and misandry isn't anything like that. Both are a dead end. Both are strategies focused on immediate results, and are not foundations for long term happiness in any way.
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Many men are good caring people to the European women but not to the black women. Sorry, that’s the simple truth and my own personal experience .
Most men still need awareness. There’s no harmony in many black people relationship, that is why the numerous separation or breakage. You are doing well brother. Thanks for being there.
I’m watching this while my fiancé just got back from the market, he got me things I’ve been craving (I’m pregnant and exhausted) even fish eggs because he knows I love anything fish. Good men are so rare I think it’s got a lot to do with the fact that his mum raised him right. A lot of african men were never raised at all. Parents are too busy with their girls that they forget their sons.
These people are stupid. They constantly operate against their own best interest.Like making your wife miserable is going to make you happy if you doyou and her going to be miserable together until she get tired of you and leave
Do men and women not know that they need to stop using physical attributes to engage in a relationship in 2019. Seriously, that's the downfall. People are falling in and out of relationship because of how it looks physically and on paper. WE need to reject that and patiently feel out people via family values and having things in common.
A Man who denies himself of being a real man (responsible to his calling as husband, father etc ) by hiding behind the pretentious curtain of being hard and tough is a coward. Being loving and responsible doesn't depreciate your value as a man. A man can be loving, gentle and also be firm, decisive etc. Feigning to be who you are not, in the quest to pleasing people's expectation of being tough is an anomaly
😲 ooh that's where the term simp came from.
Nope, that is the true definition of a man. A boy thinks that suggests a man is a simpleton.
Its crazy because ive been thinking bout joining that group and living the mgtow lifestyle because as a caring guy born n brought up in south london sumtyms u get laughed at being the person whose not a tough guy and stuff like that dosent leave my head
Mr Phrankleen, the authenticity of how you express your views on real life issues is the reason why I stay subscribed to your channel. Keep up the great work of speaking on real issues!!!
We appreciate you. Thank you. !!!!
There is greatness in anyone who is kind and caring. The flow of energy that comes with such virtues is highly contagious to humans. In my opinion men who are kind and caring are priceless 🙂
i think most women really want a simpleton man, who really want trouble? every woman want peace and to be treated as a Queen
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Every man should be caring to their wives or partners and also any caring man is not a simpleton period.
Most women are tolerant. But when such women look back after a loonng standing abuse, she can NEVER go back. Men take note!
Hi my brother
Most men now are trained yo be beta! They behave like ' immature' girls in their 30s and 40s O! Behaving like they are boxing imaginary situations… Lolll They now wonder when the women becomes indifferent , depressed, repressed and masters passive aggression. I hate feminism. I don't think I need to support abortion ( their big picture)to empower myself and stay sharp.
The young men of today are confused and untrained in the art of marriage. Not that women are perfect. About feminism, please read about Margaret Sangar, the founder of feminism.She was a racist!
Say it like it is bro👍. As a follower of Christ, we are told to treat our wives, the way we treat our own bodies. A good woman should be treated like a queen, the problem here is that in every 10 of today's women, only 1-2 deserve such servitude.
I'm kinda in the Middle with the whole MGTOW ideology. I myself pander to some of the it's notions and at the same time I disagree with others. What I'm I trying to say? MGTOW was formed in response to 3rd wave feminism/toxic femininity and thot culture. More and more of today's women are being programmed to desire the lifestyle of a hoe, whoredom is celebrated as progressive in pop culture and entertainment. For me the MGTOW principles should be applied when dealing with women who exibit such traits and from my experience and observations of people around me, the vast majority of today's women welcome this warped way of thinking. From my little research I can make an estimate of 85-90% of women have adopted this concept. I mean even Solomon says it's better to live in a wilderness than to live with a bad wife. However it's worth mentioning that the hoe and feminist ideology was born in response to oppression from Men who abuse/abused their authority in the past and present.
I want to say this with all due respect , I understand and respect your opinion and even thought on it for a little bit but I disagree.
As a young 25 year old Nigerian man in the U.S. I have played that nice guy role and it just doesnt work over here, and I told myself "never again" . I dont want to speak on other countries but I have had so much more success being a "bad guy" than I could even imagine. A majority of women around my age group of women , "speaking on the age group of 24 to around 28 dont take "good guys" seriously. If your a "good guy" looked at as weak and undesirable , if your loyal , they then assume you must be far less attractive than disloyal men. I had to come to the conclusion that a majority of women want exactly the opposite of what they tell you they want. And for clearer understanding im not saying completly ignore or belittle women , im saying you cant cater to her every need , that will kill the attraction from her very fast.
Good day Brother. This entire concept is so foreign to me. Why in all that is righteous would I want to deal at all with any human that is not caring, male or female? I would not. So I am going to approach this from two roads that lead to one path. The academics and the Christian side. First, I am not black, I am an Irish woman that is so tired of some looking at those who are kind by their very nature and up-bring as ( simpleton) Or a (loose), or they want something from you. Most are certainly not. Life, by its very nature, is hard. The struggle to survive in a world that at every turn has some kind of negatively slapping you in the face, hatred, and lack of understanding for another because they are different or do not believe in the manner you do take my breath away sometimes. I travel most of the time for my job all over the world. I meet so many kinds of people, and the one constant is that every person I have ever met wants to be seen. Not looked through but recognized and respected. I believe in the infinity of love. Meaning you get in life what you give. Spending time with others doing things they and you enjoy adds to the richness and fullness of life. That is part of the bounty of living well. A caring person is someone to be cherished for they are thinking of you before they think of themselves. Often your welfare is more important to them than their own.
Relationships are built over time. Through the hard and the easy stuff of life. Communication with all things is key.
This is the academics side of me. Caring is the adjective of the word. Definition of caring: is feeling or showing concern for or kindness to others
a kind, caring, person. Nowhere in the definition does it say that caring means simpleton. Those that believe that caring equates to simpleton are misguided.
Now for the Christians side of me:
Christians are called to love one another and to act with care and compassion — and to put others’ ahead of themselves.
Ephesians 4:32
Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.
More, being a caring person is so much harder than being a person who cares for nothing, no one, not even themselves. Because every bloody day we are faced with the negativity coming at us from more sides than not.when are very nature is to care and to be kind regardless of who it is. The infinity of love is a powerful concept of life and one I have followed every day of my life. Peace be with you, yours and your followers.
Yes that is the part people don't understand "BUILDING TOGETHER" A caring man is a "KING" they are hard to find but believe me they are out there for real. Proverb 31: 1- 9. Thank u for this topic.
Phrankleen, I love this video But you are a real man speaking to/about little boys who are too far gone to understand what you saying. Hopefully, a few of them will get it but I applaud you for broaching the subject. Thank you
hi Phrankleen,i like the fact that you are taking on some of the issues that are dear to Africans in the diaspora and back home but I feel you sometimes pander to the opposite sex and on this topic,i disagree with some part of your presentation.i hope you don't mean MGTOW encourages men to denial their wives of sex when ask by the women,if that is what you mean I find that to be disingenuous as most MGTOW men are men who have suffered some form of pain or the other in the hands of women and they don't even get enough sex or get very little from women that is why they go MGTOW to start with.You will not find a man reject sex and then go MGTOW.
God bless you
Someone please help me out ….What's is love ? How would it be defined. People talk about love like it's a meaningful word and there is a way to objectively measure or detect it. A guy married and killed 4 consecutive women for their life insurance in the US. He was only caught by a stroke of luck on the 4th kill. These women genuinely thought he "loved" or cared for them to have agreed to marry him. The existence of Love or lack of Love cannot be objectively detected or measured. The thing called love is an abstract that means different things to defferent people. . There is no universally accepted meaning of love. Until humans invent something that can accurately read the mind, I think each person should act in their own best interest at all time and not surrender the outcome of their wellbeing to another person. Even that, a lot of times, people cannot even be trusted to act in their own best interest talk less for someone else's.
If you are caring towards your WIFE, you aren't a simp, but if you are single man who hasn't acquired wealth, own his business, has his shit together as a Man but out here caring and pandering to women, spending money on women especially whilst dating is a mighty SIMP!!
WOMEN DO NOT CARE HOW HARD YOU'VE WORKED, GRINDED, STRUGGLED, HUSTLED, ALL THEY DO IS WAIT AT THE FINISH LINE AND FUCK THE WINNERS!! HARD COLD FACT!! And I am surprised you saying black community, coz the MGTOW is majorly the white men movement which has gone globally
A caring man is what women want. Someone who sees them as a partner, honours them and treats them with respect.
You are naturally good, I have listen to you for sometime now and I discovered that you're exceptionally good and almost perfect, let me say you're a sweetheart
Spot on You are👌🏽sadly we all can’t reason and act same….
It's unfortunate. Some women have a domineering personality. If a man is caring and loving towards them, they think of him as a weak man and see it as an opportunity to use and manipulate him.