Black American Woman Can't Understand Why A Nigerian Student Didn't Want Her Help
Black American Woman Can't Understand Why A Nigerian Student Didn't Want Her Help
Phillip Scott reports on a Sista who couldn’t understand the contempt a Nigerian woman had for her during a study group session.
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An African woman quit her job when she met my sister who was her new manager…… She told my sister "I don't suppose to work under you – You are suppose to work under me"; then she quit…
America is the motherland!
That's a single story. And there's always that danger of a single story. Her story sounds so funny and makes no sense. No Nigerian wkes up to hate on anyone. Ask around, do your research. Nigerians are the warmest humans in the world. I mean it literally. No Nigerian wakes up to hate on the person that is supposed to help him achieve his academic goals. We don't joke with education. Let her give us the Nigerian student handle so we can ask him or her, and hear his side of this story. Everything y'all say about us is actually you. Take a mirror and look into it.
Prematurely arriving at a conclusion after hearing from one side of the story. This is a classic example
I’m Nigerian and honestly I’m so embarrassed by this. I regret that this kind of thing happens I also hope people also have enough objectivity to judge Nigerians as individuals cos I know for one I will never treat an AA or FBA with this kind of disrespect.
Ok. ONE African American has a problem with ONE African and it's all over the news!!! Who is really looking for trouble here?? African Americans DO NOT have to come the Continent…Talking about fighting, we, in Rhodesia/Zimbabwe FOUGHT!! Really FOUGHT… Look it up… Ditto South Africa, Namibia, Kenya, Tanzania etc. We ARE coming to America AND we will DISRESPECT you any way we like. Get over it. We are tired of this shyte!!!
All I hear mostly in this video and comments is hatred from both sides which is a clear case of "divide and conquer". The truth is Africans, not just Nigerians were told by white folks before coming to America that AA (African Americans) or BA (Black Americans) are lazy, can't keep a job etc and that we shouldn't mix with them. Conversely, the same white folks tell AA or BA that Africans have AIDS, have Malaria, are poor, are not civilized, live on trees etc and that you shouldn't mix with us or go to Africa to visit while they are in all over Africa enjoying their best lives. These are all lies told to each and every one of us by white folks to "divide and conquer" us. I came to the US with the whole stereotypical lies told to me by white folks but that changed. When I started going to college, started working, going to clubs, started making friends with AA or BA, self learning Black history, culture and civil rights movement, self learning the US Constitution and how it's unfavourable to Black people including me then I realized that we are not so different at all and that we have so much in common. AA or BA are smart, brilliant, intelligent, hard working, are not lazy, can keep a job, nice, friendly and Black women all around and everywhere are the most beautiful. My ancestors were slaves just as your ancestors were too. My point is that we have all been lied to and we don't have to live those lies any longer. Furthermore, we should judge people individually and not as a group. I've met some few AA or BA that were mean to me and made fun of my accent and wouldn't want anything to do with me because I'm from Africa but I never judge as a group. There are a lot of good and friendly Africans out there just as there are a lot of good and friendly AA or BA. Let's not let one or a few bad apples put a bitter taste in our mouths.
Waw!!!… Too much hate!!! I don't understand how a grown-up man will sit down -with a serious face to agree with stupidity and strange sentiments? Shame on you. Do you know what Nigerians face? -At home and abroad, even from some of your arrogant black Americans? You are bais, confuse and crazy, trying to solve your delusion with hated. Only wicked people toy with hate… Trust me, the Nigerian sees through this nonsensical ethnic propaganda… Laughable 😂. Idiots hating. You're not better than an African.
It gose both ways …I ❤ all my people
There are good and bad people everywhere.
Are you talking about nigerians or africans?
❤I'm so sick of those Africans who think they're more moral and smarter than black people from here. They are just too full of themselves. My experience is some want to feel superior, rather than allow us to learn from each other.
As i said many times before, they are jealous and hate us because they truly wish it was them that was in our place. They wish it was their ancestors on the slave ships. They wish the white man took them insread of us. They want to be here in our place.
um we see how you treat your own people so why would we want your help with anything? we figured out many things on our own….. hell I learnt how to built a desktop computer by myself.
Common man. Just because one or few bad experience about Nigerians then u will group all of them the same? I don’t buy that.
There is good and bad in every race in the world.
Phil I’m such a fan of your content. I’m on all the channels and the app…Thanks!
This is them ,I have told ppl that this is how they are to black Americans
There is Scarlet letter placed on African-Americans. If you’re coming in and want to assimilate, you don’t wanna align with what is seen as bad. In order to fit in and become American, you have to be anti-black or you can have a hard life. Being anti-black is how some white people who weren’t seen as white became white, and others became American, who wernt seen as American. Distancing yourself and being Weaponized would bring you closer to proximity to power and social status. You fight for these people to come in, then this is the price you would pay. That very thing being turned against you. That is kind of working, because now a lot of African-Americans are more on board and being anti-immigrant.
Their parents tell them to stay away from us.
Just to be honest, there isn't a very good relationship between Africans and Africa American in the states. I don't know why. In many places where I worked, I got more along with a white person than a black person like me. When you speak English with an accent, some people will think that you're uneducated, and they will look at you like a person with a low life although sometimes you might even be more educated then he or she. But when Africans American visit the mother land, it's a different story. People on the continent are very friendly and welcome everyone. Africans in the continent don't tell our black brothers and sisters that they have come to stole our jobs and opportunities, but in America, it happens a lot. Whenever I go, I get along with a person who welcome me, whether they are black or not You don't have to look like me to be my brother or sister, and that's something I have learned in life.
Why do blacks hate on eachother???! Instead of uniting…I don't care what continent you come from as long as you are black, we need to get along. Peace🎉
Based on her statement; There’s no guarantee that the Nigerian was mad at her because she’s African American . This is a one sided story; the girl could have been mad at her for many reasons; including having feeling of insecurity. While I’m against Africans disrespecting their AA cousins; I’m also against AA’s talking down on Africans, because they were told that we are a poor, and hungry continent that sleeps with Lions and monkeys. These are some of the things that has been said to my face by my own kind. We can no longer be ignorant of one another, because the internet has made it possible for us to see ourselves in the right light; so let’s get together and solve these black problems ☝️ ❤️
They luv luv luv to shuck and jive
You ain’t lying here
African American the have bad behavior
THAT IS HER PROBLEM. EVEN IF SHE HAD A PAST TERRIBLE EXPERIENCE WITH SOMEONE DON'T LET IT AFFECT YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS. SHE NEED HELP BUT ACTING FUNNY TOWARDS SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO HELP YOU, I DON'T UNDERSTAND. OR HAS SHE COLLECTED HER BOY FRIEND BEFORE OR COMPETING FOR THE SAME MAN. THERE IS MORE TO THE REASON WHY SHE BEHAVE THAT WAY.
The tribal comment sounds like the so called Afrikan Amerikans constantly electing Democratic politicians only to be spit on and watch them do for others.
I was chatting with one of the Nigerians whom I been friends with almost seven years. Usually when we talk he like to introduce me to people there so one day we was video chatting and he wanted me to say hello to a friend, omg this friend mean mugged me ,wouldn't even look at or speak to me , it was just pure animosity towards me😅 and it was a male doing this towards myself an FBA.
There seems to be an open session for bashing Nigerians by some small minded hateful African Americans. The story told by this “PhD student” was absolutely made up. Not only does it not make any sense, it is also unPhD-like because she offered no proof. In the arena of academia, Nigerians are conditioned to giving unqualified reverence to anyone who has an edge over them. There’s no way that a Nigeria would not respect her and absorb whatever she was intellectually offering; there is no way that a Nigerian would be surprised that an African American is in a mentoring position in a university in America.
Some of you should surrender your fixations on Nigerians and begin to display your education by evaluating stories like this before rushing to Nigerian bashing.
One major reason for this is because AA are just too condescending themselves. They scream all the time about them being the freedom fighter, even when 99% of them have done NOTHING to advance the cause of black struggles. They need to stfu! It's tiring at this point. Also, mentor-mentee relationship is voluntary, not by force! The OP is probably not telling the whole truth here!
Its bc of the way blk amerikkkans behave towards each other! No one wants any dealings with american blks!
This reminds me of the scene from Sugar Hill with the Nigerian “I can’t deal with akata”. She only wanted the White and Asian help. They think Black Americans are beneath them for some reason.
I've had the worst experiences with nigerians!!!
black people do understand where it comes from, social media , let's start there🤨🤨🤨
The problem of it is that we as chocolate people are looking for that pat on the head from everybody. We are not Hammites that's why it was so easy for them to sell us. We are Negros and they are a distant tribe of ours but we are not the same people. Have yall notice that we lump ourselves up trying to be this or trying to that. The problem of it is that a lot us don't no who we are and we are just trying anything to hold on to something, but don't hold on to that, because they aren't worth it
You the host may be the proverbial swine.
The danger of a one-sided story.
We need stop self hate , we are all Africans.
Probably cause shes very beautiful she got a hater on her.
Another thing, a lot of them deny that theyre like that…
A lot of Nigerian people are anti black…
Why do we care?
this is nothing but self-hate. the lack of respect works both ways.
They don’t want no part of us
But Phil, didn't you advocate for us to move to Africa, just saying!!
Snubbing is indecent though i don't support snubbing but no one should be forced into any form of relationship, contact or engagement, the Nigerian have his right to decide whom to converse with whether black or white,it is not mandatory for him to go about looking for black folks to relate with it's a matter of choice probably he just want to be left alone and don't want anybody invading his space without invitation , those castigating Nigerians especially those south africans are you better some of you are the most evil and hateful folks around, i respect the struggles of African Americans how they fought against oppression and injustice meted to them, but they must also sturdy the culture of those in motherland Africa for better understanding
The problem is most blacks Americans are program to believe that everyone else especially Africans are uneducated poor stupid and living in trees like monkeys please don't go to our black brothers and sisters abroad with that mentality leave your arrogance at home don't treat them like the white man treated you all and schools in other countries are as good as here but America thinks they run the world and if you don't come to our country you're not qualified if you leave here and live among many of these people in their own country is the only way you'll understand my parents took me to many places as a teenager and I learn and saw the 2 faces of our great country give respect and you'll get respect the same way you fight for what you got here they had to fight to keep from being overrun and twisted deals to their countries by America being setup by the DEA and CIA just to be sanctioned by America on lies my friends and fellow Americans if you're not properly informed on how our country double deals other countries try to learn the facts I'm an American just like you all and I've lost love ones to the hypocrisy and lies in another land behind the evils of our so called great country
99 PERCENT OF NIGERIANS HATE…HATE..HATE BLACK AMERICANS. ACCEPT THE REALITY. IT WILL NOT CHANGE.
They hate you because they were programmed during slavery to hate you….. this hate continues today
They dont want your help because they know youre arrogant ..
U guys always come up with all the bs, u never show the other side where black Americans do the same. We have people who behave the way the Nigerian lady did on both sides. Pls balance this type of information.