If You Hear THIS From Your Long-Distance Partner… RUN!

I had this. He came on strong and then pulled away. Dated other people without telling me. Wouldn't call or make much effort for me. Led one for 1 year then 1 year of severe depression. Nothing i want again.

I have never understood why anyone would aim for long distance relationships. Its very tricky.

Hey how to contact you… I want some guidance please help him…i have been in 4years relationship

I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.

He always wanted to come to me.. didnt get an invite over there.. almost 2 years i'm in contact…

Can i book and pay for a call with you? 30min or 1hr?

I have a scacertity mindset, known them 7 years tried long distance for 2 months, i need to back down because in general i feel anixious, stressed, needy.

no worries! Thx, Matthew. Contrrary to a huge amount of false gossip, lies, slander, et al, by a male YT presenter for the past several months, no, I've never even met this person, nor received any personal emails or phone calls from this person, i.e, should this be relevant. Also, for the record, I don't even live in the same country, either, so haven't had any involvement with this individual, and sadly, just over a week ago, I had another death threat coming out of a grocery store (not from a Brit or an American), but there have been a # of these for at least 8-10 years now, on and off, as often occurs with female authors who have written books, etc., and I've been informed that there has been far more going on apparently, none of which I myself have had any idea about at all, i.e, as I had a v bad accident in '15, and have to deal w/a painful spinal condition also, but I refuse to quit. I've also been informed that at least one (or two) other people have been out there claiming to be me for some years, and stealing, etc al, both online and off, so as I am v busy with my courses, writing books and refuse to be further threatened, lied about, or disrespected, as my team have requested, as I keep hearing about this person, I have no interest in people or situations like this, which have nothing to do with me, as I've never met this person, so there are ppl who are doing further research re: this v weird situation as to who all has been doing this, as it's been going on both here and across the pond, and for quite a # of years, apprarently. So, yes, you're right – just to mention that for anyone else out there with an (alleged) 'long distance partner' who either they, or others around them, continue to choose to repeatedly 'hate on' yet another woman author, who had prev liked some of his earlier books, but for some reason this person chooses to continue to repeat his lies, slanders, false information, etc., without even having the decency to check the facts with me first. So, everyone, please – please – don't waste your time, w/guys like this. Not for one precious minute! These types love to take other people's energies, it's like a sick 'game' to them, nothing more. So I think Matthew (here) has done a great job with his site, to help all of us become more aware of how an increasing number of people are choosing to 'operate', even on weekly shows on social media. I only wish I'd known about Matthew (and others') channels on here, a lot sooner. Let's all continue to make the web a better, safer place, in all capacities, for all of us! Thx again, Matthew, keep up the good work! All I know is, like many out there, I, too, have "had enough"! End of story.

I am in a relationship with someone I see once a month. Truth be told, I would prefer twice a month. We both agree there is no long term future or marriage and too old for kids. We care for each other. There is no confusion. Neither of us wants more contact and definitely no contact between families. So, there you have it. Matthew’s advice is good no matter what kind of relationship you have. If both people agree and have the same purpose and nobody is hurt or confused, then everything is fine for both people. The lady who wanted advice is not on the same page as her LDR partner, and that means they should break up so she can find someone better suited to match what she wants. Heavens forbid, if my partner showed up in my doorstep and dropped to one knee and proposed, I would shut the door. Not everyone wants the same things, but the two people in the relationship absolutely need to want the same things together.

Thank you and lean some thing new am Ingrid