Relationship Coach Matthew Hussey: “There is no such thing as right person, wrong time!”
Relationship Coach Matthew Hussey: “There is no such thing as right person, wrong time!”
Today, let’s welcome back love and dating coach Matthew Hussey. His approach combines practical advice, motivational coaching, and psychology to help individuals understand what they want from a relationship and how to get it.
Matthew’s expertise provides a comprehensive guide on navigating the challenges of modern dating, building…
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I been here from last two years every morning I listen your podcast. true be honest its fully change my personality and jay your words really admirable. thanks you so for on purpose given them healthy energy every week ❤
Amazing conversation!!! So relatable! Glad my girlfriend sent this to me!! Following for sure!!!
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Love this duo! I've been listening to Matthew for years and have learned so much from him. That last message was powerful. Great episode! I was engaged the entire time
SOUL MATES are NOT who we decide to join ourselves to, but about who God decides to join you to. Yes, we have freedom of choice to choose who we join ourselves to, as does God also have freedom to choose who he chooses to join together as one. The difference is people say everything on the topic and are NOT ABLE to PROVE that the one they chose is ones soulmate, UNLESS one is given knowledge from God, as to where God IS ABLE to PROVE IT through Declaring THEIR END from THEIR BEGINNING. In Marriage through the children (blessings) given them by God, is the WHOLE BODY fitly JOINED TOGETHER and compacted by that which EVERY JOINT supplieth, according to the effectual working in THE MEASURE of EVERY PART, MAKETH INCREASE of THE BODY unto the EDIFYING of ITSELF in LOVE. The Creator tells his creation HOW this process happens. He is the Absolute Authority of Absolute Truth in which ALL THINGS he does. In your PATIENCE possess ye your Souls. Receiving THE END of your FAITH, even the SALVATION of your Souls.
I can absolutely relate to that part about leaving a toxic relationship and having the nervous system calm down (even if it takes a year or two), and then when you're around someone where you can truly be yourself again and relaxed and "at home", you realise just how bad and anxiety inducing the old relationship was and that it was a mirror of previous negative childhood relationships, but now after personal introspection and growth, you know that's not what you need in your life anymore.
“You can’t optimize for human beings” – Mathew wow that’s such a beautiful sentence. I wrote it down in my notes to remember. I certainly tried to do that in the past or still. And you really taught me something big. Thank you ❤
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I was really looking for podcasts about relationships, love, and dating. Those topics just, seemed interesting to me, and I found your podcast. I could find a lot of useful information, new insights , and tips for how to keep balanced relationship between two partner, here. It was just amazing. Also, you give rational questions to podcast guest. Your voice is both eloquent, articulate and it has soothing quality too.
Ohhh 😮 the at home hit home as I have only felt that once, could be my genuine self and safe. It’s a wild feeling but when she realized it too it was like we realized we loved one other to the core beyond looks. The attraction and the tension was there but it was more than that as we felt and saw one other beyond that.
So what about this there is not something like right person wrong time? Can someone explain?
Why can’t we download this🥹
❤❤❤❤❤❤. Amaziiiiing
I don't comment usually but…Thank you for this podcast Jay and Matthew! I just wanna share that Matthew helped me back then to get my dream man last 2020 (my boyfriend now) and this podcast is helping me improve our relationship and make it stronger! (I have trauma wounds/scars from childhood domestic violence) What struck me the most in this podcast is all about self-compassion. I have wished for things he should and should not do (because of all the triggers and conflicts happening) even if he is an amazing person. Now I realize, maybe I am just too attached to that perfectionism especially to myself. If I have more self-compassion, then I will have more compassion/emotional space for people. Thank you a lot!
When you know, you know ❤…no use having chemistry without compatibility, even flames die out without oxygen and movement 😊 attraction of the physical kind is only surface value, engaging with someone where whole world disappears, both are laughing, or crying depending on the situation and their mind continues to intrigue you even after 15 years of being together, you still fight hard, but talk about it later, and come full circle. You've hit gold. Treasure those souls ❤
Cool video, My relationship of 6 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
One of my favourite discussions
Almost a year in a relationship I m the girl. I have slapped my bf 3 times. 1st one shocked me things were came back to normal after genuine apology 2ndone I was pushed hard so I did. 3rd again I loose control over poking But Here I got slapped in return. Damage can be seen on my face as he has strong hands. Idk I have reconciled with him on that day itself having the guilt of me slapping him first. Even after a slap I have love to continue the relationship. Am I wrong to continue. Am I loosing self respect with the retreat of slap. I don't want to sound a hypocrite when I slapped it was ok when he it wasn't. Ik i m wrong here But he was good only once calm and grounded. The later versions of himiss confusing me.
Considering ending a relationship after having to have a couple of hard conversations about a pattern of his that I see, one he has openly admitted to having had in the past: lying. The first convo resulted in him sounding honest, crying and admitting he'd stuffed up. Then later he said he lied so he actually had not stuffed up and does not know why he put himself in the hotseat! This really messed with my head. He also mzde out that I wzs furious when I was not, putting me on the backfoot and warey the next time. The next one was when he said he had never agreed to my invitation to something, which he had very clearly said yes to. I am so embarrassed as it involves a close friend I was inviting him to meet over dinner. I feel I am being gaslit despite our attraction and amazing compatibility to build something together. Thanks for the Robert Green quote: if it happened once it will happen again.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
Wow this was amazing! Thank you
I thank the man for paying on early dates. After date 3 we can discuss who pays going forward
24:40 was real
For sure there are people not right for you at all, so ‘the one’ is very compatible with you.
You can’t control other peoples feelings. That is the best way to get over someone. Too many problem ask the “what did I do wrong?”
Probably nothing but their feelings changed and you have to move on.
I always say what happened to you, you have normally done to someone else.
They’ve liked you a lot and you haven’t liked them…..and they ask themselves the same questions.
Unfortunately we are all selfish and want the best for ourselves. That’s why people treat people like shit and get treated like shit.
Good luck
Thanks to both of you!!! I've been listening to your podcasts for years, I am proud to say that Jay, you are an inspiration for many people, specially me. When I felt lost in life, your podcast helped get through all the ups and downs and even though I am still so young, I have been working on myself for a while trying to be more present and mindful about everything I encounter through this journey of life🥰. That is the reason why I have recently launched my own podcast 'Happy Brownie'. It is about the journey in our 20's. I just want to help other people by sharing stories. It would help me a lot if any of you listen to it. I wish I can eventually reach more people😍 https://youtube.com/@happybrowniepodcast333?si=CvCz_N7hF-0mRL-6
Choose someone who chooses you
I bought mine and love it . I totally recommend this book
Great conversation, I've experience so much of what's been discussed during my own rocky dating experiences and even tho I'm married now, so much of this is STILL appliance when it comes to relationship nurturing and maintenance
Amazing episode! Thank you both. Just ordered the book, can’t wait to read it 😍
This explains so much of what I think and feel. I have felt in the past and what I want in my current relationship.
Wow. All I can say is wow.
Matthew you have touched our lives in a way that its important to gauge ourselves. I was crying about your story of struggle on love.From the Philippines. The one questiining is it jarred has the best interest of what the audience were thingking, such a very good way of questioning
Relationship coaches offer a non-judgmental and supportive space to explore and address relationship issues, and their guidance can lead to more fulfilling and harmonious connections.
What are they even talking about?
I've read both of y'all's books in the last year after a very, very hard break up. So much insight- I'm happy to be on my own for now but look forward to having a MUCH better relationship the next time out. Much love!
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I feel like I will come back to this episode every once in a while. This is amazing.
32:18 – 33:45 real😭😭😭
It is pathetic how our Society has DAMAGED a lot of Men.
When Men get married, society FORCES them to make their wives the Alpha and Omega of their lives. They CAJOLE Men to make their Wives the CENTRE OF GRAVITY in their lives.
Men put their wives FIRST. Think of their wives FIRST. And make endless SACRIFICES to make us happy.
On the other hand, wives ALSO put themselves first. Think of THEMSELVES first. And DEMAND endless sacrifices from their husbands to make them happy.
Men need to understand:
Your life is like a BUILDING.
A girlfriend, even your wife, must NEVER be the pillar of your life. Otherwise, get ready for the inevitable COLLAPSE.
Instead, a woman should be like a lightbulb. Makes the building nice and bright BUT if it goes out or gets spoilt or explodes, you just go out and REPLACE it.
Interesting conversation
Thank you for this video. Matthew as always you are an inspiration and an example and role model for men around the world. I appreciate your vulnerability and sharing your experiences because I have been there too. And thank you Jay for always asking the right and questions I would’ve never thought. Both great amazing humans!! Thank you for your insight and topics on unspoken pains we all share.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.