Men Expect The Traditional Woman With Their 50/50 Mentality – Must Watch
Men Expect The Traditional Woman With Their 50/50 Mentality – Must Watch
MEN EXPECT THE TRADITIONAL WOMAN WITH THEIR 50/50 MENTALITY – MUST WATCH
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They want submissive provider. Good luck with chasing chimeiras.
When a man mentions anything about 50/50 i automatically know that he can not do anything for me because he can not even take care of his self. Hence him asking the woman for 50% He is not a man.
I’m glad I don’t date men. Oh my gosh, this is exhausting!
I wish women would stop responding to these men or going on their platforms to debate them. If women want to get your point across…be silent and let men be single. Nothing else needs to be said on this topic. Literally everything has already been said.
If he doesn’t practice it then why is he concerned with who does? Why doesn’t he propose that question to men as those are his peers
Perspective of 50/50 is not the same. When men say 50/50, they are solely talking about finances. When women say 50/50, they mean everything. Housework, child-rearing, and finances. Men talk about gender roles all the time. If a man wants a woman to share in the responsibility of provider, he shares in the responsibility of parenting and managing a household. That's 50/50.
I’m tired of the intellectual dishonesty of this conversation. 1. Whose tradition is this? Because black people and Latinos were working on the 50s. 2. These seems to be white/patriarchal society norms that men created. 3 ITS NEVER 50/50. 4. Quiet as it’s kept ALOT WOMEN ARE THE BREADWINNERS IM THEIR RELATIONSHIP! 5. Men don’t want to step up and be actual fathers and husbands. They are mad that just existing isn’t enough like it was for their forefathers so they want to still push that position. I’m happy to go 50 like that Russian babe said… 50% of the house, your savings, your assests, and you helping with the kids. That’s the true half of a 100%.
Wait, so I'll turn it around and say, without a man, I can do 50% LESS WORK!?! Sign me up!
Everything is transactional with men and they try to change the math all the time, to fit their needs.
I will split finances 50/50 if he shares cooking and cleaning with me 50/50.
A woman’s sacrifice to a relationship is the risk of her life, body and health in pregnancy and childbirth which men cannot help her with; a man’s sacrifice is everything else, and he’s physically built for that labor (though he dumps it all on her). That’s why a woman’s money is her money and a man’s money is the family’s money, because the family is his responsibility, so any money that the woman gives to the family is a gift to him, not her responsibility. If a man cannot support the family financially that’s only part of his responsibility, his wife and kids should feel safe, secure, cared for and loved, that’s the biggest part of his responsibility, the only reason why money matters is because the family can’t survive without it, so he has to go and get it just like he had to go and get food in ancient times. So the woman risks everything, so she owes nothing more than moral support and making it convenient for him to carry out his responsibilities. On dates, 50/50 men are a waste of time because the message is that he can’t be relied on to care for anyone, so what’s the point of him dating.
I'm not saying the woman at the 4:59 time stamp is wrong when she's talking about the wage gap but I would like to know where she is getting her data from. I would also like to know what she means exactly by women not being treated equally to men. As far as I am aware, as a woman I have all the same legal protections men do – maybe a few more. Ladies do not let yourself fall into a victim mentality. Victims have no power; they can only react to what is done to them. If, as a woman, you are not being treated fairly in a relationship, then it's time to leave. The only times I have ever been treated unfairly in a relationship is when I have allowed it. And as far as going 50/50 on a date? I had to really know and trust the man I was out with before I would let him pay. Paying 50% on a date was my way of protecting myself from sleaze balls who thought buying you dinner meant they were entitled to sex with you.
No women don't want to provide 50% income with 100% of domestic labor. Then, they want us to be a sex goddess at the same time.
Never again 💯 👏🏼 50/50 Where im tapped into my femininity soft life Era im not living in survival mode lil Boy i want a man not a boy Grow Up and work on your Tax bracket
Meals and a clean house come with marriage because women in the 40s, 50s, and even 60s did NOT do that for boyfriends. Men courted and proved themselves first. My mother wasn't even allowed to have a proper date alone with her high school sweetheart in 1963! She had to sit with her "boyfriend" in the den while my auntie and uncle were in the kitchen eavesdropping. I really need for people to do the research on the way traditional relationships really went back in the day. Also I'm going to need black people in the US to understand that very few black women were stay at home wives living in the "traditional" roles.
Pickmesha in the beginning can have several seats because black men have never been traditional. Black women have been holding up the black household for years we over it. These 🥷 will waste all your years cooking, cleaning for giving them sex just for them to leave you for their preferences. Have them do it. The double standards definitely exist but they started with men, and they will end with them. End of story🙄
Once you tap into your faith & spirituality…you realize these types of conversations don’t even apply to you anymore 🤷🏾♀️A God-led man knows there is SPIRITUAL reason why men provide, protect and cover women in various aspects—not just monetarily. Trust me, the men who understand this aren’t even in these spaces. God(or whoever you pray to) does NOT send you situationships, sneaky-links, or even boyfriends…only husbands! If he’s not intentionally moving to become your husband then he is ONLY there to serve as a distraction. Adjust accordingly.
Poor black women. 2:00
The reason most women dont want to go 50/50 is because men still want to be the "man" of the relationship while standing there with his hand out. You cant have it both ways. I will have no respect for a man that is wanting me to pay for half of everything..
I have to disagree in the wage gap BS. If a man is doing a job that a woman isnt willing to do, then yeah….hes going to make more. I also know quite a few women that make more than their husbands because they have an education and work in healthcare. You are going to make more money based on your education and line of work.
most women who acheived a higher degree and can survive on their own, they don't want to be told, and yelled out by men on how they are supposed to live their life, that these men are expected a trad wife, but are chasing women who have degrees and making money, but then these men who want the trad lifestyle, and are expecting to have meals cooked for them, but then they expect the women to hold up half the financials… and even worse, the amount of lazy men who talk about how they want the trad, submissive wife, and she's also brining home most of the bread,
I JUST said this the other day, that's crazy… They want a traditional, submissive woman who can also go 50/50…. Like, pick a struggle.
destiny is all okay? you looked kinda hurt today
Men use to like A WOMAN and spend his time, energy, and resources courting that one woman. Nowadays men complain because they want to play a numbers game, dating a lot of women. Sir, I’m not subsidizing your dating life. I didn’t approach you. You approached me. Either you’ll invest your time, energy, and resources into a desire to create an “ us “ or don’t bother.
It’s alarming that men are already receiving the majority of the benefits and privileges, and still aren’t satisfied. They are still trying to negotiate for more. Smh. I’ll get a cat and a dog before I settle for this bs.
0:08 where is her man. She’s too masculine to be speaking
Men want 50/50 ONLY in regards to bills. They want their woman to be traditional in every other way doing 100% of the childcare, housework and all other domestic work while ALSO going to work and paying half the bills. You can't have it both ways, that's the issue. Men want you to be traditional in every regard except when it comes to going to work. As soon as it comes to them being the one paying the bills traditional gender roles go out the window. But then if the woman says "well I pay half the bills so I need you to help with the kids and around the house" These men be clutching their pearls. That's the issue. That first last sounds like the typical pick me, we gotta just start ignoring those types.
50/50 is great for me, I was not raised to be a traditional wife. That being said im not having someones kids or doing all domestic chores either unless i can sit at home and do those things. Im not doing the work of 2-3ppl.
50/50 is feminism, not traditionalism.
There is no reasonable or feasible way of equally splitting the load that women carry biologically, socially, or in the home. So no, don’t consider it.
I never listen when u post the mens reactions. They irk my soul 😂.
I will NEVER do 50/50 with a man.
I don't now and never will.
However the reality is some women can barely afford 100% of their own bills as it is and are really struggling to survive as they are so I won't knock any woman doing 50/50 with a man if it reduces her living expenses.
If it ACTUALLY makes your life easier then go for it as most men cannot, mentally or financially handle being providers.
First lady was giving total Pick Me energy.
All these men are so desperate to cosplay as provider's but are not ready to pay the COST of being one. Most men will FAIL at being providers. They aren't financially or mentally stable enough to handle the pressure and they like lying to themselves about what they can do to impress their fellow men. They want women to be submissive and traditional without having to actually provide for them.
A lot of these men are lying about wanting 50/50.
I’m from Lesotho and my husband is Zimbabwean. I’ve NEVER bought myself a meal or paid for a drink and out here it’s a given that males pay from when you start dating till marriage. We have been together since ‘97. 4 yrs later he proposed. I was turning 22 the same month my 1st son was born. We have an 18 yr old boy also. I Just turned 45, hubby is 47. We grew up together and on each other.
My mom being Sotho would insist on my dad budgeting my sister and I’s needs from hair to nails. Nights out she insisted I take a card just incase. Things are scary now because my hubby’s from a wealthy family and I came from a similar background. We never ever thought about cash or who’s paying. Watching my sons now it’s sooo different. When did all these issues come about because it was just love. We have worked through trying times but I think arm your girls and boys with the values you believe in without materialism. We NEVER discussed my working or not I just did when I wanted, made a brand, worked with him and his dad in family business whenever if I wanted. My dad was concerned about HIS silver spoon worried that he might not be able to meet my needs that were handed down from his dad, so the Benz and all he came with actually put my dad off initially so I wrote a letter after proposal to my dad saying I just loved him and going nowhere and he said he preferred an average guy to build a life with TOGETHER. It came naturally and actually was the best time of my life having the luxury of falling back, looking after my boys. So, my contribution was making sure he walks in the door and smells something awesome going on in the kitchen though I had 3 nannies but the entire world is now feeling the financial strain and it’s about “can you pay my rent ?” If not I’m out. It’s actually sad but I’m happy as my folks celebrate their 50th this week and think it’s nothing for me to do for him and cook and be his wife and respect him because he treats me well. It’s a domino effect. Proud to say 23years in I am a very blessed woman. I don’t know when things became like this when 💰has a place in love. I feel for my boys because it seem to be a mandatory thing vs “I want to share a meal with you hence no discussion about who’s paying or buy me a wig. I still don’t know how to ask for 💰it’s a little vulgar and not spoken about whether you have it or not. Just my experience as an older woman.🤷♀️
I’m from Lesotho and my husband is Zimbabwean. I’ve NEVER bought myself a meal or paid for a drink and out here it’s a given that males pay from when you start dating till marriage. We have been together since ‘97. 4 yrs later he proposed. I was turning 22 the same month my 1st son was born. We have an 18 yr old boy also. I Just turned 45, hubby is 47. We grew up together and on each other.
My mom being Sotho would insist on my dad budgeting my sister and I’s needs from hair to nails. Nights out she insisted I take a card just incase. Things are scary now because my hubby’s from a wealthy family and I came from a similar background. We never ever thought about cash or who’s paying. Watching my sons now it’s sooo different. When did all these issues come about because it was just love. We have worked through trying times but I think arm your girls and boys with the values you believe in without materialism. We NEVER discussed my working or not I just did when I wanted, made a brand, worked with him and his dad in family business whenever if I wanted. My dad was concerned about HIS silver spoon worried that he might not be able to meet my needs that were handed down from his dad, so the Benz and all he came with actually put my dad off initially so I wrote a letter after proposal to my dad saying I just loved him and going nowhere and he said he preferred an average guy to build a life with TOGETHER. It came naturally and actually was the best time of my life having the luxury of falling back, looking after my boys. So, my contribution was making sure he walks in the door and smells something awesome going on in the kitchen though I had 3 nannies but the entire world is now feeling the financial strain and it’s about “can you pay my rent ?” If not I’m out. It’s actually sad but I’m happy as my folks celebrate their 50th this week and think it’s nothing for me to do for him and cook and be his wife and respect him because he treats me well. It’s a domino effect. Proud to say 23years in I am a very blessed woman. I don’t know when things became like this when 💰has a place in love. I feel for my boys because it seem to be a mandatory thing vs “I want to share a meal with you hence no discussion about who’s paying or buy me a wig. I still don’t know how to ask for 💰it’s a little vulgar and not spoken about whether you have it or not. Just my experience as an older woman.🤷♀️
It’s always interesting to see what the women who are for 50/50 look like compared to the ones who aren’t lol. Anyway , these men know there are a lot of women thirsty to say they have a man in the house. Therefore, men are going to milk the living situation for all it’s worth. I lived with a man b4 , not in a 50/50 dynamic, and still didn’t like it. Nothing like coming home to a nice, quiet , clean place, without an annoying azz man in my face. I’m not giving that up unless it’s a waaay better financial benefit .
The idea of leader and responsibility scares a lot of men so they don’t know how to value a woman.
Make no mistake there’s ALOT of entitled men too. Men have to WORK it is what it is and the sacrifice of that, many don’t want.
Look everyone has a purpose,
I’ve never seen someone recover from chicken pox and glowing like this Destiny 🤣🤣💕
Bih, in the 1950s a man would've courted a woman 1st, married her, THEN requested a cooked meal, not before.
As long as males are unable to carry a baby and birth them, that patri archy / miso gyny are alive and rampant…there will never be 50/50.
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Please don’t say modern day woman don’t like that because it’s a hypocritical statement. Only the only want that situation benefits, or serves them. Please understand that’s not everybody. I was raised in a two parent household. My parents are married and still together, and I was always raised to have my own. I was always raised to be able to take care of myself. Mind you I never wanted children and I still don’t have children to the same choice. That being said if I were ever to, I don’t believe in living with a man, unless I married that’s number one. And if I were to get married down the line, no problems going 50-50 with my husband because there would be why not everybody should be able to contribute to the household. I don’t believe it should be put on one person to financially support a household, regardless of children that relationship or not what they have children together, whether people have blended families, whatever it may be I believe that every everybody should be be able to contribute to the household, as to adult people coming into relationship that’s what I believe