My Parents forced me into Marriage and this happened…
My Parents forced me into Marriage and this happened…
My Parents forced me into Marriage and this happened…
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I thought forced marriages were a thing of the past….. didn't know they were still happening.
This happened to me as well, and I am in America
Definitely true NOT ALL MOMS ARE GOOD MOMS. Granddaughter growing up without hers..has to lean on her father for direction
So true love you
She should have mentioned it to her midwives during her pregnancy so she have gotten therapy. She could still get therapy and join women emotional support group for victims of DV if she goes to her gp and tell them what she is passing thru.
I love watching your channel. Thank you
Phrankleen I'm not with you on this one. We have to stop this baby MoMA and baby fathers nonsense we have in our communities. This African solution go a long way to reduce the fallout from the baby daddy syndrome. Do you see the young ladies selling pure water small, minute hand to make Hawking to feed baby. The boys parents did well. The other issues with the husband is another matter.
It seems Kazeem in the live chat is desperate for advice in how to force abxxtion upon a sidechick. 🙄
I agree with you 100%
The concept of "Having a Child out of Wedlock" steamed from Eurocentric religious inclination. Many of these parents are completely selfish and are protecting their social and religious status rather than look out for the interests of their children. Many women today are in forced marriage that they are not happy with but can't walk away because of religious reprisals or societal criticism. Peace and love ❤️ @phrankleen
Phrankleen I aplaud you ND Pastor Shola who are bringing open mindedness opposed to backward mindedness in Naija as well as those in Africa who are still backward thinkers.
There are always two sides to a story. I believe this man is the devil himself and she’s a saint. However, I want to hear his version.
THE ALMIGHTY IS WORKING IS WONDERS TO PERFORM.
IT IS WELL WITH MY SOUL.
REPEAT AFTER ME.
EXPERIENCE IS AN INEXPENSIVE PRICE TO PAY.
MY UNDERSTANDING OF THESE SITUATIONS IS TO DISREGARD FAMILY AND CONTINUE WITH LIFE.
THE SUPPORT OF FRIENDS AND THE LOVE OF THE CHILDREN WILL DEVELOP INTO A NORMAL LIFE. JANUARY WAS JUST YESTERDAY TOMORROW IS NOW BEGIN TO LIVE YOUR DREAMS.
REGARDING THE PART WHERE SHE MENTIONED THAT SHE PRETENDED WHILE HAVING SEX.
SAD BUT THERE LIES THE PROBLEM..? CONSCIOUSLY SPEAKING DEEP DOWN WITHIN YOURSELF YOU FIRST HAD PASSION FOR THE MAN IN ORDER TO HAVE SLEPT THE FIRST TIME WITH HIM. ? THAT WAS BOTH CHOICES.
WHY COULDN'T YOU BOTH DEVELOP FURTHER AND START LEARNING TO ENJOY THE FRIENDSHIP AND RESPECT YOU SHARE TOGETHER.
THE FAMILY DIDN'T INTRODUCED YOU?
YOU BOTH DID. WHY PUT ALL THE BLAME ON THE PARENTS. FURTHERMORE AFTER THE FIRST CHILD WHY MAKE MORE CHILDREN AFTER YOU REALISED THAT EVERYTHING CONCERNING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WAS WRONG.
AFTER 18 YOU ARE SENSIBLE ENOUGH REALISED IF IT'S HOT OR COLD.
ENJOYING YOUR LIFE AND LOVING YOURSELF IS MORE IMPORTANT.
This things are common in Yoruba land. My neighbours daughter got pregnant and she was forced to go live with the boys family at iyana ipaja. They are not together today.
Another one few streets from mine got pregnant and she was forced to do introduction and go live with the guys parents. She suffered. The boy beats her. They went on to have another child. Today they are not together. The abuse was too much and the guy disrespects her.
It's no shame at all. My cousin got pregnant at 17. But my Uncle is educated and never told her to go and live in the inlaws house.
As a matter of fact, the boy denied the pregnancy, he confessed he slept with her but he claimed he's not the only one that she sleep with. So imagine sending her to live with the family because the boy himself was just in 100 level and she just finished secondary school.
Hey Chika, I will block you….🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for this discussion Mr. Phrankleen. Some of the commments are the reason this discussion is so necessary. She does need counseling/therapy. It is hard now but it will get better. I'm glad she had the courage to walk away from a toxic situation, even if it took a while to do so. I think it is important to note that there a situationa like this where the relationship has actually worked fine, BUT it does not make the practice of forcing marriage due to pregnancy right.
The parents were selfish in their decision. Forced marriage was not and is never the answer in situations like this. Unfortunately they missed the point of their Christian faith it's not about their image, how they could have shown love to their daughter inspite of her mistake., but they were more concerned about their status, and treated her like a property has she had no choice in the marriage.
People stay in toxic relationship and they accept it. And it has to do with what others will say, and another is sunk cost, as humans we stick to something special if we put much time and effort into getting that thing. And money and time has magnified how we think of sunk cost
Phrankleen just wanted to say I’ve started my initiation in IFÁ, thanks to all your advises here . I’d not have taken that step of courage without watching your videos . Turns out I even have ancestral priesthood, I’m very happy and done my first ebó. Thank you
https://youtu.be/xhiRmgOZxOg
https://youtu.be/SrFJHX7em1Q