He needs to leave. The fact that he has someone as a fall back means he will subconsciously think of her in their fights. He'll know that he won't be alone if he leaves and he knows no matter what he has someone.
Idk if that makes sense but once you create a backdoor the relationship is doomed. You'll start thinking that leaving will be easier than staying and then you stop fighting for your family.
He needs to leave. The fact that he has someone as a fall back means he will subconsciously think of her in their fights. He'll know that he won't be alone if he leaves and he knows no matter what he has someone.
Idk if that makes sense but once you create a backdoor the relationship is doomed. You'll start thinking that leaving will be easier than staying and then you stop fighting for your family.
Why are you still with the wife after she cheated. And why are you still friends with the side chick
Nope. This couple is a hot mess ! They should just get divorced because they arent commited.