I’m a 49 Year-Old Black Woman With No Husband. Here’s How I Fill My Life

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I’m a 49 Year-Old Black Woman With No Husband. Here’s How I Fill My Life


I’m a 49 Year-Old Black Woman With No Husband. Here’s How I Fill My Life | for Black Women Embracing Ease. Why do some people hate to see Black women traveling abroad and living a life of joy and liberation while de-centering men? How do you stop waiting for marriage or until you have a partner to start living your life? And how do you…

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  1. These comments are amusing; it's as if they're implying that women can't enjoy themselves alone. I'm married, but I enjoy spending time alone or with friends pursuing my own interests. Traveling is my passion; my husband doesn't share it, but we make it work. Marriage isn't the ultimate destination that fulfills you. Great video, Stephanie. Thanks for the inspiration. 💚

  2. Hello Stephanie,
    What if my life has been on hold to find You?
    Where am from, there are plenty of ocean view I can show. the very YOU.
    By the way am not an American rather from a place called ALKEBULAN
    This is Nash from London.

  3. How do I get past the physical loneliness? I hate myself for wanting intimacy in any way. I hate that I’m 35 and still want to be loved. 99% of black men hate us, so that aspect is done for me. I would love nothing more than genuine friendships, but now you have to have a buss down lace wig, 5 inch nails and a pearly white smile attached with a BBL. So.. no friends, no family, and no prospects. Still, I want nothing more than to experience the level of joy Stephanie feels. I would love to never want a man again.🤎♥️

  4. The idea that one's happiness is dependent on being married, having kids, getting a good job, buying the big house or car etc is debilitating. We are each unique and we don't have to go on the same path. To each it's own as long as it works for you and you are not negatively impacting other people's lives. Great reminder Stephanie ❤ as far as am concerned, love me or leave me alone!

  5. @8:20 is where this starts being concerning coming from a married woman. You said that your mother has a fulfilling life even though she’s married. That comes across as those two things are contradictory and they’re not.

    Then you said you know FROM married women that their marriage/husband is not fulfilling. You have no idea what you’re talking about. Being a wife and mother plus a working Professional woman, it would be limiting to think your marriage/husband will fulfill your life when it’s multiple-dimensional. Of course women should have personal interests.

    How about compare your fulfilled single life to not happily married women specifically?

    Your comparison to “marriage” is skewed, you have no intimate experience with a loving marriage and being a fulfilled woman, wife and mother.

  6. Oh my husband was murdered in Lagos. I never remarried. ‘You’ problem ‼️ 😂👍🏽. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 will USA men kill you😂😂😂😂😂?
    Folks you need to travel. Every thing we are taught in the US is not true.

  7. I am far older than you💝 I was a workaholic and hated taking vacations! I cruise once a month solo-NOW! Shame on me for waiting so long.💝✈️🛳️🛳️🚢🚢💃🏾💃🏾🤸🏾‍♂️🤸🏾‍♂️🧘🏽‍♀️🏄🏽‍♀️🪇🎼🎹 I am a lover of life. I just got off NCL cruise out of Cape Town, 🇿🇦 Interesting! 2/1/2024-3/8/2024

  8. I don’t see nothing wrong with women being alone! But I would never want to not have kids! I love being a father! Inside there is always something missing! But live you life! No one is mad or really care! I will be with my wife as we will travel and she can travel and have her life! Who wants to be with someone that want to lock anyone down! Ugh

  9. Only insecure people would balk at a woman choosing to be single
    Their fragile ego cannot fathom the thought that someone would knowingly choose their own happiness over the needs of a man. Relationships and marriages don't define us. If they're healthy, they should help contribute to happiness. But by no means should a relationship be the only source of Joy.