WHY I LEFT MY WIFE AND KIDS IN CANADA FOR A RETURN TO NIGERIA
WHY I LEFT MY WIFE AND KIDS IN CANADA FOR A RETURN TO NIGERIA
WHY I LEFT MY WIFE AND KIDS IN CANADA FOR A RETURN TO NIGERIA
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Wish i got this info 20yrs ago…..my struggle rt now is to uproot my husband
In the Us people are killed More than what fulani jihadists or bandits are doing in Nigeria
They want their children to speak Phone phonetics
People are not aware that the transatlantic slave trade to work in plantations has changed form . I am in Nigeria, all my family are in Us canada or UK. I have rwad a lot, i have understood how the world works men i am a king here i cannot go live in the white mans world. It is so hard for a black man. I have been under pressure but i eluded all of them, now i will be 42 in may 2024 so the pressure is reduced now. I cant go live in those olaces at this age. Afric a is the new USA, Canada, And UK. Many people marry for status, many people from weatern Nigeria are crazed about Japaa, i am married to a yoruba wiman, am from benue and have been under the pressure. I would have done that in my early 20s. I have businesses here and i will stay. I am eating very fresh foods. We 3d to be wise oo hmm
The days people go to all these US Canada and UK to make a good living has long been over. The Nigerian govt used to give young graduates scholarships to go study, those students used to come back home with stories that sound like the west was a better place. For me the west is not good for black migrants at all.
If am the man, I will remarry without delay. Ĥis Ex wife should be made to face the music and raise the kids as she wishes. Nobody will ever manipulate me using the kids. I pity the man in the story. I know God held him up.
Mr. Phrankleeen, may you live long and prosper.
I weep in my heart everyday about the future of Nigerian and Africa at large. May are lost already. Things are hard back home, but we are losing it at the speed of light. Having been in the US for about 2 years, I find it crazy that one sell off everything to come work a slow but surely killing job.
Its pain here! Its stressful! Its depressing…no matter how we want to pretend. A society in which you can become homeless at any slightest challenge! It scares me.
You now see Nigerians who proudly tell you "We are NEVER going back". Are these people insane? Our generations will be lost in the midst of no where. Am scared and bitter. What happened to our senses as Africans?
Man the story about Dubai unbelievable! How he been trapped in basement?! Did he knew the guys he went and lived with ! Police in Dubai against human trafficking but if you keep your mouth shut nobody will know about it.
Sexual asult or asulting anyone on social media will get you in prison 3 to 5 years plus 300k you have to pay it to the victim.
If the story true tell the victim.
What is the nationality of those people?
The problem is always when the head in a family is not one. Phrases like “both parties” already indicates division. God ordained HEADSHIP and the head should be allowed to LEAD the home. Thanks for narrating this story brother.
-Was the man treating her badly in Nigeria?
-She claimed she wanted a better life for her children. Did she say that so she could obtain her interest in going to Canada?
-Her husband has a nice business. Did she want to go to Canada so she could go against her husband?
-Did she want to go to Canada so she could have her separate job and provide a way (mother, father, sister, brother, etc) for her family to go there?
Some women you can't really trust. Some women are very manipulative. They can be very selfish. Yes, people need to be heard. Yet we have to be able to discern what we should reject. Yes, I believe some people may marry you because you can provide for them. Very sad.
I think some women i quite insecure about this abroad stories…MEN DON'T LISTEN!!!..Africa is the richest continent….the richest black is Nigerian….but the hangover of colonization has created a weak black mentality
…yes SELF SABOTAGE is real…i would rather be a boss in my home country…nothing BEATS HOME
Protect this Man at all cost. God is definitely using him no cap.
Question: why do yall dream of going to canada/US, when you're okay in Africa?
I like this line : " Illusion of inclusion ''. Absolutely. You nailed it.
Thanks for revealing truth.
You don't know what you have untill you lose it. When you are somewhere where you are not will be hungering you and that is African mentality. There is no where like home. Don't get reed of what you have in Africa in other to travel abroad. Abroad is not a bed of roses.
● Traveling abroad is voluntary slavery!!!
You are on your own when you come. 🤔🤔 🤔
Thanks and God bless you for always saying the better truth
The man should have stood his ground and never have moved to Canada. Maybe for a short vacation to check the place out.
I love the program. You are one hundred percent correct. Let us build assets back home too. Our people back home have to be honest and help. We work too much to throw it all away . Let us put plan and save for our return. Keep up the good work.
I don't know why it's women that are more obsessed with relocating abroad
Very interesting story
Chinese and other groups like Indians fight to come to Africa but Africans run away from Africa. Why? Colonized minds. I live in Africa and love Africa. I educate my kids abroad not to work and live there but to come back home.
Phrank knows best
Thank you Franklyn you are hitting the nail on the head,the lady that ignored her husband’s advice and stayed in Canada is probably influenced externally.
That man was smart NOT to sell all his assets in Nigerian as his wife wanted done so she and him and kids could my I've to Canada. That was a way of controlling him and making him buckle under her in Canada where he could lose warning be g power and she would be lecturing and controlling him big time. She may have her side of the story but if I were to advise her husband now, I would point blank tell him to divorce her and let her go. He had everything in order, but she wanted Canada PR over him as a husband. I have seen and know of so many African women who refuse to return with their husbands to Africa, and jam with the children either in US, UK, or Canada and the African husband returns alone and the wife raise the kids by herself abroad! Such women never loved or cared about the man and the marriage. They are selfish, and such men need to dump such wife and let them go and marry another woman if they so want to do so. Some women are just plain ridiculously selfish and vain. They think living abroad means they have arrived or are better than those in Africa! And yes, there are marriages where men or women married someone in order to go abroad, or because that person was a stepping stone to opportunities they wouldn't attain on their own. Many marriages are premised on such nonsense that's why there is such high rate of divorce. African men and women who already are successful in Africa, and older than 40 just need to stop dreaming and selling off all they have just to go abroad. Who does that?
The media and government blatantly lies to the people and glamorizes the west. Stop looking at the west, build your own life here in Africa. The issue in the minds of too many here in Malawi which is the same as the welfare mindset in the west, which is, people want someone else to take care of them instead of taking responsibility for their own life. People you are selling your souls to your slave masters of the west. Yes your minds are still colonized.
I can understand the situation. I feel so bad for the man. Why do Africans think it's better in the west? It's crazy. I am European background. Born in Russia, German background, came to Canada when I was 13. I left Canada for Malawi Africa. I was tired of the western mindset. Life for a white guy is difficult here, no doubt and very difficult to fit in. I came here for more freedom and live in a way to help my neighbours but it's not working. The life in Canada is not better. This wife tried to control him and he obliged. He should have never left Nigeria with his family. If she wanted to go, he should have let her go on her own, period. How many guys I know that left Canada to find a wife abroad and bring her back to Canada. 6 months later, the marriage is done. The western life allure destroys families in the west. I would be happy to be accepted into a community here, get residential permit, buy land and start a simple life. The comments offered as spot on.
Thanks For The Critical Information and Education About The Massive Untapped Opportunities All Over Africa Only For The WISE.
I come late in the day. Kenyan afrikan. I like and agree with you, speak up and enlighten our people. I was in the west back in the day. I left quickly, so far 10 years down the road, No regrets. I had very valid solid personal reasons, I had young children and 2 wives back home……..No amount of money could replace the empty, cold isolated feeling one gets in the west.
Being a man, I guess we are like cocks, bulls….there is a very deep seated instinct against a place where we do not belong. The women folk fare better abroad, fussing over malls and indoor decor….
I later went to South aAfrika, then namibia….there I felt very much at home , very warm, energetic and optimistic.
There is no place like africa, none! there are challenges and frustrations yes.
Once in a while I take off to the most remote parts of Kenya.. I see the poverty hunger and insecurity but it never removes the warm human spirit, the free air the feeling of hope and belonging. That is carthatic, it heals my soul. I never go that feeling in the efficient west and i have touched ground in the USA, Asia, even Australia.
The young need to know. getting educated in the west is a very good idea, just ensure you do not loose touch with Home, Africa
What if she never wanted to leave her work and join in the business? She will have her own reasons. We Nigerian men need to stop simply putting our women's desire to live abroad as some kinda colonial mentality. We do not know what it means to be a woman in Africa. But for this story, the guys should have simply stayed in Nigeria, face his business, and use PR to dey visit as much as possible.
This guys never wanted to go. So no p then.
Very important point. Imagine this new thing “for the future of the children” as the reason people are ploughing hard earn monies not into their communities in Nigeria but in mediocre schools in Canada and to the Canadian govt for a student visa.
And you are so right. If many of us have a livable house in Nigeria, it is over for abroad. Many are trying to build the house to return to…
Elenu tiporo….this Franklin no go kill person 😄
I like this show iam new from south Africa 🇿🇦
i tell them
NEVER NEVER NEVER leave your base if you are strongly making money in your country
That was a red flag
From my perspective, that woman is nothing but a devil, do you have to put all your eggs in one basket? she can live in Canada and take care of the kids and the husband live in Nigeria to run the business, a lot of bank managers in Nigeria have their wife and kids in UK, they do come to visit their family on Holiday and go back and the family also do go to Nigeria, must she drag the family to life poverty and slavery all because of her selfishness. That is the problem with 9ja women if you show them love they fuck you up in a big way. That guy is very lucky that he took a good decision before is too late. he is also blessed with a good brother. I will advice that man to marry another responsible woman and set up a new family, life is too short, don't let anyone kill you before your time.
Wao! very interesting Bro. To be honest if not because of Security challenges we have in Nigeria ( Fulanis ), a lot would have relocate back to Nigeria, It's hard to know what life is in West except you experience it, I pray the next president of Nigeria will take security issues as a priority.
“Just being amongst my own kind, the mental freedom is priceless”👌🏾
The man acted wisely, when you are comfortable ahome, i see no reason for abroad. abroad is mostly for people who has nothing to rely on, going to abroad might be a way to help hemselves and families. but in all you do, thinking back home is important.
The guy is perfectly right
Abroad is not paved with gold. Moving from any where in africa to abroad is a big transition. Lots of sacrifices. Cultural differences, descrimination etc. Lets take descrimation as subheading. Descrimation comes from any level that you're in. Going abroad, colour and race descrimination is added to the list. If you're a man, a senior son, multiply what is expected of you by ten folds. Everyone should take abroad like market, do you best, come home with a bag full of money and live a comfortable life; far from relatives. This list of advice that i would like to give anyone planning to go abroad is too many to mention. Sometimes, i laugh when i see people take advice from anyhow people. As they said "is crowded at the bottom and lonely at the top". That means poor people are many, rich people are few. Never take advice from people that are not as good as you. If that advice was good or beneficial he or she would've kept it to himself. Idle brain is devil workshop, so, make hay while sunshine. If you know that you can't make it in abroad, please don't go. What ashame to come back looking for a room to live in; in your old father's house. Common mistake made by people coming abroad is, i am well educated, i am going abroad for top job, big money etc, my friend; it doesn't work that way, according plan, you will never get top job with your qualification from home; you'll need to upgrade upon your arrival, go through their system of education and hope for the best. this could take years to complete, ( let's assume you have proper visa to be in the country, you have no criminal record, etc )Is during this period that many people fall apart, due to one reason or other; this is time people begin to say what they use be, before they came abroad, nobody cares about your past; is present that matters; at this juncture, oversea dream becomes a nightmare.
America has some of the most racist violence police officers, Yes, unarmed black men and women are killed and violent mistreated everyday. Black people are Mass incarcerated on a mass scale with a corrupt judiciary system. almost every now and them, you would see in the news, a black man who has been in prison for 20, 25, 30, 40 years for something he didn't do has been set free. As are you reading this comment , there are thousands of black men in American prisons that are there for something they has nothing do but a corrupt police force and corrupt judiciary system.
Dumping people in prisons is big business in America with a large number of private prisons mushrooming all over America.
Yes, THE WHITE HOUSE is located in the Ghetto in Washington DC. As you all know, Washington DC was a predominately a black majority city and the White House was built by Africa Slaves.
America is a violent Country indeed, the police are violent, the government is violent and so the people. Everyone is trying to have more guns and ammunition to protect themselves and this is also is enshrined in the America constitution (The right To Bear Arms)
America has the Highest Prison population and the Highest Number of Homeless population in the world.
I say to people, Forget about what you see in those musical videos and Hollywood movies, that is not the real America. The real America, might make you surprise and ask yourself, IS THIS AMERICA THAT I WAS DREAMING ABOUT?
Yes, This brother is right on point about the West. There is rampant Child and sex trafficking in America and Europe. East European women are been trafficked from some of those East European countries and ship to places like Israel to work as sex slaves. Israel is very big on this. And the same goes in America.
There is Huge black market sale for illegal Human organ Trafficking both in the Middle East and America. YOU AFRICAN SISTERS STOP ACCEPTING THOSE FAKE JOBS PROMISES THAT THEY PROMISE YOU IN THE MIDDLE EAST. THAT IS A HUGE TRAP. YOU ARE JUST GOING TO BE SEX SLAVES FOR THESE RACIST PEOPLE IN THE MIDDLE EAST. They would take your passport from you and now you have no where to go but a their sex slave.
Go on YOUTUBE and search "Illegal Organ trafficking" You would be surprise to the see the people who are involve in this this illegal trade. Some you worship these people, especially you black Christians you say "they are God's chosen people" Yeah, Keep dreaming with that nonsense. You are God's Chosen people too, you just don't want accept it.
The only fortunate thing with the Wife is, Canada have very good Social Programs, it actual very good place to raise a family. Also Single women in Canada get a lot help financially from the Government. They can get subsides Government Housing, Free Health care and other social programs. Education in Canada is also less expensive compare to the United States.
However I am worried for the Children growing up with a Single Mother. Too many African parents have lost their Children in the streets, through crimes, gangs, drugs and others.
If the Father is around, I know he might be able to help and disciplining those children and help them go through school.
Canad also have challenges in the Job Market regardless of your Educational level if you are some of African descent. There is too much Job discrimination in the hiring process for black people .
There are brothers with masters degrees still cannot get jobs in their field of study, they have to became Tax drivers.
Some have to move to United States. If you are a black male it's even becomes harder.
I know many fellow Nurses who are so stressed out even a small smile you can’t see on their face. Most have been so hardened as women due to lifting the heavy loads all the time. This situation is similar to mine but I am moving back.
you can have a canadian citizen but still they wont accept u as citizen
canada is not a good place at all it sucks
Bro, your talk is kinda addictive. I discovered your channel last night and I've been watching since. I beg make you no make me forget say I get plenty duty for house oooh.
Had I had what that guy had in Ogun State , I would have never left Lagos to Paris. After my second university degree (business management) , I tried to start a business in Nigeria. Alas I couldn't raise any money, my family din't have any. When I had opportunity for a visa to France, I didn't hesitate. But here, whatever certificates you got out of Western Europe are overlooked. My African university degrees (I've got two) are not acknowledged. I had to pick pick grapes to pay the bills, worked security, washed dishes at restaurants, and cooked while enrolling again here in yet another university, since only a certificate from here can get you a decent job. Everything the man in your story said about Canada can be applied to France: the cold, the loneliness, the lack of human warmth and social life.
I live in Paris, but I can easily go a couple of years and more without seeing face to face with friends living in the same city: busy schedules that do not align, stress, stress, stress. Life in France is not 'en rose' at all.