The reason why there is alot of divorces in South Africa | Bakhe Dlamini
The reason why there is alot of divorces in South Africa | Bakhe Dlamini
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I will save you 46min of watching the video.
reason is feminism.
What a beautiful and spot on episode. Very powerful and factual. Big up !!!
Is this the Wish version of @TheDiaryOfACEO?
Powerful and profound
I love this this picts I wish it could reach everyone ❤❤🎉
Divorces are happening because marriage is a patriarchal institution and the men no longer have control over women like before to do as patriarchy allows them and still keep their wife. Women have evolved with the economic times but men still want to maintain traditional gender roles while having none of the economic power and it’s just not worth it for a lot of women. Women are literally raised to want marriage and when they get it it’s just lots of labour that they don’t want to do anymore.
Part 2 please
This man is rich in terms of knowledge I wish this young generation can learn from him.
Poverty the biggest enemy of marriage.
Shut up as a woman my foot, most women have reasons to not “shut up" fyi🙄🤦
Am divorced 😢but getting married again 😊
Thank you for sharing this conversation, I'm a single male but I still took alot from this conversation 💯
This is such constructive and building content.
We need more men like him to mentor and help change the narrative and model what a good marriage should be.
He uses bible principles to teach us.
This is giving "Diary of a CEO"
This has been an eye opener and it gave one an opportunity to reflect on our behaviour and how these affect our partner and vise versa. Brilliant
Exactly ❤
Why get married in the first place!!!🤦♂️
Mmmm❤power
More marriages would be way more successful if men pulled themselves together. Tbh, a lot of these men do want to be married (for status) but still want to act like single and act like horny teenage boys, it’s pathetic.
The reason why the divorce rates are rising it because of feminist movement, which tell women you don't need a man and more women are graduating in high numbers than man which means more women are earning more than man in nowadays and women are hypergamy so will fill a divorce as soon as they feel like the above the man they are married to.
Another reason, is that women are sexually liberated, the is no shaming of bad behavior of our youth, so how can you be monogamy if have sleeping around, LOL you are not going to switch it off just like that.
For those women who says we're not helping with home work like cleaning, cooking etc, next time when we have a roof, water leak or burglar you go n take care of that 50/50😉
Divorces: don't forget the legal side that changed reasons acceptable for divorce. They promote divorce, because that is their biggest and easiest way of milking the bank balances. Get married because you can just divorce again. Don't worry about the damage that has no end………… Think wizely and with a clear logical mind which is a gift from God. Listen to your parents' advice – they have more experience and take it into advisement. If there is one checkbox that is uncertain …….. wait. If it does not clear up, …………….. be wize
Men are selfish, hence it's no longer serving women interest submitting to someone who dnt care abt ur needs will never understand your pain
…im not South African, but I see this across Africa, thanks gents, even I'm learning from this
I have been divorced for 5 years because of my ex-husband cheated like nobodies business. What this man is saying is spot-on. I pray this man's message reaches the younger generation.
This guy is good
I'm a young man, recently cohabitated with My gf for about 6 months.. worst mistake I've ever made but an eye opener also. I learned a lot nd I would suggest as a man who's introverted and appreciates their own space and peace of mind.. b4 marriage try cohabitating with ur partner and come and tell me if marriage is still ur thing.
…..great points and exposure
Problem 1, woman do not know what they want.
Just like eve in the garden, now they are 2 scared to make a decision.
Problem 2, Money!
Problem 3, Loyalty! When you are married you are spiritually & physically inclined to your partner, no1 else. Eish
Problem 4, Uyajola 9/9😂😂😂😂
THIS GUY IS LYING ABOUT NUMBERS. THE NUMBERS DON'T LOOK LIKE THAT
Why there are so many divorces is because people don't know they have an option to not get married. People are obsessed with getting married. We treat unmarried people like there is something wrong with them. So loners end up getting married. These are people who are supposed to be alone, given their history, personality, family & genetics.
Worse, people believe in working on careers, education, looks etc. But, they don't beleive in working on relationships. "Things should come easy" "You're so easy to love".