The PLIGHT of SINGLE SUCCESSFUL BLACK WOMEN – Independence, Gender War, Loneliness

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The PLIGHT of SINGLE SUCCESSFUL BLACK WOMEN – Independence, Gender War, Loneliness


Many Black women think they will never get married. However, this couldn’t be further than the truth. It’s really “Uber Successful” women that struggle, not women who are educated and doing well. It’s the ones who are living at a much higher level. The Uber Successful fool Black women into thinking that all women who make a certain amount…

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  1. Enough is enough, you CHOSE your "Plight" & now you want pity? Maybe no. Put on your big girl panties & just deal with the consequences of your actions. You need to redefine success if you actually want to be happy. Put down your power & control issues. You spent so many years emasculating men & now you want them to change on a dime for your own comfort and convivence to adapt to your agendas again? I think maybe you need a paradigm shift.

  2. As a “ black@ woman and half Cheyenne, I’m wondering how us black women became this way. I think because, we were so put down at every turn, by all races. We couldn’t depend on anyone but ourselves. We understood we didn’t have the privilege like other races. We had to fight to survive. Born November 71. We couldn’t relax. Men we out running around. I was raised by a preacher and career man.my patents divorced as a teen. Just found out 2 months ago, he was having full blown sex with my sister and wanted to sex me up. My sister protected me. She died in 2021. She had so many health problems. Went with a broke ass baby daddy. She died from too much trauma. SMH

  3. Plain and simple . If you’re rich woman your dating pool is extremely slim. Because, women want the best at your economic letter preferably much more , and never satisfied. I’m female. lol On top of that not overtaking the masculine role in relationships. Men rather date a woman from McDonald’s and wife her up, than dealing with this.

  4. Keep 'Ebony' with the bad attitude & mega millions. We'll take the 'Eboo-ney with the 'hoid' attitude.A better value! And Less headaches 😃 The bus driver checking in.

  5. They have all the access in the world to the men that meet their salary expectations. The fact that those men find none of these women desirable is telling😂

  6. This guy is a snake. He's trying to 'speak French' as we say in French Creole. Pay attention to how he words things. He is basically saying women who are making $100,000 aren't high level. This is manipulative. He nicely tries to kick down your self esteem.

  7. Their is NO "PLIGHT". BW now worship MONEY over GOD, Marriage, and Pro-Husband/Family Dynasty-Legacy.

    I definitely endorse the Red Pill/"Soft Guy Era" in AMERIKA: Women need to PAY a MAN to be their boyfriend/live-in lover/husband, or MEN should be MGTOW and Manosphere, OR be PASSPORT BROS and find FEMININE (Not Feminist), Cooperative, pro-Family/Husband, Family Dynasty-Legacy.

    AMERICAN Women are rock bottom GLOBALLY for WIVES, and they need to know that. MEN can get Feminine, Pleasant, Cooperative wives from anywhere outside of America, AMERICAN Women can not 999/1000x get a Husband who wants AMERICAN Feminist-tainted women. AMERICAN Women need to come to the table ready to assume 100% of household management, LOVE to cook, plus PAY a MAN to be THEIR Man, or do not sit down at any man's table ~ Drizzle Drizzle ~

  8. My mother was born in 1953. She worked two jobs, was a wife for 44 years, and made dinner every single night. These women always refer to some mythical time where women did nothing and got everything for free

  9. Let’s cut the crap 💩. Good women are tried of being messed over by so called good men. Leaving them for a younger woman and once the good woman help them build then leave them. People stop co-signing the Bs. Men that get over on women is what makes this world go around. Call out the dysfunction in your gender and stop upholding people in their wrongness. Red flags 🚩 on the play. Men having sex with women without marring them. Killing women every 5 hours. Men pediflirs taking virginity at ages 13 and younger. Let’s talk about the real reason people don’t want to be tied down to the Bs.

  10. Being a 304, argumentative & just an overall unpleasant person to be around, is a byproduct of poor rearing. They blame everything: social media, dating apps, etc on WHY they are such undesirable & unpleasant females to be around.

  11. 8:23 Wait, 250k is rich?
    12:50 Respectfully, black women in particular has been taught to date down and not worry about a man’s income. How does he treat you? What else does he bring to the table? Etc etc. other race and ethnicities first look for provider status i.e they are taught to be hypergamous. These same black men that are not equals regarding socioeconomics, then become abusive, mentally and sometimes physically to their successful partner. This is driven by ego. Men are threatened by women who are not “in need” of them, but “wants” them. A successful woman doesn’t HAVE TO be tethered to a man for their survival.

    This conversation extends to working class also. The problem in the black community is that we in general have relaxed the natural order of hypergamy that all other groups practice for their women. No matter if you make 100k or 50k. As long as you are able to care for yourself you will be a threat to most black men who have issues with their ego.

  12. If you have to make a million dollars to date her then you ain't supposed to have her. If you a man and make a million dollars you have better options than Eboni K Williams or Melissa Ford. I mean there are nurses that look better than they do, and have a better personality.

    I think if my money has to be on the table and the deciding factor then I aint supposed to have you. I think they should just say that they want to make love to a debit card attached to a million dollar bank account or a credit card with no limit. If its about the money then that is cool, but i'll just treat you like a whore, but if its about me and you then i'll treat you like a woman.

    Also that goes for any woman no matter the race or ethnicity.

  13. This is the first time women insert thing. I have a counter this is the first time we had so many single mothers this is the first time women’s anti depressant use is so high. This is the first time so many women have no kids. Y’all can talk about all these firsts but there’s way more negative firsts than positive ones I’d argue

  14. It's a self imposed plight. If you're in the highest percentile of earners you have to accept that most of your potential partners will not be just like wealthy men have always done.

  15. All in all a woman making all that money tend not to matter in a average man who make money with his nine to 5 jobs doesn’t care about her especially if her wife mindset is not coming through to the guys..let’s of talking but the higher power knew the reason why a wife stays in the home to help raise the kids..He built us guys..money is importance but it’s not the end we all needs each others ..good content bro 👊🏾

  16. I agree with you on many points. One interesting thought I had when you said alpha men look for a woman that is not as ambitious as him, but also must fit into his social level (middle class vs hood as I believe you described). That combo is just as conflicting as when women look for chill men but want them to be ambitious. Timing is issue here too. Since people are no longer getting married at 18, women are forced to move in an ambitious way t if from a middle class family in order to take care of herself waiting for the right man. So ambition is forced on women, even if they didnt naturaly want it.

  17. Great convo. The issue is having like values and actually being likable and fun. We are not a monolith, each person knows what works for them. The shaming of both men and women must stop. Blk women should definitely date out as we are respected globally.