Black Women Need To Rethink THIS To Get Married
Black Women Need To Rethink THIS To Get Married
▶︎ 𝙇𝙄𝙆𝙀, 𝘾𝙊𝙈𝙈𝙀𝙉𝙏, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙎𝙐𝘽𝙎𝘾𝙍𝙄𝘽𝙀 𝙏𝙊 𝙊𝙐𝙍 𝘾𝙃𝘼𝙉𝙉𝙀𝙇!
Black Women Need To Rethink THIS To Get Married
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This guy makes my skin crawl !!!!!!!!!!
Wait a minute hold up didn't Kevin Samuels say this already multiple times from his platform?
Most women in college are hooking up excessively & we act like that’s not what disqualifies them from marriage. I’m not marrying a 304, no chance.
I MET MY WHITE HUSBAND IN UNIVERSITY!!
MY STRICT IMMIGRANT FATHER DIDN'T PLAY.
I hear it, but these men have to want to marry. Too many of them are, and us are literally afraid of marriage, and married people do not make marriage sound or look desirable. Not because it's not honorable but because it's work. If the men are taught only to have sexual conquest and women are taught only to be sexual conquest, let's be real on what the state of marriage is. I can say that with married parents. Married parents are the ones telling you to wait for this event and that event. My dad still doesn't like that my sister got married. She got married at 35. Her husband was 36.
Dont worry, successful black women will find a white man
Religion is too serious to compromise on. How a man relates to God will directly influence the way he loves you and your children. Check his walk not a box.
Get your passports fellas 😅😂
If you can say snow bunny and laugh, can I say jungle bunny and you will laugh? Hypocrites and racist.
Ladies, go over seas for love. Don't focus on those that live on this soil
I agree on getting married early. My sister and I both got married in our 20s. I disagree on being unequally yoked for women of Christian faith. Jesus comes first. Pray for your husband, and trust in Jesus. The Bible says not to be unequally yoked. Man is the spiritual head of the household. You cannot thrive if you do not have the same goals.
My sister has been married for 35 years. I have been married for 20 years. We both thank God we share our love for Jesus with our husband's. Men who truly love Jesus will take the role of husband seriously. He puts God first. He has peace in his heart when life happens in ways not expected. He supports you, is trust worthy, and prays with you and trusts in Jesus to lead you through. He has self-control, and will not choose unhealthy things or vices.
Godly man who loves Jesus will teach his children the values of the Bible. A man who truly loves Jesus will be gentle and does not raise his voice. He teaches with patience to the kids.
I know many people who married men who did not share their religion and are now divorced.
EVERY woman I know who married a man who loves Jesus (not a fake Christian, but reads the word and follows it), are still married 20-30 years later and our kids love Jesus and are top in school and thriving.
What I suggest is to be married for st least 2 years before having kids. Build a strong foundation before having kids.
Build a life together. I agree he does not need to have his career set, but he does need to know where he is going and have the work ethic to achieve it, and you wife do too.
But first, comes foundation in Jesus.
I personally know over 30 black women from in their 30s to 70s in my circle of friends and family who are still happily married after 10, 20, 30, 40, 50 years…with healthy happy children. They are all married couples who put Jesu s first. Everyone else is either still single or divorced …put themselves first or had different religions or no religion.
Black men who love Jesus exist, pray and be true to Jesus. Don't settle for less than a Godly man who loves you.
Ive literally given up tbh …getting msrried or not , am done
That second "Religious differences" is some poo.
We put off family because black men aren’t leading the household. We want safety. It’s not about religion it’s about your behavior men. When you stop glorifying the gang life and be more responsible then we can talk.
😂 Forget about it; there's too much subcultural disconnect, with various external factors taking a toll, to even consider matrimony. These variables are affecting all demographics, thanks to technology and the cultural zeitgeist. Build your resources, pursue like-minded counterparts of the opposite gender, and shelter yourself from the chaos, letting God handle the rest. Involving the state in any capacity is akin to a sitting duck situation, especially when you can't predict how your partner's psychology might shift due to external influences. Men should hedge their bets, allowing those who fit into their systems vetted entry and seamless exit, all while not spreading themselves too thin and ensuring the children are properly prepared for their individual life journeys, as it's only going to get more chaotic with time. Just remember, peace and balance are the mission. 🙏
Don't ever take advice from a man wearing a red suit. Unless you want to end up in Hell.
🤔 Nope. Ladies, finish your schooling first and marry a God fearing man. Thats coming from a brother who has 3 sisters who all achieved success after getting their Doctorates and Law Degrees. They are all married with children to good men. You sisters out there be sure to be self sufficient and pray that God will send you the right 1 when the time is right. Also, avoid Godless men.
I rather see Black men investing in ambitious hard working brothers to create more successful Black men for Black women to marry. I don't like the idea of looking to women to build men up. Men need to look to other successful men to help them, not women.
He said some good things in this interview but never settle with being unequally yoked and lastly, let God choose your spouse. Do your best and He’ll do the rest. Kay Kuzma has a book that has everything you need to know about finding a life partner. It’s called “Serious about Love”
Can get a Degree! but can't get a Marriage License!.
A man who is seriously working on himself is not a dusty. That is so offensive to call those men "dusty". We know what type of "dusty" men women go after. They are not even closely the same type of men.
You have best options in college or after college, it goes down hill afterwards. Guys don't care about woman's education. Every other race understand this but black people.
Equally YOKED OR FACE DIVORCE… don’t listen to anyone’s advice about your life.
It’s coming from their perspective not yours, so if it doesn’t line up with the scriptures in the Bible, don’t follow them!
Why are we worried about someone else’s business? Do what you want. I would never marry a Muslim!!! NEVER
Long story short, y'all have been GODLESS far too long, especially the Christians, Muslims and their offsprings. GOD IS LOVE is the most LITERAL notion EVER uttered, but now Love is only a commonly use "Word". When today's men feel overwhelmed by REAL Love it causes relations violence or worst.
wrong marry a white man https://www.youtube.com/shorts/_mNEu1sAjrY
How is a BM with a struggling, young business or in his senior year of college a bum?
1). I think waiting until the end of college is fine. You finish around 22. You're still a child. Now, when you wait until the end of long grad school…yes, the pressure builds. 2). Naw. Stay in same religion. 3). Don't settle for bums.