I have the right to demand Monthly Allowance from my Children in Diaspora
I have the right to demand Monthly Allowance from my Children in Diaspora
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Very well done take on this issue. Another problem I see is the lack of understanding of how money earned (by the family member in diaspora) is to be budgeted. Mortgage/rent, homeowner’s insurance, property taxes, electricity bill, maybe gas bill, water bill, phone bill, internet, maybe car payment, car insurance, day care( if you have kids, this is very expensive), and the multitude of other things that require you spend money.
There are so many bills one has to pay to lead the normal life of a grown up professional, no matter how frugal you may be. After paying all these bills and then saving, what’s left?
So to those back in whatever African country, please realize that if someone says they are earning $xxxx per month, there’s not too much left over to start handing out money to those asking for it.
Just a suggestion Phrankleen, maybe you can do a video, using real numbers from the profile of a nurse for example to break down earnings and expenses for a typical month.
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I would move heaven for my parents. I was blessed with good parents that didn't have much but gave me the best they had to offer and I will always be grateful for that because there are alot of bad parents out here.
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I never asked my children to pay me rent or any money, I made my own money, plans for my old age etc.. if they do give me money fine.. no pressure on them, actually, I still help them financially… it’s disgraceful putting pressure on your children, driving them into yahoos or illicit business..
Only an African parents gave birth to children because they wanted them to look after them in their old age, which was seriously wrong
You gave birth to children because you wanted to see your own pictures, your children are your mirrors, and not your source of income, they have their own lives to live as well..
I’m sharing this with my family. Thank you a bunch. Let’s raise our voices and tell our African parents and other family members that children are not commodities. It annoys me so much even now as a parent. If your intention of having kids is so that they buy you a house and expensive cars, your intention is very wrong. I know how much I do for my child. Everything I do for my child is for him. I want him to be comfortable in life and it’s my responsibility to provide him with basics , such as food, shelter, health care, clothes, education, and a safe environment for him to thrive. If I can’t do that, then I have failed. However, it won’t make me a failure. It just means the opportunity for me to perform my parental duty as well as I should is not there. We, your children, are never going to forget you, our parents. However, you still need to understand that if we could give you more, we would. Please show some compassion and love toward your children of all ages.
Some parents see their children as their life insurance as they age in years. Very common mentality among the African community.
This kind of mentality drives me nuts!
Parents , we should understand – & d children wl SPOIL us at Old Age that is Our Joy
That's a greedy and selfish father. Parents like this quickly forget that their children are going through the same struggles they went through while raising their children. Nowadays, a raising children and managing a family is even more challenging and complex than before.
Father feeling entitled, and parent betting their retirement on their child making it in life is crazy. What if the kid ends up poor, So sick they cannot work or even dead, then what Dad, then what will you do. Your kid did not sign up to being your retirement package.
Pounded to dust🤣🤣🤣
The entitlement is appalling!
God bless you, you're my man any day.Thanks for saying it as it is. They are tax masters.
Parents are supposed to leave their children an inheritance of some sort
Oduduwa nation is what you should be the issue now.
This is so sad with some of our African Brothers and what they have to undergo to support their Families back Home.
this is a common trend Going on in third world countries, I know of Latin and Caribbean families depending on one sole family member while the rest lazy around doing nothing, it's disgusting! why should someone living in the diasporas sacrifice themselves to make money to spend half of her or his paycheck to help the families while they instead of helping alleviate that person's burden by finding jobs themselves sit at home complaining doing nothing! and the worse cases are the parents who actually think that because they raise the child, the child should provide for them when they grow old! the nerves! these people need to realize that just because we are family it's not our duty to sacrifice ourselves so that they can have a lavish lifestyle! my mom worked her entire life, she has her own pension, she already told me that when she gets older I send her to a retiring home, I told her that I would take care of her, she rejected my offer, she said she doesn't want to be a burden, but I will do it anyway, I am about to start my business in Africa, ones my business start making money I will build a house for her on my island with everything she needs and also pay a nurse to take care of her! why I do that for her? because she worked her butt off to raise me!
HE IS LAZY AND SELFISH, THEY KIDS THEY DID NOT ASK HIM TO BRING THEM TO THIS WORLD, IT WAS HIS RESPONSIBILITY TO MAKE SURE THEY ARE GROWN UP BECAUSE HE BROUGHT THEM ON EARTH
Why do Nigerian parents like to behave like politicians