I played Diasporan God for 23 years and this happened
I played Diasporan God for 23 years and this happened
I played Diasporan God for 23 years and this happened is a YouTube live stream about the life of a 69 year old gentleman who spent his youth splashing his money to relatives back home who later disregarded and ignored him after a ghastly car accident. A nice one to enjoy and share 🙂
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I love that you are a man in the fullest sense.. not superficially.. not nominally.. and yes a wife will organically meet expectations. Bless your union. Some of these same men beating their chest about respect and submission absolutely WILT in the presence of perceived authorities. It’s pathetic.
The only time you help someone is when you see them helping themselves.
Lets look after our parent like buying them basic needs tats all not to buy land no no
Its me i live in diaspora you see my clothes u will think am not working 😭😭😭😭
I played God for 4 years i have stopped now time to look after me and my family
I love you sir 😂❤
Still relevant in 2024 xx
Yes the hospital and medical bills too ! Or they threatened you not to come back home ! JA too from the UK
Thank u ! Soooooo very much! I stopped after c19 ! So I’m free to give my children and grandchildren and great grandchildren! Which I was unable do before ! My thinking abilities kicked in to save myself from it all !!!! Well done to u !!!
This video helped me make my decision. Im done sending money to these ungrateful people.
I understand, so well.
Thanks for this post. Life lesson. Heart felt
https://youtu.be/LYvh1q_vn2c
Phrankleen thank you once again.
I see my family has been conditioned to take, take, take. Even the ones who are getting paid well do not care to help each other. I am focused on myself from now on! I have seen the light, I deleted my Whats App.
If you can, give , if you can't, don't give!!! Do unto others as you wants others do unto you.
Hi Prankleen. Please can you stop blocking people, even thought they might have contrary opinions, yyou said we should comment. I saw a lot of comments here that I wanted to respond to, but you have deleted and blocked them. I have been searching for any comments from these people or similar comments, but they are all gone. Boring if everyone here says "yes, sir".
This thing about elder,I can't accept it. My mum visited me sometime back, she was expecting me to do everything for her.cooking, cleaning,etc,i told her, that if she is expecting me to be her maid, she should leave.
I have listened to this many times. And I would never get tired of listening.
Thanks
Great perspective Phrankleen. You are absolutely right about some of these issues. However, not everyone should apply your recommendations or feel pressured to take your advise hook, line and sinker. The application can be different per person and still achieve the same result. Some will be frank and bullish like you while others can be more systemic and calculative. We are wired differently. A person who has lived long enough knows that life is not black and white – it is a gradient. So, we also must learn to apply dynamic methods depending on the season. Ultimately, wisdom is profitable to direct. Cheers man.
Bro thanks for this I'm really grateful I thought I was being wicked and selfish coz the way my mum and siblings makes me feel when I say no and stand on my decisions especially when it comes to finical aspects they'll be like what I'm giving is not enough forgetting I have my own issues to solve too
ahahahaha, family gan gan ni yahoo..
ahahahahah, why do you need to know?
The egotistical mind of the average Africa keeps him from being discrete with his wealth and ensures that he attracts a barrage of flies.
Hi Phrankleen,
I totally agree with you it's a SERIOUS problem in Afrika.
NHYIRA AMA
I had to shut off a friend of mine. He said he wanted a phone. I was going to get him one. I fell out of my chair after seeing his next text…can you send me the latest iPhone …
Oo my brother
I have found that when you do good for people , don't expect anything good back from them that you help. I know that the good I do will forward to my children 100 fold. It is painful when you look back I don't dwell on it., But I know payback, payback will manifest on earth
It is usually the case of we Africans ,we forgot our benefactors so soon in life
. …..toxic culture….you are right….
Hi phrankleen, this is a good topic, my thing is, our true emancipation must start from us using our own language in telling our story, as little as Ukrainian is or Norway , even Ethiopia, they have their own organic means of communicating among themselves , we must encouraging a system that must using our indigenous languages to reach our kids, it’s a process that wil take close 100yrs but it can start anytime, I believe our lack of critical thinking is down to the fact that we are desperately trying to transform ourselves to reason in a foreign manner
Thanks for this eye opener
I did exactly that set boundaries with my family against my own nuclear family and they get the gist. Sentiment and all that are thrown out of the window for me that I don't that I don't talk to my dad. My dad is another story trying to turn me to an atm. Emotional black mail,I dont just pick the call simple. But I go to naija and network without anyone knowing my movement.
Sometimes you just have to practice saying no to people. After a while it gets easier. People should value you not just for what you provide. I know from experience. I will say I have a good family except my soon to be ex husband .
Great episode Phrankleen. Very heart touching story but great lessons to learn. Keep up the good work bro
100% verified! Thanks Phrankleen.
I just discovered your channel and am addicted; I think you should ask for permission to put these stories in a book; you're such a prolific narrator, and I firmly believe many of us in the diaspora need to listen to these stories for conscious awakening. Keep up the great work, brother🙏, I appreciate you
Am not 💯% in support of this. I get the point and understand where you draw your ideology. I am a diasporan myself. What I have come to understand is most diasporans put themselves in these situations. You are not sent abroad to take responsibility of your family back home but to lead or SUPPORT them. SUPPORT is the watch word here. Without you they will survive, but most diasporans want to present themselves as gods and be there for everyone and everything, they want control and influence to be honest. Personally I only get involve in emergencies or necessities. I can’t be responsible for anyone but I can be there for them if I feel they need my assistance
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This was fire.. thank you for this.. 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Boss, you should write a book
Watching from Florida.keep these videos coming
My hand is shaking please I can't type please let his kids forgive him for everything please am tried of crying I need to off my phone and rest .