He sends home £600 monthly and am asked to be thankful for being brought to the UK
He sends home £600 monthly and am asked to be thankful for being brought to the UK
He sends home £600 monthly and am asked to be thankful for being brought to the UK is the story of a Uk based Nigerian Couple who have on going problems regarding excessive amount of monthly remittance which is adversely affecting children and family unit within the UK. this is an interesting live stream which you should share with others.
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Great teaching
They call it black tax here in South africa.
#Phrankleen, trust me you are helping a lot of us in the diaspora, not only Nigerians, but Jamaicans too. We go through the same emotional guilt attacks from families no matter how much you help. It's just never enough for them. I got sick and realized they don't really care about me as I thought they did, so I learn to stopped enabling them to hurt me more financially.
Box apartment. That killed me
Unless a person asks you for money with a definite business plan don't give handouts
God bless you it has been very educative for me
Yes, that's my case he likes the balls like u said very pathetic
100% correct, emotional conditioning n blackmail, this exactly 💯 👌 correct n my case nw gradually planning my exit from the marriage some African parents n family are something else, even to buy oil to cook they will call is that bad despite wat they get.
I think the dude is being dishonest, I dare say he's investing back home with his family without opening up to his wife. Sad
Even in the bible the Lord said you will leave your mother and father and the 2 will become 1 this means you have to take care of each other bcos your are each other family now
I dont say not to give to your parents but it must not be at your own determent bcos if no one has traveled abroad how would they live
My mother tried the same but when i send a copy of my income and my expenses without feeding money in it she never again demant anything
African spirituality!! I hope people are listening, people be acting like it’s none existent . The sad thing about IFA is that people are taking advantage of peoples desperate situation, very sad sha. As a second generation immigrant I’ve seen this on both sides with my parents. I’ve already told my moms side they ain’t getting a dime from me (she catered to them for 25yrs, only allowance now is for my grandfather). My dad gave himself to his family only to find out his own elder sister has been gunning for his inheritance and his life ( my younger brother now since he’s next to inherit). They are the reason why my parents couldn’t have a peaceful marriage. For that alone they too will be cut of. I’m not the only grand child on my dads side that is abroad so unless the rest have a common dividend to pay I’m not involved. That said there are still genuine family members, to be honest most are longtime family friends that never ask for anything. You have to fend for yourself first. If you have managed to avoid being caught up then never get involved. Same for marrying from back home. If the set back will be too much find a spouse abroad. Advantageous marriages is not a bad thing. Think about you and your children futures! Don’t be caught up in the I must marry young train, those can crash as fast as they take off.
Ogbeni Phrankleen, Yoruba dun lenu e. I love it when you speak that beautiful language.
WOW… I'm getting married in a few weeks. My family is from the Caribbean but I was born in America my husband to be is from Nigeria. This is a topic that he and I have discussed several times. I wanted to get a clear understanding up front before we got married of what his family will expect of him and myself once he moves to America. I was very clear that I have no problem with helping his mother because his father is late. I also believe that you should take care of your parents if you're financially able to. I will not take care of grown people who are able to do for themselves. I don't mind sending something every once in awhile for his siblings but it will not be every month. My husband to be understands and agree with me. I don't think it's fair that family will put all of the burden on one person's shoulders to Bear alone when it comes to finances. Why should the person who has more money in the family sacrifice so much to where they can't live the type of Life they desire to live because they're too busy working to help other people in the family who feel entitled to someone else's money that they didn't work for. It's definitely not right.
Thanks for your channel.
My man, good job, love watching your YouTube video. You said it all
Bro Bro, I only just discovered your channel last night. You make too much sense. I have made a lot of enemies in Nigeria because I stopped been Father Xmas. What I do now is get them to do something for me and I will pay them for it.
Family is great when you are giving, stop giving and see what happens
Oh wow.. totally resonates!!! You are wise Phrankleen!!!! Food for thought………
I can hear some of your videos like a year after you’ve made then and they’ll always be relevant . I think this applies even to give money to your parents who also are in the diaspora but haven’t done well
The topic was interesting.
But the lady should please not leave the marriage. I know that it's not easy.
But she should see the man as the cross that she had to bear.
It might actually not be the man's fault.
Who will be doing all this jobs that we are doing here& would not want to have something to point to.
He is in a bondage.
With time God would reset his brains & deliver him.
Please don't go.
God would bless you with a good Job that would take care of you & your children.
His eyes would open one day
May God bless you
Phrankleen you are right.. people in diaspora like the praise..it makes them feel good, increase their ego..their broke abroad but whenever they travel home, they worship them. Simple n period..
The depth of low self worth 🤷♀️
Dis happens to everyone tht travel out of Nigeria. Once u tell them u dont have. They become ur enemy. The things u did before dont even matter. They need u to help them but wen u need them to help u they charge u . it sad. This year is a new year fr me n if u r out there and still doin dis. Its a waste of time n energy. Wen i was younger i almost had a heart attack from doing dis.
Brother, all I can say is GOD BLESS YOU.
Sometimes our parents are enablers too, it's crazy. This doesn't apply to people in diaspora alone, its the same way they see folks who work in Lagos, lol