Why do Diaspora African Women lack cultural identity ?

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Why do Diaspora African Women lack cultural identity ?


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  1. You can have both in terms of language-
    Cause a lot Asians the parents, grandparents might barely speak any English but the children speak perfect English and also speak their native tongue-

  2. I have been in canada for years and till now I still can't find one of my tribes person to be friends with. There are many of them,but they don't want to come together nor come close to each other. I can't blame them,after seeing betrayal from our own,many of us come here to stay far from each other. But we must stop that mindset,we are basically wiping our culture and identity out.

  3. Thank GOD for this program,say it as it is! We all need to change including me,it so unfortunate about us all. The compition the greed, living a lie,liying to one another pushing men out of the house to aquire wealth,ect. And all the women and men seam now to look like the same,but no! There're still the good ones.Really really sad. Thanks for the truth. And the end of every thing is what matters. Not everyone would love this though.

  4. It's sad to see africans in diaspora losing the good parts of their culture where women respect their men and men take care of their kids and wives like their lives depend on it. I remember growing up in Africa surrounded by very strong women, who uplifted their families, not by how loud they shouted at their men but by their patience, dedication, love and hardwork. Many of these women had very basic education but raised their kids to be educated to the highest levels. Some endured a lot under difficult to please husbands who many times eventually came around themselves to appreciate their women for their steadfastness. Strong African women are respected and upheld by their children, relatives and husbands because they are recognised as the backbone of the home and community. Now Westernised ladies, choose to escalate marital issues using tit for tat mentality. Some forget they are married and engage in extra marital affairs, then kick out the man and eventually cut off all ties with their shamed relatives or any friends who don't support their promiscuity. It is madness for a woman or man to consciously destroy their own home because they believe they will get or deserve someone better.

  5. (I'll try this again because the (lengthy) comment from the other day is nowhere to be found.) So, in summary: The gist of the message was about the attack on the Divine feminine, i.e., the true female spirit and all the deceptive things that have been done to steal the public's perception away from the true woman. Your topic about lack of identity in diaspora women is a direct result of this attack. There are many layers to this (as you may know). When the imitation is held up as real and the real destroyed (in various ways), there has to be manifestations of this deception in Afrikan individuals, homes and community worldwide. And the final outcome is the destruction of the black community. There's no separation of any of it.

  6. Hi Phrankleem,
    First and foremost, thanks a million for the excellent content once more and the hard work you put into this.
    We have a big issue back home in some African countries that I think contributes to the personal and cultural identification problem. African history is not part of the syllabus in many schools. Instead, these kids know all about European history, the partition of Poland etc. It is really difficult to identify yourself with a culture/country that you know nothing about. African history needs to be thought from day one. Kids need to grow up knowing much about their heroes. I am not talking about footballers or musicians. Nothing against Footballers and musicians, but Kids need to know about other role models, Nelson Mandela plus others that fought for our independence in their respective countries. This is not the silver bullet for our problems, but just a start in the right direction. Please keep up with the quality content and just ignore the negativity from some subscribers. Nobody is flawless, but I think you are trying your best to provide us with quality stuff. We are learning a lot from you.

  7. Many are broken in the African black community, henceforth it seems both male & females always looking for ways to get at each other.
    The African continent isn’t fair to women….
    The Western world isn’t fair to the African men in terms of laws.

  8. This is such a deep and important conversation that all black people, men and women need to sit down and listen and discuss, we seem soo lost, very sad

  9. Check out our sisters on youtube all they do is to teach other sisters om How to stand and fight thier husband. If men live the lifestyle women are living in Europe before they maried know of these women will maried to the man.

  10. You are on point with this. The African women here in the US are chasing after non blackmen to have mix kids. There are a bunch of single black mothers here with mix kids from men of every nation. One of these women was trying to hook up with me after wasting her prime years with an old white dude. I told her I'm not raising a racist man's kids. I often hear these type of women say the most vile things about us African men when they hook up with non African men. Some of these women sees their culture as an embarrassment. They strive to be as close to the white culture as possible. I'm taking my time finding the right African woman.

  11. Phrankleen we must do better.We Africans must do better .We cannot throw away our traditions.We African mothers in the diaspora have a responsibility to be better and to bring up a positive,close knit African family.

  12. The reasons you praised China are what we wandered away from to become worse off. Poverty. Failed government. Etc triggered the survival instinct in us. These factors go with us triggering the need to escape from the dilemma. Imagine you being somewhere but aware deep inside of you where you step from is a failed country, you will obviously become anything that appears to you as an escape. Don't blame White people, we are what we are as we have made ourselves to believe and understand.
    Ask those complaining on what basis do they find themselves with those spouse. I guess it's among this factors: big gender, long legs, wide chest etc. Not educated, brilliance etc. Do you know there cultures that are doing well despite being polygamous even in the west? Thus, why is the kind of family they deemed as a solution to having happy life yet find attaining that as impossible?

  13. @16:55 Have you considered women chase and desire the looks that they perceive the men want? So, if you see a sister Pursuing “White/Caucasian culture/looks 🤦🏿‍♀️then it is because they see our men chasing and wanting such. Sincerely asking because although I’m ADOS Black…. women are women like humans are humans so behaviors are consistent and parallel even though we’re brought up differently. #Louisiana is home ⚜️

  14. Phrankleen I blame Western Media and our lack of discipline in allowing it to EASILY infiltrate our minds.. We Blacks have fake pride in our culture and would love to Europeanize ourselves at drop of hat. Private African schools and a network is only way to combat all this. When our children esp. go into public schools it's a loss.

  15. I have also heard a woman telling the husband, please don't teach my children that cultural thing when they grow they will decide for themselves. I was like what!!!!, I am hearing you correctly. There is a problem.

    Keep telling us the truth, thanks for all you do.

  16. You are so correct Phrankleen, I had an issue were a lady I know was telling her children not to remove her husband plate from the table after food. This lady has been telling me how bad the husband is, when this incident happened I ask the boy why you refused to remove dad's plate, I was shocked when he said mum ask me not to. I fumed and ask her she was refusing and the child said mum you are lied, that's what you said. I was so shocked and embarrassed for even believing a word she said about the husband, this is supposed to be a do called Christian. I am confused with our community in the UK I tell you, the fakery and lies is unbelievable. I don't even know anymore.