5 Ways to Deal with a Selfish Partner // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 80
5 Ways to Deal with a Selfish Partner // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 80
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Nicely spoken..Great clear voice .seem a nice guy…interesting
You will never be able to reason with a person who is a drinker, they’re unhappy with themselves and what they’ve become and will project everything back onto you, they lose their ability to reason what is acceptable and what is not. Ppl addicted become lazy in relationships as they most often become in their own day to day life, they tend to nothing, nothing flourishes, but their addiction…they’re quite okay with just…existing.
Phrankleen, this is a red flag. He does not live her. He is not invested in the relationship. Men pride themselves in what they do for the woman he loves.
Goodnight Prank, I'm in the USA and areal appreciate your presentations although I'm a Jamaican.
19:40' when kids finaly grow up, not only they will say "but mother' you could have walk AWAY" all kids that eyewitness PARENTS fighting or disrespecting each other, etc… it DISTROYED them!!! And whole of trauma… 👁
Big bro- I appreciate you.
U on point
Lady run for your life because the very day he doesn't benefit from you again, he will start looking for a new victim. Be wise madam
i am cynical when it comes to money, on the account of being used in the past which is why i will not shack up with a non EU spouse, or put up with a free loading spouse she needs to have a serious talk what happens if she has his kid and can no longer work and is relying on him alot she needs to nip this in the bud and have it out with him
for me i will not put up with selfishness my mum was a mean arse and i will not tolerate that from a man, we are going to be fighting 24-7
Don't let us deceive ourselves ….. One thing that ladies adore the most in a relationship is SECURITY….the problem with some men is the inability to provide this SECURITY in a way that is SENSIBLE. A man that DRINKS or WOMANIZE or BET are always SELFISH with WOMEN in a relationship…. There is a Massive difference between SELFISHNESS (for personal gain) AND CUTTING COST (for group gain)….. CUTTING COST in a relationship simply means sharing the EXPENSES EQUALLY (50-50 no cheating) as well as the SAVINGS. There is no way a man will practice such principle with a lady and she will not adore you for the rest of her life… she will give you the best support that even the QUEEN OF ENGLAND CAN NOT OFFER. Consciously or Unconsciously, In a RELATIONSHIP Most Ladies just want to feel SAFE (this makes men to feel that women are selfish) and Most Men just want to be SELFISH ((this make women to feel that men are Safe), but balancing the EQUATION is the SOLUTION.
For a selfish partner, the fact that u can conveniently take care of urself in addition to he's needs, gives u enough previlage to run for your life..compared to when u solely depend on him..A selfish person is a selfish person, nothing does change them. Except u need war in ur life..
Omg that part got me laughing I don't want to loss that guy that have the size of a horse,, like is a gate way to heaven..well done & great points
Well said!!!
I have seen you grow your channel to a considerable amount of subscribers. Well done bro. I have just started a YouTube channel and I’ll love tips on how to grow channel especially to reach African viewership
Food for thought.Thank you
It’s amazing how African love fades away when it comes to money 💰 I call relationships business partnership now right from the jump . All them Hollywood love dont exist . Relationship with no compromise and tolerance is dead .
Those are red flags bra . By their fruits you shall no them .
Communication is so key! Sometimes partners internalise how they feel for fear of causing conflict but that is counter productive and only makes things worse. Speak your mind and say how the action which you feel is selfish has made you feel👍🏽👍🏽
Any thing you are not willing to tolerate during courtship will definitely get worse or will not change during marriage
The guy probably moved in with her so he can save his own money. kick the leech out!!!! or prepare your eyes to cry.
Quick Solution: How about just buying a little extra food just in case she/he ask?You may not be hungry or don't know what you want when the person ask until you smell the delightful aroma of the food then you just can't resist! I'm sure that some of us has had this experience one time or another-
This is African women behaviour
Can you communicate with creatures that have incoded in their DNA that using people is a commandment
An adult should take personal responsibility for their wellbeing. Anything you get from your partner or another person is a bonus.Since I got my first job I have not ask anyone or my partner for money or loan in over 10yrs. I live within my means, plan my finances very carefully as no one owes an adult anything. You are pretty much on your own.
Please Phrankleen, don’t bother yourself watching that Dyna video that was recommended to you.
There’s no relevant information there. It’s just all jargons & mental mentalities that we already know exist in the African community.
However, great informative video today.
Very relevant topic, and great points raised.
Some people cannot easily walk away because they believe in a bit of sacrifice for the marriage, and kind of hope that the partner will change some day soon. However of ur not married yet, and you have clearly identified these issues with your partner… then please walk awayyyyy; don't put yourself through all the problems in the future… It's not worth it. They will NOT change.
Again, your points in the video are spot on, and I agree.
My dear, sounds like you’ll be pulling most of the weight. You need a provider and someone that is selfless. Trust your intuition it’s usually right.
The women have already said what she is. Just the way she thing about money that money comes and go. And to the man most just be someone that like ordaliness an accountability.. Not doing things without planning
Hey women leave the relationship o
Both are co inhabiting l suppose
Are these couple married yes or no.
Great points. My motto is if the person does not change are you still cool with them? The mentality a lot of people have they can change someone, the thing is many people cannot even change themselves.