30 years old and still living with my parents – Diaspora Palaver
30 years old and still living with my parents – Diaspora Palaver
30 years old and still living with my parents – Diaspora Palaver
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In Africa is happening to much a parent house full of the whole family
I am.37 and still living with my parents, l have moved out and moved back home 🏡lol hopefully next time l.move out l.will be buying a property.
👏👏👏👏 perfect answer bro frankly no sensible father will allow that nonsense in his house
I would say 50 to old to live with your parents. Am 28 live with my parents so I will find out in 22 years time if living with them by 50
Look at that. Violent people finish first. Take a look at Jordan Peterson before becoming judgmental.
Many Europeans stay at home until married living large buying investments, boats, and other homes ect.. without shame. If we can take their language & culture why not take their economic financial traditions too FYI we can have inheritance too if we would buy life insurance $50 a month can give our children 150k when we die and we can buy multiple life policies like Europeans..
Different people different folk.Blacks are not white and its wrong to compare the two races assetwise knowing fully well circumstances they are living including yourself in the western countries.Helping your parents is not a bad deal and how will you wish to see your parents suffering and youre in the position to help,why not.If you have or had a well to do parents others may not be that lucky and so you can only speak for yourself and so what you are saying is not generally the situation.l am not advocating that black parents should leave debts behind for their children.In the west, there is social aid system,is it the same in Africa,No, there is nothing like that.lf dont have,dont have and thats why we are our brothers keeper.
Frankleen, God bless you for calling these pastors, their real name. ………CHEAP
CHALLATANS………….
They are one of the real reasons, the black race is universally despised………..
I hope our people will get wise soon……
African parents don’t knock on the door I get used to it lol. Even if you the shower they come in there and tell you to hurry up lol. It best to just ignored them and do you. Leaving with parents is good to save money . But then can be too much at times lol Things can be expensive and leaving with family member is cheaper Mexican family stay together and save there money. 5 to 10 stay together they never broke. So true nobody give you a dime so you must do what best for you.
why should parents be looking into your adult children bank account. If you want help them, help them otherwise let them go
Keep living there, you don't know…maybe one day you may inherit the house!
Triggered. I despise the culture so much especially as it relates to women
Thanks so much for the information.
And they look at you crazy when you get to a certain age with no children. Ummm maybe its because I don’t want to continue a cycle of poverty and birth a precious life into bullshit and struggle? 🤣🤣🤭🤭👀💯🤷🏾♀️ the poorest ones seem to have had the most children to smh I’m a Ghanaian American and I enjoy your content! 🙏🏾💖✨💖
It's funny…I told my son the same thing about studying and starting to work in the field he wants to be in while he's in college…PLANNING NOW and NOT AFTER the college graduation period with ZERO experience trying to start out.
good content as usual! it's even pathetic when religious leaders preach against parents making generational wealth for their children that the children will grow up to make their wealth. all in the name of emotional blackmailing and more offering. they should have done better clamouring for legitimate means of making such wealth.
Another great topic covered with very interesting an helpful perspectives. 👍
Mom and Dad didn't get like this overnight. A friend of mine knew that once she got a job they would bleed her dry. So to keep her under their control they talked about getting a mother and daughter house. Of course she would pay the mortgage without her name on the deed with them coming and going through her part of the house.
She has a boyfriend that has no prospects. People are hustling , find a part time job or a way to make extra money on the side. So many Youtube videos.. Pay off bill share a flat and expenses on the outskirts of London. Save your money and invest some of it. She saw what happened to her sister so she know whats coming. Before they kick you out get yourself together so you have options.
As long as the kids are doing what they need to better themselves when they are adults…then no wahala. There will however be reasonable rules. I can tell you that I for one…don't like my door opening at 2am or random hours in the early morning. For me…it's a safety thing. There will be rules…but it will be reasonable taking into account their age and where they are in life. If they are responsible and taking care of business…then I can tell you that the rules will be minimal.
My daughter is still staying at home, l refuse to allow her to pay for any bills. She has saved so much money to buy her own house. She is a generous and kind daughter. When the time is right she will buy her own house. The bible says parents have to leave inheritance and that's what l will be doing for both of my children. Love your show.
Financial Education/Financial Literacy is important to import into our communities
Parents should not be taking money from their children. That's child abuse!! Parenta are supposed to give to their children, they are the vulnerable one's. I thank the creator for my parents
An 11 year old boy commits suicide because his mother hated him all his life. Be careful how you treat others. Watch https://youtu.be/kAftTx1x🤕
It's good to give credit where credit is due
Christianity is imported to Africa and also education Africans got
wnt to buy land
can you furnish me with an application form for adron homes pls
Calvary pounding to dust…….😩
Be careful you don't get cursed🤣really!
Lol…jesus.
I get most of the things you are saying, but the same IFA religion you do is even worse, so there is nothing wrong with Christianity rather that particular Christian
Well, reading the comments and listening to Phrankleen. On point with the topics. Each case is different. I have friends whose daughters/children still live at home respectfully. The house is large, and are Medical doctors, there's more than adequate spaces, and they support each other and not in each other's businesses. Independent women who cover each other's backs without effort. Proud immigrants from the Caribbean. The children were born in the U S and are very successful. Not all cases are the same with overbearing parents whose hands are in their children's pockets and disrupting lives. It's the cultural mindset of the people and how they plan their lives or not. I Do Not agree with all of the guest's comments who called in. I guess he is speaking about African countries specifically. Not All black people lack knowledge re economics, investments and money management. Having Oppressive cultures and countries put people in mental slavery. Many black people are doing very well, starting out with knowledgeable parents and families. I agree, must surround yourself with knowledgeable, prepared people and yes, do not be humble, but respectful. Being confident not humble and Not yes -persons. Critical thinking is a necessity to excel in this world. Phrankleen, These Pastors🤣🤣🤣🤣. Yes, they bleed their congregants dry. Using 'the man of God' trick, charlatans, to keep families in place is, nonsense. Good conversation, loved this topic.
Creating boundaries is very important and communicating. I am 31 and live at home for now but has allowed me to save and acquire real estate assets. There are times and seasons.
I feel so sorry for your listeners on this particular view. ignorant shouldn’t be an excuse to your just human basic understanding. When a man like you thinks spiritual guidance is nothing it’s ridiculous. How can a man or woman that travelled from Africa to the UK, USA, Europe or Australia with nothing and started raising their first generation outside Africa. When they left Africa they came with nothing and you’re telling them not to boot out their adults children when they can go out there and work and earn. If this same parents have had this children in Africa where do you think they will be living? for free or job they will be doing. To be comparing a white man or woman who were born in their own Country to an African man or woman is ridiculous. A man that doesn’t have any generation wealth that has been passed down to him or her from is own parents or great grandfather. Just because your parents are of old school mentality shouldn’t be an excuse to a child born outside Africa not to prosper or make it. How can an average African parent financing a building project in Nigeria and may be also paying for mortgage Abroad should take their children excuses. Do you think all white children come from generation of wealth or have possessed a home, No, a lot of this children work through their life, from paper delivery when they are in their teens, part time work through college and university. So please, learn how to read with God’s understanding. You’re just a bloke on a YouTube. When you get ask about your daughter you were able to justify your answer. That’s exactly the same reason why another man or woman is entitled to justify their own actions. At 30, be you a man or woman you’re longtime out of my house. I arrived here at age of 23, spent over ten years before I obtained citizenship and I left parent who’s a millionaire back home in Nigeria. You can’t know life through people’s emails and think you can put your spin on every stories.
Please in USA the white people don't leave most of the white the children start paying rent once you turn 18years old so is not
Interpersonal skills it extremely important in all spheres of life. Also ensuring your children don’t have a sense of entitlement is critical to them becoming self reliant. Lastly, being prescriptive like Larry was doesn’t respect individuality. I am 56 and love clubbing and always have. I can assure him that I am a high achiever and successful to a certain degree. I delineate between ambition, career and enjoyment.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I like the way Phrankleen says Ori e ti daru
Really good discussion w Jerry