3 Tips For White Men Dating and Loving Black Women
3 Tips For White Men Dating and Loving Black Women
Are you a nonblack man pursuing or in a relationship with a black woman and feeling in over your head? Then this video is for you!
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Big up to the guys who actually sat through this video without just taking in her beauty, but actually listened 😂😂😂
I've been married to a wonderful white man for the last 30 years. My hair is natural, hip length, and while the topic of hair comes up from time to time, but not all that much. Hubby loves it, and is complementary regardless of how I'm wearing it that week. In 30 years, he's seen me in braids, twists, wigs, weaves, my natural curls, and silk pressed. We don't shair hair tools or products so while hair comes up occasionally, it's usually just in passing.
Just started listening to you. I am not dating anyone or for that matter have never dated a black woman. I just don't look at it as black and white I look at it as she is a woman that I would love to get to know period. Being almost 60 i get that I am past my prim, I would honestly just love to meet a good woman no matter what color she is. White women in today's world seem so superficial, I look at dating site profiles and I think too myself what the Hell is up with their profile. The few black women I have talked to seem so much more level headed and not stuck up. Anyway I woman just like to meet a good woman no matter what color she is. Retired Military, 24 months away from my second retirement, 6`1 232, Tampa Florida and go to EOS gym 3 to 5 days a week. Forgot also own my home and no kids. Single and looking.
first off thank you for your videos❤you are Wonderfull,well balanced and fare.i agree with you, media paints every wall with white beauty.I have always thought black women are the most beautiful women on earth.i personally never felt "in over my head" people are people.why we separate beauty is insane, also how we respect beauty is insane.as men we should make women of any color feel comfortable and safe to be who they are.in return men should be supported and respected to protect.just because we are men doesn't mean we don't need emotional structure.we are just shit at communicating that.i think most people get comfortable where they are at…."I grew up with white people so that's all I know" lol how stupid that is.that goes for both sides.if you want to see change,be the change! there is always going to be an awkward moment between races…we grew up completely different.its ok.open up to different ways of thinking.everyone wants to travel the world but very few want to embrace new ideas that the world has to offer.the sheep follow media.authentic people call it for what it is.i dub you authentic Amanda! I love you, keep up the Good work 😉
I've posted before where I've spoken about MUTUAL love, MUTUAL trust, and MUTUAL respect. I'm posting today to affirm what you are saying – affirming both to you and to others who watch this video and may see my comment.
I'm WM engaged to BW. Hair has never been a concern to me one way or another but I also respect that my fiance has self-esteem issues (that are diminishing as our realationship grows) and always wears a wig going out. She has grown to where she is comfortable in our private time wearing her hair natural without a wig. I've told her more than oncethat I am happy for her and proud of her (proud enough to introduce her as my fiance) for her growing self-esteem and self-confidence.
As to loyalty and socialization, I don't know how to separate them so – I fully understand your point about loyalty and it is valid. For me, I like to use the word commitment as that is something that is done by choice depending on how strong and healthy your relationship is and/or is growing whereas, at least for me, loyalty implies something that is almost required and I believe that a relationship should be built on MUTUAL love and MUTUAL respect and what should be able to grow from that is MUTUAL trust. I did this with my first wife of 35 yrs 6&1/2months before her untimely passing three yrs ago and am currently building a similar relationship with my current fiance based on MUTUAL love, MUTUAL trust, and MUTUAL respect.
As I eluded to before, as or relationship has and is growing I have seen her self-esteem and self confidence growing. I'm happy for her and gratified to be able to help with that. I am convinced that she is closing in on a point where she will never let anyone put her down or nake her feel bad again.
For those in relationships, interracial or not, if your relationship is worth anything thenit is also worth all the effort, all the time, and all the patience that it may take to bring your relationship together.
My fiance and I have been together for two years and engaged for one. It may be up to another year before we get married (due to practical considerations). We don't like that it may be that long but we have also talked about it (communication is important also) and are in agreement that while we are not happy with the time factor, our relstionship is WELL WORTH IT!
Keep the faith everyone and, Amanda, keep preaching the realtionship messagesas I'm sure people need to hear from you the things that my fiance and I figured out before we discovered your channel. (I suspect "preaching" may not be the right word but I can not sem to find another more appropriate word.)
I have been reflecting on a video that I recently watched and wanted to share my thoughts. As a white male, I found the video to be eye-opening and informative. Additionally, I have always found Black women who wear braids to be very attractive.
With all due respect, I think a lot of these conversations are very one sided. I understand that many women of color feel apprehension based on historical injustices but currently it seems that all the expectations are placed on the male. We have to remember that currently there is a raging culture war and to many WM it may feel unsafe to pursue these types of relationships. Imagine the prospect of entering into a community that views you as an oppressor and constantly having to mitigate those impressions. We live in a culture where if we advocate on our behalf, we often get labeled as tone-def or a supremacist.
I understand and respect the trepidation that many BW feel about entering into unions with WM. Historically we have not been the best stewards in representing humanity. Also, I can completely understand why many BW would never consider it precisely for that reason. However, we all have to take a step back and understand that harm reduction isn't exclusive to BW. The difference is that when women of color face bigotry you are encouraged to challenge it, WM are encouraged to dismiss it. A perfect example is Dr. Umar Johnson, as far as I'm aware (I could be wrong) very little is done within the community to challenge his rhetoric. It is very frightening to think that some of his biggest fans could be my future in-laws. I am not trying to draw an equivalency here. I understand that injustices directed at people of color outweigh in comparison to our dilemmas. It is just fuel for thought to explore.
I don't want to give the impression that I'm against interracial relationships because I'm absolutely not. I just think that many non-white individuals view us as these Teflon statues that navigate the world with complete confidence and a lack of emotional depth. In many ways we are just as frightened as you are!
Nice video. Married to my wife 24 years. I’ve learned a lot about black women and hair. And my youthful crushes: Nichelle Nichols, Pam Grier, BerNadette Stanis, and Diahann Carol😉I also think we ought to read some black history and Malcolm X Speaks. Blessings
I stumbled across this video and I gotta say this and I hope that it isn't offensive. When you talked about hair care (Is that the right term?) for the black woman. Well it sounds exhausting.
I think video about Black woman hair is on spot. Hair education: this is needed, especially since numerous Black woman stated that this topic is mentaly draing for them.
I personally recommend white men or any men that is interested in dating black woman to research black hair topic themselves. There is plethora of videos on YouTube about this topic or other similar issues like interracial relationships, colorism, racism etc.
Damn girl! You said a mouth full of nothing but truth! It's 2024 and it's our time to take the world by storm when it comes to interracial dating and mating. I date out and I love it. There are many wonderful quality non black men that are sweet nice and have a great deal to offer if only (some) of us can think outside the box and open up our dating options. Over the summer (I live in Los Angeles) I saw so many black ladies with non black men walking hand in hand smiling and looking happy as can be. I also saw so many black women pushing strollers with their mixed-race kids walking with their nonblack men looking happy. The world is changing and more people (especially black women) are a part of the change when it comes to interracial dating. We are taking the world by storm and that is a good thing, Amanda.
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Amanda, you are such a revolutionary in this interracial dating game. I see you as a 21st-century international global thinking lady with a progressive mindset that many black women have or are considering divesting from what many call THE PLANTATION. The information you are putting out is critical to black women who are choosing to take the road less traveled. Many of us are breaking the generational cycle of pain, poverty, and struggle with love by not only dating out, not only marrying up, not only procreating out but also getting our US Passports and traveling overseas to do it. America on so many levels is done. I predict that not since The Great Migration that we saw in the 20th century are we going to see a plethora of mass exodus of black forward-thinking women leaving America and making Europe our new home base.
Thank you Amanda😘
Great video sis. A lot of black women are divesting. This is great advice for men they may be dating.
Josephine Baker, Madame C.J Walker, Eartha Kitt are all influential women that changed history.
First thing a white guy needs to know – black girls and their family and their friends are skeptical of a white guy who is trying to date the black girl. This is no small thing. The first black girl I dated (I was 15) her dad made her dump me before I even met him BECAUSE he was horrified to learn his baby was dating a white guy. (good daddy in my book now that I am one). I dated plenty of girls (mainly white) after her but ultimately married a black woman and it was similar for a long time. Her dad wouldn't speak to me for months even though I volunteered at the food pantry he ran. Eventually, he came around because I treated his daughter well. We ended up finding a lot in common with each other. Yet still today 11 years later one of her sisters is militant doesn't like her being married to me and has said some ugly stuff about our "mixed" kids. Whatever, she's old single and medicated. Anyway – I believe you should only date a black woman if you honestly can see yourself marrying her in the not too distant future. This will take some fortitude.
The hair and etc is superficial. There is stuff to know and white boys better watch some black hair and makeup videos just to understand. You gotta love her natural, or with braids or wigs or weaves – whatever makes her feel good and make sure she knows that you find her sexy no matter what. If you only like a specific look on a black girl – you might have a fetish. If so, get a hooker and don't break a girl's heart just to satisfy your curiosity.
Once you are in it – race matters a lot less. You will still argue about trivial things that you could have argued with anyone else about. My experience is that my wife returns love a little better than the girls of my past. I think that's probably very individual.
Another incredible video @Amanda keep up the amazing work ❤ btw you look so happy! Keep up the awesome work!
She’s so pretty.
I think you were spot on, it breaks my heart when black women try to compare themselves to white women when black women are absolutely beautiful and have unique features to black women that make them highly desirable to me and all kinds of men. I thought your story about you and your boyfriend was hilarious and I definitely went through a similar situation about 6 months ago. I wanted to learn all about your beautiful hair and how to work with it as I have known for many years now I will marry a black woman and will have mixed kids and I want to be able to help my wife do her hair and our kids hair.
Hey ❤Amanda this is John Gore again!! By the way HAPPY SUPER BOWL Sunday if u r into that! I just like the half time bc it’s ENTERTAINING and music!! I couldn’t wait for your video today. U r such a beautifully attractive woman and I admire your boldness to keep the topic going on interracial dating. Ya know! I thought I was the ONLY ONE INTO THAT “ 😅😊😅 U know??? Black WOMEN BC there is no racial BONE in my body !! I am from Mississippi so yeah I grew up all around the black community and worked with a lot of black men and women and I loved them and they loved me bc I was just being me(Myself) and trying not to be someone else and they respected me and I respected them BUT I never did anything with blacks except at work. I always just went home to family and very few friends l! I am still searching for that missing LINK in my life which is to find a black woman and am actually chatting with someone online as of now BUT that does not change things such as HAVING SOMEONE to friend in the real world to date and do things with l, But I am a very PATIENT person and I wait on God to help me and I ask him for guidance so it won’t be the END OF THE WORLD if my dream never happens! By the way just asking OKAY? are u in an interracial relationship with a Man right now and has it been hard for u to find your Caucasian man too?? LOVE YOU GIRL and my heart goes with u in everything u do in life bc I LIKE U and u HAVE a Lot to say on such an interesting Topic. Have a WONDERFUL WEEK Amanda!! 😊😊😊
Well technically you should be best friends with the person you're with and who you marry because that helps to deal with some minor differences that both might have. That way it won't matter how they look with their hair etc.
Also we could really use some traditional Black or even Asian women here in Europe because there are certain villages that are sort of dying out and they need to be replenished and one of the way to do that is to encourage BWWM interracial relationships and have them move in and settle in Europe to keep the traditional family life going. (Y) :3
Why should I treat any different because of skin color ?
Very informative video Thank you I'm learning so much from you! 😊
Good vid