3 Tips Black Women MUST KNOW Before Dating Outside Your Race
3 Tips Black Women MUST KNOW Before Dating Outside Your Race
In this video, I’m sharing the 3 things I wish I had known before dating outside my race. If you’re considering dating someone of a different race, this video is a must-watch! From facing challenges to navigating class differences, I’ll share my personal experiences and lessons learned. Don’t make the same mistakes I did, watch this video and…
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Really loved this, Amanda. I randomly came upon your channel and have been watching your videos. Lol. I’m also a millennial Black woman in a relationship (married) to a white man. I used to let people make me think he had to know and understand everything about me and my culture in order to be a good spouse. But he’s already a good person and we learn from each other every day! No one will ever understand another person 100% because it’s just not possible since we can’t read minds, but it’s the effort to learn from one another that stands out to me. Love the point you made about class. I had a similar feeling of insecurity when I hung out with my husband’s family for the first time and hearing the stories of their trips and comparing it to my own family where such things didn’t exist. That was more to do with me not him, though. I’m proud of how hard I’ve worked to be where I am in life now and he’s proud of me, too. I love how we show up for each other. And honestly the longer we’re together the less I care about how others may perceive our relationship. Sorry for the novel just wanted to say amen to everything you said! 😂😂
What a great time it is to be a black lady who is in the interracial dating game. The world has changed so much in the last 80 years. People are more open mined now and more interested in exploring thier dating and mating class. More black ladies over the 20 years had obtained college degrees and experienced upward social mobility. Its 2024 and more black women are dating out, marrying up, creating beautiful mixed race/mixed cultural families. Amanda, you are the voice of the smart educated modern day black lady who has an international global mindset.😊
Thank you Amanda🥳
I had an amazing relationship with a bw about 10 years ago. We started dating after I had a break up with a ww and the difference was night and day. She always treated me well and she appreciated what i did for her. I'm happy single but if i date again it'll only be with a bw. So amazingly beautiful ❤️
Wow, this is a great subject for your video, it hit home with me. My lady and I relate, communicate and understand each other so well we can hardly believe it. We learn more about each other all the time and it's truly a beautiful thing. We really get each other. So many things could be said about what you're saying in this video.
Hi Amanda great video again. Honestly you never cease to amaze me with your words of wisdom delivered in a relaxed natural manner that draws the listener to absorb the message. As always, my friend, stay safe and keep well 🥰 <3
"If he's watched 'Friday', OMG Amanda😂, that's funny!
For the record, I HAVE seen it! 😊
Amanda, you are so awesome. Once again you have created a bold and dynamic video that will resonate with many black women who are doing what I call-LEAVING THE PLANTATION OF PAIN POVERTY AND STRUGGLE LOVE. Black women are leveling up in terms of gaining higher education thus making a higher income that will allow us to move to upper class communities and that will put us in a social circle unlike what we were born and raised in. Black women that are making moves to gain entry to polite society puts us in an environment with men of a different social/ethic class. We must learn to ajust and fit in as we date out and marry up.
Thank you Amanda😘
Hello Beautiful Queen! I just watched this video and I loved every second of it. The aspect of class is such an important point and I'm so glad that you discussed it. Thank you, as always, for giving me a fresh look at relationship topics. Have a great week, and I'm looking for your next video! xx
Another great video! You touched on some great points. Thank you so much! Keep up the great work!
Great video Amanda! I get it 100% This is so true about class but also culture of family.
My parents and my husband's parents all worked very hard to attain a home and were able to move to middle class areas when we were both small.
Neither of us come from rich families however once I met husband, I realized he was a family man. But didn't know if he had the same ideas as I did with what that meant.
I loved having my family sleep over and hang out in a group setting and I realized relationships before would get annoyed or make me feel bad about having this family dynamic.
It was part of my culture and my life partner had to understand that. Previous partners thought it was weird, but my husband saw it made me happy and totally loves it when I have my siblings over to hang for a couple days. He always tells them "Stay as long as you want cause it makes Carla happy"
Socioeconomics changed for me as although I have always maintained a great career, my husbands income was staggeringly much more than mine, and I realized that we needed to have the same ideas about money.
My husband is very generous and I am very spend concious. To the point of not getting things I may need as I was a single mom for many years. He literally has had to say "It's $50 Carla, we can afford that" 😆
Initially, his family would ask what I like and how I viewed money etc. I started to get offended until I realized his last relationhship, was someone from a wealthy family whom felt if you spend money then more money would come.
It THEN made sense.
His family wanted to ensure we were as my grandmother would say, "Equally yolked"
I wasn't going to regard his success as an "opportunity to spend" but a "respect for hard work and stability" my husband has put forward.
I guess I am saying that socioeconomic backgrounds absolutely play a huge role in dating but for me, adding the same ideas and ideals regarding money, views and how to spend it, is paramount in socioeconomic conversations.!
So glad you found an amazing partner to match your amazing spirit. I can hear respect and appreciation in your voice and the level of understanding and openess you have is heartfelt.
Appreciate these topics always Amanda ❤
I agree with you on class. I grew up poor middle-class. My mother was a teacher, and my father was a DC cop. I definitely understand what you're saying about being out of place, and I'm a WM Lol 😅
@Amanda when I first started dating interracially I thought that would be be the biggest obstacle but honestly class might be bigger because the expectations on how you spend money and how you see things in terms of affordability is so so different
I love how you are nonchalantly knitting the whole time.
Hi From Bloomington IL. I love your videos. I have just started dating a black woman for the first time. She is so great, very understanding and appreciative of me and I of her. She is more open than any other white woman I’ve dated. I love how she takes care of her skin, hair,nails. I do notice I wait on her longer cuz she’s busy with nails or hair lol.
My name is john gore and I am 50 years old and have never married, nor had kids, BUT AMANDA it's TIME before I go crazy!! lol!! ah!! it ain't that bad, lol!! BUT I love your show on INTERRRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS. I watch everyone of your videos and I like your videos, and u r okay YOURSELF. U have a wonderful, educational PERSONA!! and I love it. I am from Mississippi, and the capital Jackson where I grew up is now like 98 percent black. I have worked with a lotta black people in my jobs and I like hanging around the black community, and AMANDA I have just fallen in LOVE with the BLACK WOMAN in all respects bc I have no racial bones in my body and I am a morally Godly man. I am a PEOPLE PERSON, I have a good job, I love being a lead grocery store stocker, and for about 5 years I have been SEARCHING for my interracial mate, evening chatting with THE AFRICAN QUEENS in Africa, but I know to be careful at what I am doing online, so it is taking a lot of MY TIME which I don't really want to take this much work to find a woman. I HAVE MAINLY BEEN LOOKING ONLINE and have had some success, but still batting 0 in actually MEETING that SPECIAL SOMEONE in person just SIMPLY FOR A 1st TIME CASUAL DATE. UGH!! 🙁 I have since moved to Waynesville, NORTH CAROLINA and my family and I love it up here in the mountains, and there are a lot of INTERRAICAIL RELASHIONSHIPS in NORTH CAROLINA even more so than Mississippi. SOOOOOOOOO do have some pointers on how I CAN SPEED this process OR does NATURE JUST HAVE TO take it's COURSE? lol!! 🙂 SO sorry for the long comment. I just felt like I had to do this. REALLY ADMIRE U, YOUR SUBJECT MATTER, and your you tube show.
Mikey is a lucky guy.
HIYEA from VA beach
Hi from Fort Lauderdale FL 💛
Wow I am here early! Awesome to see a new upload!